Pee Hesitation

[fguhgrxci 1]

Any tips for how to help with pee hesitation while wearing bottoms? My mind makes it really hard to focus on peeing while wearing a bathing suit, especially in a pool or the ocean. I’d really like to partake as it’s the only thing I feel comfortable doing rn. 
Im also a very nervous pee-er, so that may be part of the issue. 

[hold_on 116]

Hi! Maybe try to identify what makes you nervous about peeing and then try to minimize that while you pee in the suit.

[gldenwetgoose 20,253]

I think it is a very common thing, you're not alone in the slightest -

We've all (I'm generalising there) been potty trained since childhood. That is, our parents or carers have taught us we don't just wet ourselves anywhere and everywhere, but we keep control of our bladders to the point of being on a toilet or at least in a situation where we've removed clothing to pee.

So suddenly trying to command your bladder to pee when you've still got clothes on causes that internal struggle within your brain, where you want to pee but your brain says you can't whilst clothed.   The same thing can occur as I understand it when peeing outside or in company, when people become 'pee shy'.  Even on professional porn videos you'll see a lot of hesitation and concentration before the actors manage to start a stream. 

My suggestion would be to practise at home - maybe go to the toilet but keep panties on and just tell your brain it's ok, and progress to standing in the shower and wetting them. Reward yourself when you achieve it.  Also it'll probably help if on the beach you're fairly desperate rather than just slightly wanting to go. 

[Bacardi 9,136]

So, I have never really wet my pants because wetting isn't my thing, buy I do hesitate a lot if I'm peeing somewhere that isn't conventional like the toilet or bathtub. 

Firstly, I had to train my bladder that it's okay to pee anywhere else. I did that by letting the tiniest bit go in my underwear at random times. Not enough to soak them, not even enough to feel it. Just enough to tell my bladder that I didn't always need to hold it until I got to a toilet. 

Secondly, I had to get over my general nervousness. Any time I wanted to have a naughty pee (in your case, in a bathing suit in a body of water) I would have thoughts firing left and right telling me it was wrong, I shouldn't pee here, etc. I knew I could physically do it, I just had to get my brain to communicate with my bladder and let it go. It mostly was a hold up because I am a very paranoid person thinking someone is watching me at all times, when in reality, especially in the ocean, no one is going to notice. Once I relax it usually is pretty easy. 

I wish you the best of luck!

[Jason Basin 40]

I can relate to this.  I'm into bed wetting and I can do that no problem but if I try to deliberately pee in my trousers there is some kind of thing stopping me!  As though it's a bad thing -  It's really frustrating! I just want to let it go but something isn't letting me!  I wish you the best of luck too......

[Foobar 690]

For me the first place I wanted to pee where I'm not supposed to was the shower. I couldn't make my body to do it. One day I drank lots of water, waited until I really needed to go, then I jumped in the shower. I still couldn't pee, or so I thought, but after the shower my bladder was completely empty, so I must've emptied it during. That broke my inhibition and now I can pee at will.