How many other "late bloomers" here?

[Carb0nBased 657]

I'm in a Facebook group for "late bloomers"--people who have not had their first romantic relationship by an age where a great majority of other people have. Heck, a majority of people HALF my age have already had their first relationship--whereas I have only had a really brief (a month or so) one a few years ago with someone who was clearly incompatible. One thing I've noticed is that there are significantly more women than men in that group--I was previously under the impression that it's much rarer for women to take so long to get their first boyfriend (or girlfriend if they're gay).

I was curious how many other people there are like that here. To be clear, I am not talking about people who are merely CURRENTLY single, but have had a boyfriend, girlfriend, or other sort of partner in the past. I'm talking about people who went through all of high school and college--or longer--without any sort of romantic connection. In fact, people who are currently IN a relationship could belong in this category if it's their very first and they were relatively far into adulthood when it started.

I'm curious whether people like us tend to get deeper into/more fixated on fetishes because we completely miss out on connecting intimately with other actual real life humans. I'd be especially interested in hearing from women in this position whether you think this has influenced the way your interest in pee has developed. 

[InOddPlaces 318]

Interesting take on relationships 🤔

I didn't have any relationships until well into my 20's. For some reason I wasn't interested but very active pleasuring myself (daily) and indulging in the pee kink (a lot of fantasy was around the kink, rather than anything else with another person). Looking back at some of the general photos I took at the time I don't know why I wasn't interested 😉.

Assume it was because I was too distracted enjoying myself in private, and that sexualised my view of courting making it unobtainable (or at least kept me distracted from forming romantic relationships).

Edited Saturday at 08:33 AM by InOddPlaces