Are there any other transgender people here who’d want to be penpals?

[Cosmicpond 6]

Hi, long time lurker with a lot of stories I’d like to share with someone who’s in the community. I’m a trans guy in my 20s (pre-bottom surgery but many years on HRT) and would love to find a friend here who’s also trans (FTM, MTF, or otherwise) and wants to share stories, fantasies etc and talk. If it matters, I’m bisexual. Preferably around my age range and would appreciate some way to confirm you’re trans, bad experiences with chasers. My favourite niches are naughty, discreet, and nonchalant peeing plus wetting. Inbox me if you’re down to chat! 

[Takashi96 1,076]

I'm not sure I meet all of your qualifications. I just love that you used the term penpals. 

[gldenwetgoose 21,495]

Can I suggest - in the strongest terms -  that you use the Peefans forum to allow an open discussion for all those that are interested.

In other words, create a topic in (eg.) Sex & Porn with a title that's suitably clear and welcoming. Or for pee related experiences, a collective post in Real Pee Encounters & Experiences with a suitably clear title would be a great place for all to contribute together.   Then use that as your community for all those who associate and ally with you to be able to support and communicate.

- It'll give you opportunity of a wider reach.

- It will allow Peefans Staff to fully support you.

- On Peefans there is no need to hide behind closed doors - you face no prejudice or criticism here.

- Peefans is a forum based on open posts just like this one.   Communications which seek to draw people off into small groups are discouraged, to the point of being addressed in site rules.

- All site rules apply to private messaging.

- Private messaging inboxes are limited in size (deliberately).  So if using for group communications you could easily run out of space and lose ability to participate.

- An open discussion will also allow those who wouldn't directly join your group to better understand and support issues you're concerned about.

- A post in the open forum can grow and stay up to date, long after this invitation / discussion post has slipped off the first page into obscurity.

 

Creating a welcoming post in a suitable area with a clear title - in Real Pee Encounters & Experiences with a clearly descriptive title or in Sex & Porn for non-pee content is clearly just as easy as setting up this post was.  If you'd like any support or advice though please just ask and staff will be happy to help.

[Cosmicpond 6]

14 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Can I suggest - in the strongest terms -  that you use the Peefans forum to allow an open discussion for all those that are interested.

In other words, create a topic in (eg.) Sex & Porn with a title that's suitably clear and welcoming. Or for pee related experiences, a collective post in Real Pee Encounters & Experiences with a suitably clear title would be a great place for all to contribute together.   Then use that as your community for all those who associate and ally with you to be able to support and communicate.

- It'll give you opportunity of a wider reach.

- It will allow Peefans Staff to fully support you.

- On Peefans there is no need to hide behind closed doors - you face no prejudice or criticism here.

- Peefans is a forum based on open posts just like this one.   Communications which seek to draw people off into small groups are discouraged, to the point of being addressed in site rules.

- All site rules apply to private messaging.

- Private messaging inboxes are limited in size (deliberately).  So if using for group communications you could easily run out of space and lose ability to participate.

- An open discussion will also allow those who wouldn't directly join your group to better understand and support issues you're concerned about.

- A post in the open forum can grow and stay up to date, long after this invitation / discussion post has slipped off the first page into obscurity.

 

Creating a welcoming post in a suitable area with a clear title - in Real Pee Encounters & Experiences with a clearly descriptive title or in Sex & Porn for non-pee content is clearly just as easy as setting up this post was.  If you'd like any support or advice though please just ask and staff will be happy to help.

Thanks, that makes sense and I’m sorry to have misused the topic. I misunderstood the rules about asking for off site communication. I guess I was apprehensive about sharing because I’m afraid of being objectified or fetishized for being transgender as it’s happened to me many times in the past, but I’m happy to hear that the staff is on alert for that. Thanks for responding, if you’d like to merge or move? the topic or otherwise remove it that’s good for me, I don’t want to encourage breaking site rules. I’m new to forums so not totally sure how everything works. Appreciate all that staff do! 

[gldenwetgoose 21,495]

No worries at all @Cosmicpond - there's many different aspects to our fetish, but the one thing we have entirely in common is misunderstanding and unwillingness to understand from those who don't share our interest.  And for that reason we stand together with all who are 'one of us'.   You'll see on the site here those who's interests may not tick all of the boxes, but we have 100% respect for.

There isn't an issue with people, once they have developed friendships on the site here, taking that friendship forwards in 'real world' ways (and I'd be a hypocrite if I suggested otherways) - but launching immediately into a PM group isn't necessarily optimum.

The title on this thread can easily be amended if you've got a suggestion, and have this as the hangout place itself ?   (You'll note that Admin has already moved it across to the General Chat area).

(And thanks !!!)

[Ms. Tito 2,396]

On 8/3/2024 at 7:30 PM, Cosmicpond said:

Hi, long time lurker with a lot of stories I’d like to share with someone who’s in the community. I’m a trans guy in my 20s (pre-bottom surgery but many years on HRT) and would love to find a friend here who’s also trans (FTM, MTF, or otherwise) and wants to share stories, fantasies etc and talk. If it matters, I’m bisexual. Preferably around my age range and would appreciate some way to confirm you’re trans, bad experiences with chasers. My favourite niches are naughty, discreet, and nonchalant peeing plus wetting. Inbox me if you’re down to chat! 

I think I fit all the criteria!