Midwesttwindad24

I’ve always been a sports guy for hobbies, especially hockey and have played going on 30 years now.   The never ending hobby is golf too.  

I think I answered on another similar post me living out my original fantasy about 12 years ago, meeting up with a like minded girl who happened to live 8 blocks away from me for the whole purpose of watching her pee her jeans.  At the time I still hadn’t ever seen it live, including my wife.   So I feel blessed in that sense. 
 

but this means a new fantasy, which I can’t ever see happening.  But I used to travel a lot for work, and still do somewhat today.  I always capped off each night with a glass of wine in the bar and had a few conversations with women also at the bar.  One time, about 3 years ago, I was talking with a lady a few years older than me for about 3 hours that night.   Recently divorced mom and made it pretty obvious she loved using work travel away from the kids as an excuse for NSA hookups because of the thought of never seen the guy again.   At the time, I couldn’t bring myself to physically cheat on my wife so I did remove myself.   

But that got me thinking of a new fantasy:   Traveling and having an engaging conversation with a lady in a hotel bar, knowing you both aren’t going to see each other ever again.  So both her and I open up to each other about our kinks, and she comes up to my room just to wet her pants on purpose.   
 

For sure a long shot which is why I’m totally fine keeping this categorized as a fantasy 
 

Curious if you’ve talked to your wife about it since it happened and if she’s willing to explore further?

my first was with my wife when I told her on our honeymoon.  We got back to our hotel room that night and she stood in the bathtub to let me watch her pee.   I did get to take it one step further and put my penis in her stream.   
 

just the start though

Anyone can answer but this is probably targeted with those that have a spouse or significant other who does not share a pee fetish. 
How often would that person still engage in pee activities with you, and what do they include (if any at all?)
 

This last week my wife randomly wanted to pee her pants for me as part of a fun evening.  I wish I could say that happens a lot but maybe 2-3 times per year.    She never sees a problem with me just watching her pee if we’re both in the bathroom, or just stepping into the bath or shower naked and pee standing to let me watch.   There are definitely things she won’t do and I respect that but it does make me wonder if other non pee turned on partners will consistently engage or if it’s a once in a rare time occurrence?

I feel fortunate that I in a way lived out my fantasy(ies).  I met up with a random girl for the whole purpose of watching her pee her jeans.  

@Sophie I’ll try one more follow up then, since you seem to love being asked questions.   
 

since it feels like wetting yourself is your main kink with the fetish, how often do you find yourself wetting your pants on purpose for fun?  And do you like to do it alone or have your husband watch?  Like “hey honey I’m going to to pee my pants right now, want to watch?”
 

@Sophie 

pee related:  what was your first pee related experience when you were exploring your interests and fetish

non pee related: what’s the most challenging and frustrating thing(s) about being a moderator on a site like this?

I agree with how many different forms it could come in.   Like my own pee doesn’t turn me on at all or even the thought of drinking a girl’s pee.  Now if I was eating her out and it happened, I’d probably go with it. Lol.   
 

Depends on if they know about your fetish or not.  
 

if they don’t, then I might ask them what turns them on and offer up anything they want to try showing them that you are willing to try anything for them.  

If they do know, work it into what feels good for them too.  For example, my wife’s kink is using her toy in front of me.    I won’t go into any details but basically she’ll pee on purpose when she cums.  We both get our fix and take it from there.    
 

common theme is find out what she wants and that you’ll make it all about them too 

10 girls for me.  All between the ages of 18-21 and have been with my wife ever since

Hi Bonnie.   
 

welcome, and glad to see the willingness to experiment and see what happens from there.  
 

Per your post, what sports do you like?

Just yesterday on the golf course.  It was hot and humid, so the water was flowing like crazy.   
 

I’ve never used a port-a-potty on the golf course so I snuck off the tee box and aimed into the trees.   Where the naughty part comes in is the previous fairway and green is in the same direction of me peeing, with the fairway downhill.   
 

So IF the group behind me which included 2 guys and 2 girls would have been approaching the green, they would have seen me from the backside peeing away

This is one that I would definitely limit myself and hold back.   Since my wife knows about my per fetish, if we were out with friends and one of our friends was peeing, it wouldn’t be a good conversation if I went over to join them

Great topic!

How you described your spouse is exactly how I would describe my wife.   We’ve been married 13+ years and I told her about being turned on by her peeing during our honeymoon.  Our sex life doesn’t always involve pee, but she’s willing to indulge sparingly.   Now she knows that if she wants me immediately turned on how to do so, and has done things like text me when I’m at the gym at night and say “I have to pee and I just put on jeans”

But to be fair to her, if she does it for me then I just have to make sure I don’t cheat her out of what she wants too.   But there also plenty of times that she makes it clear she’s not in the pee sex mood as well too

Hi @Filloni   First off, don’t let this one time incident make you feel any less self-worth.   Reading this I can tell how much this is on your mind.   
 

Also, shame on this other guy and not just for doing this knowing you had a boyfriend right in the same location, but not taking into account how this could make you feel emotionally as well as knowing this probably wouldn’t have happened while you were drunk?
 

