I have had plenty of relationships where my person didn’t know. It was fine, but I was never fulfilled (quite literally, not once) and always hated that I was into pee. I tried to tell an ex-girlfriend but got a hard red light so I didn’t actually tell her. Now, 7 years into marriage - my (soul mate) husband and I do pee stuff almost daily, and it’s fucking fantastic. He wasn’t into it more than just to make me happy when I first told him (I eased him into it) but he’s gradually come to seriously enjoy it himself, and now it turns him on as much as (or maybe more than) it does for me 🙂 I’d sa