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[steve25805 126,156]

@janedoe

Perhaps you are right on the charity idea but a few may just respond.

I suppose I am a non-judgemental compassionate guy who also has an innate thing about helping "damsels in distress". Maybe it is a bit too romantic a notion, but if it only helped a fraction it would be worthwhile. Not all street hookers have pimps behind them, least not in my city. After all, I did have an ex-prostitute for a friend a while back who was naturally clued up about the situation locally.

[steve25805 126,156]

@steve25805 You mentioned having some insight which is what made me curious why your response seemed so "romantic", but int he end no damage is done. I think we can conclude that it is a very difficult situation and the solution to the most horrible things has nothing to do with directly influencing the "business" at all as the root lies somewhere else. Prostitution is just a place where you can see symptoms of what goes wrong so clearly and unpleasantly like nowhere else.

My response is borne of an intense desire to help those who are hurting or in a bad place, and a desire to believe that such help is possible, that a little kindness and virtue can go a long way. Naive perhaps, but I guess that says more about me than it does about prostitution.

[Scot_Lover 1,878]

My response is borne of an intense desire to help those who are hurting or in a bad place, and a desire to believe that such help is possible, that a little kindness and virtue can go a long way. Naive perhaps, but I guess that says more about me than it does about prostitution.

This the way I am too, maybe old fashioned, open doors for women, stand up on a crowded train, tram or bus, or even to get shopping for a single mum because her kids are sick. Women are people too, mutual respect goes a long way. Great thread guys, best I've seen in a while.

[steve25805 126,156]

Would you do all those things for a guy as well? Just curious, I don't want to derail the topic :)

I am a genuinely helpful and compassionate guy who would definitely help another guy in need. But I would not necessarily feel the same intensity of desire to as I would with a lady. I have an old-fashioned streak which causes me to want to rush to the defence of ladies in distress. I suppose I have something of a "damsels in distress" complex. If I see a lady suffering or in a bad place I feel a tremendous compulsion to help, my heart almost feeling her pain or at least imagining it. I want deep down to still be the true gentleman who stands up for the ladies, to defend their honour and help them out of bad situations. I feel angst when I see a lady suffering.

No way would I just walk on by if I saw another male in difficulties - I would definitely help - but my protective instincts and intense desire to help would be less intense.

Not sure if any of this is good or bad. But it is me. And it is honest.

[steve25805 126,156]

Sure is, thanks for being upfront about it. I really don't want to derail the topic though, I just noticed that quite a few guys seem to display such a "damsels" complex as you put it. Seldomly one asks the "damsel" though. As I said, I don't want to derail this, maybe just food for thought :)

If you like, you can start another thread if you wish to discuss that aspect further. I cannot be around too long this evening though so might not get to respond to it til tomorrow.

[Scot_Lover 1,878]

Would you do all those things for a guy as well? Just curious, I don't want to derail the topic :)

Yes, you need to care for everyone ....... although in a few cases I've been ripped up and thought why bother? One lady gave me an ear bashing once for holding a door open, screaming at me that I didn't think she could manage, another one was blind guy trying to cross a city street, thought I was going to wear his white cane on that one ....... but doing good outweighs the bad, it was the way I was bought up, to always show respect to who ever you met. Can't explain it really, as Steve has said, it's just me.

[sven22 60]

If it were possible,i would tell guys to not ever visit an escort.Its too easy.After a break-up years ago,i got into it,and i do regret it in way.Ive really managed to conquer it,apart from one lapse,after years.Its ok i guess,as i used to quite often,not have sex,but just enjoy 30 mins or so with a naked woman,who has no hang ups,and let it all go..like the peeing,no g/f ive ever had would let me watch her pee,so,to experience my interest,ive had to buy the time,but it was nice all the same.But,if youre not getting any guys,just visit Miss Palmer,she never lets you down,and gives it away free!:thumbsup:

And she's got 5 daughters.

[F.W 5,734]

Im glad this topic raised many interesting issues.As it always does.