I understand how you feel you might want to tell your boyfriend bc it’s the right thing to do, but what I would challenge you to ask yourself is how do you think your boyfriend will react to you?  None of us know that except for you.  Would he blame you just as much as the other guy?  Would he give you a pass knowing you were drunk?   Would he allow himself to forgive you or would he continue to hold this over your head?   If this is a one time incident and you would be concerned the answer would be yes to any of the questions above, then I would probably not mention it.   That said, there is accountability from your end too and that’s probably ensuring you stay away from this other guy going forward since he doesn’t seem to respect your boundaries.   If you can commit to yourself that you don’t put yourself in these situations, then I would say allow yourself a pass, don’t beat yourself up over it, build yourself up that you are loyal to your boyfriend, but set boundaries for yourself and encourage your boyfriend to share his boundaries too, so you can respect them.   
 

hope this helps 

This is a far reach question, but am also confident this is the right forum to ask.   I mean i won’t be asking this question at the bar anytime soon.

Through personal chats/experiences/stories/ and videos it seems a female will have a different look to peeing her pants.   Anatomy is different, some are dribblers, some are sprayers, some are streamers and that all leads to how different it would be if they pee themself.  So my question is what does peeing your pants look like for you (or your significant other)?
 

For example:  my wife has hers dribble down the inside of both legs and then will appear in the front once it hits her knees.   The other girl that peed herself for me many years ago had the pee immediately flood the front of one leg before moving to the other leg.    I’m sure we’ve all seen videos where the crotch immediately floods, and some videos where there’s nothing in the front, but then the entire back is soaked.   
 

so what does it look like for you or your significant other?    Could be an interesting discussion

I made a previous post detailing my wife and I doing the same thing on a few bets where she had to pee her pants.   
 

I might suggest that bc that could have the more humorous perspective, and then gauge her to see how she liked it.   Otherwise doing anything like daring her to pee on you could show all of your cards too quickly.   Just my thoughts though

2 and 8 for me, with a perfect 10 on this image.   

@Sophie great experience for you (and your husband) and I commend your articulate writing skills to tell the whole story.   Nice job!

That reminded me of one of the first times my wife ever peed her pants for me.  She was in the bathroom and asked me to come in for a second.   She was standing in the tub as I came in, and started talking to me.   Out of no where she just stopped and smiled.  I looked down to the wet spot on her pants stream down her legs, and all she said was “oops”

I have, not from this site though, on 2 separate occasions many years ago as a younger horned up early 20’s kid.  
 

the first experience was not good.   It was more of I was desperate to see a girl pee her pants, and never had before.   Was willing to go to the extreme and she was willing.   (How pathetic does that sound?).   When we met up, she had just peed and was in the process of filling up her bladder, so it was a few hours of awkward conversation.   Of course today having matured I’d be all about the conversation and dialogue.   When it was all said and done she did a small wetting into some sweatpants and I was out maybe 5 minutes later.   
 

The 2nd experience was about 2 years later.  Was chatting with someone from the same state as me, and as we continued messaging, we realized we were not only in the same metropolitan area, but the same suburb, and then realized we were 8 blocks away from each other.    I met her and her husband informally, with great laughs and conversations of many topics.    About a week later they invited me over to watch her pee her jeans.   Great wetting, and surprisingly, didn’t feel awkward knowing I was in the bathroom with his wife watching her pee herself, while her husband stayed in the living room.   
 

today, as a married man and father of young kids, I actually don’t know if I would meet up with anyone in person, but very much wanting to engage in 1-1 conversations here.   And not to harass or bombard our  female members (hopefully that doesn’t happen here) but just have very open 1-1 chats asking/answering questions and sharing experiences 

@steve25805

thanks for the welcome my man.   There are so many aspects of life that take an “I don’t give a fuck attitude”.   A woman peeing her pants just happens to be one of them for me.   Haha

@Adyguy6970 I haven’t.    My own pee really doesn’t turn me on.   It’s more about watching

Hello everyone -

I don’t want to reinvent the wheel from my profile, but I also believe in full transparency and openness in hopes it leads to a few 1- 1 connections with open and comfortable engagement.   
 

I love hearing about different aspects to the pee fetish.  My kink has always been a girl peeing her pants.  Where I might be different to some is it’s not really about the desperation or losing control and having an accident.   For me it’s her saying “I’m going to stand here and pee my pants because I want to.”   
 

The only person I’ve ever told this to is my wife.  She isn’t into it at all, but will indulge what feels like once or twice per year.   Before we had kids, we would shower together everyday and she always just casually said “hey look I’m peeing” and would let me play with her stream.   But she’ll purposely pee her pants rarely, and we really don’t talk about it much.   Not saying it’s right to go behind a spouse, but that’s where forums like this come into play where we can talk openly and freely without judgement.   
 

from another site, I met 2 women many many years ago who were willing to pee their pants for me.    The first experience was awful for many reasons, but it was more about getting the monkey off of my back and finally seeing someone pee her pants.    The 2nd one was interesting where we discovered we lived only 8 blocks from each other.    Her and her husband invited me over to watch her pee her jeans which was the big fantasy.   
 

I’ll stop there for now, but looking forward to reading some posts and hopefully engaging in 1-1 chats with some of you