PissDude

Pretty much my entire life, I've been turned on by girls getting desperate and hoping to see them relieve themselves. As for myself, it depends. When I'm out of the house or around others I don't like it. When I'm alone and won't be bothered, I can turn myself on by holding it in for a while. But then again, part of the pissing fetish for me is I enjoy being stimulated when I need to take a leak.

I know Alan Shepherd on the first Mercury flight was 6 hours behind schedule and had a bunch of coffee had to piss in his suit. It was a 15 minute flight, but the safety culture set him hours behind. 
 

I remember reading years ago about a passenger in a plane who had to take a leak and the flight attendant wouldn’t let him get up so he pissed in a barf bag. 

No. The kind of trips I do I plan rest stops, and we don’t make many trips. My wife and I have three boys between us. 
 

 But when I was in the Navy  in the 90’s, I did keep at least a roll of TP in my rack for myself. Our entire berthing of 90 got 8 rolls a day, and we ran out frequently. It was a great idea to have a personal reserve. 

For me it’s the sensation of how being stimulated when I have pressure in my bladder feels so good. But I also find it sexy and intimate when women need to relieve themselves and are willing to do it in front of you. That hasn’t happened since I was little except in Internet pictures and videos, but still…  It’s hot for me. 

I had one moment last year when my wife criticized “guys who like to watch women pee”. I shut the bedroom door and gave her a complete discourse on where I stood with the subject. Unfortunately, my wife’s memory is not good and she can’t recall that exchange, which may be for the best. But I told her about my childhood experiences and how I equated bladder pressure with sexual pleasure. It really is like an orgasm in how it builds and has to be let out or it will let itself out. I explained how I thought it is sexy and intimate to relieve together. But I also said I won’t refuse, but I won’t ask. I spoke at length but she has no recollection of the conversation. It’s probably for the best. 

I’ve heard of something called “truck driver bladder” where you hold too long and lose elasticity of your bladder muscles. 

On 10/29/2023 at 12:26 AM, transmanSigurd said:

My pee fantasies are quite difficult to satisfy because I want to piss on someone and have him drink my piss, but I don't want to be "dominant" or to make it into something negative like a punishment. Drinking piss is so strongly associated with degradation that it'll be difficult to find someone who is willing to take part in the other side of this fantasy without seeing it as degradation. Meanwhile, I don't get excited about getting pissed on. I really just want a piss-lover partner who gets aroused by piss from my pussy and takes the initiative with piss sex.

I squirt and leak piss when my pussy is stimulated, and I get much more intense orgasms with sex while my bladder is full. Pissing during sex is losing control to pleasure to me, and I see squirt as my version of cum. I dream of having a partner who loves to drink piss directly from my pussy. My piss is clear and fresh because I'm very well hydrated and I don't have habits that make my pee smell bad. My partner stops me randomly throughout the day and takes off my pants and underwear to lick my pussy whenever he's thirsty. Even better if I go around the house with my pussy exposed so I'm always ready to get licked and fucked. He tells me to get into the position he wants and sucks my clit while using his fingers to stimulate my vagina and bladder. I can't hold my piss with the pleasure and start leaking a stream of piss right into his mouth. As I get closer to orgasm the volume of piss increases until I cum into his mouth with an intense squirt. I can only lie or stand there shaking in bliss as he cleans the droplets of piss from my pussy. After he's done, he either puts his cock into my mouth or pussy so he can cum, or goes right back to what he was doing as if it's completely normal to use my pussy as a drinking fountain.

Another fantasy of mine is that this partner is fascinated by my piss in general and always intrudes on me while I'm pissing. Besides drinking my piss, he asks me to do things that let him enjoy my piss more, like positioning myself so that he can see the stream clearly, taking videos of me pissing (without sharing them) and making me piss on objects that he wants to drench in my piss. I'm not interested in making a mess and pissing on things that are difficult to clean, but if my partner asks me to piss on food and eats it, it's a turn on for me.

Piss sex is way hotter with specific situations and clothes. I fantasize about situations like being dressed in expensive tailored suits at a formal event with my partner, and sneaking off to have squirting and piss drinking sex while trying to not get piss on ourselves. As well as relaxing by a dimly lit swimming pool at night and pulling my swim briefs to the side so my partner can get a drink discreetly.

I can’t speak for others, but for me anticipation is the best part. Let him know you have to take a leak. If you don’t go right away, narrate the building up to involuntary relief. 

How long have you been holding? How much did you drink? Answer that and go ahead. Give us a report of how much and how good it felt. 

I’ve said several times that the problem with fantasies is they work great in our own heads where everybody wants to please us and will cooperate.  They fail apart in reality where people have their own interpretation and free will. That said, I get turned on by pressure in my own bladder and would love to spend time with a female who feels the same. I have no idea how it would go because I’ve never experienced it. I imagine it would involve us both drinking and filling our bladders and talking about how much we need relief. We could play who can hold it the longest or who can hold the most. Maybe “kiss it and make it better”. Who knows? It’s never happened for me. 

