What has surprised you the most about our fetish?

[steve25805 125,657]

1 hour ago, likesToLick said:

It seems to be a common misconception that pee sex is a BDSM thing,  but in real life I would say it is less so.

Certainly there seem to be more "fun and friendly" pee sex fans in this forum,  compared to those who like humiliation, domination and such.

Yes that is the typical straight mind perception, that we are all sub-dom humiliation fetishists.

Am sure that is because people not into pee cannot conceive of being peed on as anything other than humiliating, therefore it must be about humiliation is the assumption. Clearly they don't understand us at all.

 

[mcdky 93]

11 hours ago, likesToLick said:

It seems to be a common misconception that pee sex is a BDSM thing,  but in real life I would say it is less so.

Certainly there seem to be more "fun and friendly" pee sex fans in this forum,  compared to those who like humiliation, domination and such.

I went to a meeting of the local Fetlife group, and it seems like they have generic “kink” parties where maybe someone will decide to do golden showers, maybe not, maybe it will just be people spanking each other. Frustrating if you have a specific fetish that’s not bondage-related.

[gldenwetgoose 21,442]

Something that’s just occurred to me... not so much a surprise about the fetish but more something I love about this site. 

Looking at many of the videos on other fetish sites, there’s such degrading and derogatory language used by their creators. I guess trying to sensationalise and stimulate a certain audience. I hate to see the words like “slut”, “slag”, “bitch” and then the descriptions using terms like “fat” or “ugly”. Then there’s “teens” or “co-eds” for ladies who are clearly well into their 20’s if not older. 

In contrast I absolutely love the respect, the positivity and the realism we all use in this community.  I know we’d be in danger of breaking the rules if we didn’t but it feels like it’s not just for that reason - it feels more inherent than that. 

[navesink01 157]

I am surprised that it is so difficult to find a like minded person with whom to share.  Yes, forums like this allow us to share with like minded people, and that is a blessing.  However, if you actually wish to meet someone, there really is not much out there to assist in matching.  

In my own experience, finding a like minded person has been both a blessing, a rarity, and not planned.  It is hard to explore with the uninitiated, and the results are mixed.  I have never started a relationship, much less an encounter, based on this fetish.  I have sometimes, and not always, arrived at a revealing moment, which is always fraught with acceptance anxiety.  On the plus side, no one has reacted with disgust.  However, very few have fully embraced it.  My ex-wife did, and I always appreciated that, despite the other shortcomings of the relationship.  Her enjoyment probably exceeded mine (particularly full bladder orgasms).  A few other relationships or encounters revealed an interest, but it was like winning a lottery ticket. Most just dismiss it as my quirk and leave me wondering how one ever finds these people.

[Guest UnabashedUser]

Sometimes you just get lucky. A girl I met in college surprised me one night while we were making out in a parked car on a cornfield access road.

We'd been out at a bar and had been consuming beer and both had to go while we were frantically making out.

She was very amiable to continuing, even on the first date, and as I got to the panty removal part of the scenario, she turned to me and said:

"Let me out of the car because I really have to winkie-tinkie and then we can continue " as she removed a couple of tissues from her purse and stepped out beside the car, leaving the door open.

She then hikes up her skirt, steps of her panties, and looks me right in the eye as she gets ready to let go her pee, one hand on the car door for balance, the other spreading open her succulent pussy.

"Oh Jim if you want to watch it's ok with me, " she smiled as if she knew what horny guys like to see. I think she was a bit of  voyeur even at the first date stage.

Her gusher was long and forceful and she made little grunts of satisfaction as her bladder drained and as the last drops exited her greedy pussy she gave a sigh of relief, dabbed at her slit with the tissue, reached around the back to catch any secret drips that may has annointed her bunhole, then threw the tissue into the ditch.

Getting back into the car she slid over the seat and said:  "Did you enjoy my pee Jim?"

Yes I did and also enjoyed the taste of her pee remnants as I ate her delicious pussy and her drippings when she came like a racehorse on my face.

My first bigtime experience in the fetish although I'd seen girls peeing in other situations, it wasn't a sexual situation and one that really turned me on.

She and I had other dates, sometimes pee would happen, other times not but it was always a wonderful time with Patty.

 

[jaydan97 37]

Without a doubt, how popular it is. I didn't realise how many different things there was too do with it and its thanks to my girlfriend I even explored this fetish at all. But coming online and finding places like this and seeing how common it really is has made it so much more enjoyable for some reason..

[I love my pissing wife 189]

On 9/13/2020 at 9:30 AM, PissFanOmega said:

Actually I had a few realizations over the many years I've been on the internet, and able to actually find out things:

1. Pretty common

2. Chicks are into it more than I thought

3. Watching a chick self-pee became a turn-on for me

And less about the media, but more about the kind of sheltered place I live in:

4. Nobody local to me has ever mentioned being into it, or even interested in it. If anything, locals where I'm at go out of their way to demonize people who like it.

But what has surprised me?

I think just the fact that there was more to it than I personally experienced. Self-pee is a good example; until I started watching pee porn, I didn't know it was a thing, but once I saw it, I was hooked on it, and wanted to see more.

I was also genuinely surprised that some people (women specifically is what I found at the time) who drink it, whether it's their own or a partner's. At one time, I saw a clip that Audrey Hollander had done, where she'd drank something from a glass, and then pissed in it, then drank her fresh piss as well. This was all one continuous shot, and I think that was the first time I'd seen it.

Aside from that, I can't think of anything that has actually surprised me.

I completely agree with many things you pointed out.  I discovered self pee the same way and was instantly turned on by it.  I am currently in the process of getting my wife to do it any day, and hopefully recording it. 

I've been more and more vocal with friends about it...I used to be terrified to say a peep.  I feel it's becoming more acceptable and much more porn accessible over the last several years. 

I also have become picky over the years with the way it comes out of a woman. A powerful stream is wayyyy hotter than a mess of fluid just running out in no set pattern. I also learned the sound adds considerably to my enjoyment.  Men are virtually silent compared to women and something about the various sounds based on what is in the way of the stream is such a turn on. At the same time, I occasionally find the lack of a powerful stream hot depending on the circumstance.

I never thought I'd want to have a woman pee while I'm going down on them but as I've matured, it is more of a turn on. My wife mostly does it for me and does it WELL. She certainly doesn't have anywhere near the level of arousal that I have from our adventures, but I'm hoping maybe that'll change the more we keep going at it. I'm a very patient person about it, but certainly would be bummed if it was a no-no part of our relationship. I know without a doubt, she will never drink any urine or get it in her face/mouth.  I can live with that given the level we're at now.  Ultimately, I am just ecstatic the fetish seems to be less and less taboo as time passes, helping all of our partners be more curious about getting involved.