Penis appreciation

[Hamster245 589]

I've been musing over this for a while, but I thought I'd post my experience of penis appreciation as a man, and what others think. 

In terms of sexuality, I consider myself at most to be slightly bi-curious. By that I mean I have a an appreciation of the penis, and also a desire to explore them sexually, however I don't find myself attracted to men in terms of appearance and I possess no desire to kiss another man nor particularly to engage in penetrative sex (either giving or receiving). 

Yet from a young age, the sight of another penis has always had an effect on me. As a younger boy I looked and occasionally touched friends in childhood games. The variety in shapes and sizes always appealed.

I was 32 when I finally decided to explore, I had a sexually liberal partner who confided in me that she'd love to see me in man on man play. I met a guy in the same situation and we explored oral sex and mutual play. Although as I said I had no desire to him as a person, my heart raced as I knelt down and began to kiss his flaccid penis, feeling it growing in my hands and watching him spring into life. Since then, I've played with three other men and really enjoyed each occasion.

I watch a fair bit of porn, and even in straight M/F porn I'm turned on by the penis in the scene as much as the woman taking part. 

I know from the men I've played with, I'm not alone in being a straight man with a penis weakness.

[Pooler 163]

My situation is similar to yours. I enjoy playing with men, but I could not have a romantic relationship with a man. I have played with a few men. My wife is aware and approves me playing as long as it is not excessive, and I am careful. I enjoy it most in a BDSM setting with me as the dominant. I have played with 4 different men in the past.  I had one guy for awhile who would come over on a regular basis to play, about once every two weeks. But he ended up moving away and I haven't found another partner since.

[oliver2 4,407]

On 11/6/2024 at 2:51 PM, Hamster245 said:

began to kiss his flaccid penis, feeling it growing in my hands and watching him spring into life

Mmm this is making me want to suck a dick 😅

[awkwood 40]

I'm not at all attracted to men.  The penises I can appreciate are on a woman.  Not on a drag queen or a transvestite.  It has to be a beautiful woman in every other sense of the word excepting for one "minor" detail.  It must be a person who looks like a woman, acts like a woman, and believes in her heart that she really is a woman.  She has to win me over with her feminine beauty, then the penis looks very engaging. 

I've never encountered such a woman in real life, only in the fantasy of porn.  And I was very surprised when I discovered its arousing effect on me. 

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Oh, and it helps if her penis is not bigger than mine.

 

Edited November 7 by awkwood
additional sentence at the end.

[goldmund50 80]

I had a very few awkward cocksucking experiences when I was a very young man but I was so hung up I had to contend with the usual shame and secrecy.....

So I'm quite inexperienced, and now that I'm older and allow my kinks to go where they will, I've really been looking at a lot of  bi-sexual porn and I'm developing a thing for dick pics.....and I enjoy jacking off and thinking about fucking men, usually with a female watching and/or participating.

Thanks for opening this thread...

[Oliv WxxL 8]

Thank you so much for such an honest and open response😉 It's truly important to talk about these things openly and without judgment. Understanding your own feelings and sharing what excites or interests you can help you get to know yourself better and let go of any shame or internal tension. Conversations like these create a space for acceptance and self-expression, making us all more free and confident in who we are.