I’ve never pissed in a car, but I came close once. I left work back in the days when I drank coffee all day long. It was snowing, and traffic was bad. I got seriously desperate. I thought about pulling out the Rubbermaid container I took for lunch to piss in. Somehow I was able to take a shortcut through a parking lot to get through traffic and make it home. I pissed forever. But I enjoy seeing stories of those (especially women) who have pissed in their cars. 

I don’t see much of it, but I don’t seek “porn” far outside of this site. I know what I’m into and what doesn’t interest me, and this site is a “safe space” for what I need.  

Not my thing. I do it at night when I sleep naked, but never thought about it otherwise. But we all have our unique take on the pissing fetish. 

The problem with fantasies is they work great in your own mind where everyone else wants to please you and follows your direction exactly. They tend to fall apart when real people with their own biases get involved. 
 

That said, my thing (which I have never had the chance to try with anyone else) is that to be stimulated with some pressure in my bladder is freaking hot. It feels better than anything else to me. I love it. But I’ve accepted I’m not likely to meet a woman who is interested in it. That makes it hard to define my fantasy exactly because I’m sure it would change if I did. But I’m married and I won’t cheat. 
 

So to put it simply, I’d love to start with mutually filling up and playing with each other to see if she also felt that being stimulated with pressure in her bladder felt as good as it does for me. Maybe letting a little bit out along the way which I also like to do to keep it under control. Maybe even having sex while desperate (I did this once; hard to time but hot). I also thought it would be hot to relieve ourselves while inside of each other. I heard somebody talk about this. Then pissing in front of each other. 
 

But I’ve accepted it’s all fantasy for me. I told my ex wife about part of my fantasy and she used it against me so I’m kind of gun shy about doing it again. 

It’s been years, but when my children were little and my ex wife took them and left me at home, I would use their diapers for myself. Obviously they didn’t fit me, but I would ejaculate into them then relieve myself. It was great. 

I kind of enjoy the anticipation, so some voiceover about how much you have to go followed by a payoff is cool. 

In the late 90's, I broke my arm at work and was taken to the hospital. After going through the ER I finally got put in a room. Within a few hours, I seriously needed to take a leak. I was in a two person room. A nurse came in and I asked where the bathroom was. She said I wasn't allowed to get up and brought me a urinal, then left the curtain opened (seriously, are nurses specifically trained to never close a curtain?) I put the hospital urinal in place, but could not go laying down for some reason even though I was at my limit. I finally got up, went around the bed, closed the freaking curtain, and stood in front of the window holding the urinal with my one good arm. I damn near filled it.

I ended up having to follow this process for the rest of my stay. Side note, I did get a sponge bath, but the nurse made my clean my own privates. And of course, the curtain was open because nurses never close them.

I've made it an entire day using a bottle.

In the shower, I've pushed my dick down on my leg or up onto my abdomen a few times and let go. I don't think to do it much.

I don't have a lot of freedom since I live with my wife and children. But I've never been interested in pissing in places I'll have to clean up afterward or worry about a smell. I go in the shower every time. Sometimes I'll even time my showers for having a full bladder, which is awesome. I'll go in the sink occasionally. I also keep a Gatorade bottle under my bathroom sink and every now and again I'll go in that to measure.  I find it funny how much more I can hold when I'm drinking alcohol. If I'm just drinking water and coffee, desperation is about 10-14 oz. When I'm drinking, I can fill that bottle all the way up and keep going.

Just a curious question, especially for the women who like to go in various places in their houses or apartments: is it just a casual thing where you get the first feeling that you need relief so you just go where you're at? Or do you plan it and hold your bladder for a while so you can take a really good leak?

I don't like holding out in public. When I'm alone it can be exciting. I don't usually have a plan. I just look at how long I'll be alone for and start filling up. Then I come to this site or go into my picture and video collection. Or I'll revisit some fantasies or experiences from the past and let them run in my head while I do my thing.

Depends.  I like it to be real, so a woman who needs relief is fine with me as long as she is real. 

11 hours ago, PissPrince97 said:

Has anyone ever been to a piss party? 
I would love to buy a large house or perhaps an old church and have it designated for frequent piss parties where guess can piss anywhere they want. Open fucking and bdsm play would be allowed and obviously consent would be strictly enforced but the main premise of the event would be piss related.

We could play games to see who could shoot their piss the furthest, who could produced the yellowest stains of on walls and furniture, who could put out candles with stream accuracy, and who could fill random containers with the most piss. There could also be a who can piss in the most unique place in the entire house. Bathrooms would be available for doing number 2 but pissing will be encouraged to be done out in the open. I always wanted to run a kink/sex club and the more I think of it the more I want it be piss themed.
 

I’ve had fantasies about this. A party where people are of course drinking and need to piss, but can’t go normally. In mine, woman and men are paired together but in yours it can be any combination. But one has to go and has to find another to piss in front of. 

Ladies, I’m curious. Let’s say you know you have to go. Is there anything that makes it harder to hold it? Not wearing panties? Squatting? Spreading? I know when most of us have to go, getting closer to the bathroom makes it harder to hold, but do any of the other conditions do it?

When I was younger, I was shy about it. Now I pretty much ask “Where’s the head?”  (I was in the Navy and prefer that terminology.)