AITA - opinions needed, is peeing outside my former best friend's house too far??

[Rosie2810 34]

So, I need opinions here 🙂

I became interested in peeing purely because my (former) best friend (of 15 years!) is very into women peeing and finds me attractive, and I have a deep-seated need to be admired, or even just noticed. So when I found out he was into it, I was only too happy to provide material for him 🙂, despite having no interest in pee myself. Eventually I developed an interest in it, because I received such praise and attention for peeing - training by positive reinforcement, really.

Anyway. Eventually peeing started to turn me on sometimes 🙂 then we had a massive falling out a few months ago, where he hurt me immensely then cut me out of his life with no warning and no opportunity for closure, and I'm mad. I can't help thinking of him every time I pee now, and when I do it brings the pain back up 😞 I don't want to hurt him, but I feel like I need to do *something* to express my pain and emotion, to somehow give myself the opportunity for retribution without it affecting him at all.

So, what I want your opinions on: to satisfy my desire for retribution, I want to fulfill his ultimate voyeur fantasy but not let him witness it 😈 I'm not planning to tell him, but if he did ever find out, I think it would drive him nuts to know it happened and/or could very well happen again at any time, but he's not allowed to see it 😄

Here's the scenario I want to fulfill:

He's super into pretty women needing to go so badly that they just have to go behind some bushes or something - the desperation and vulnerability are key for him, he's a huge voyeur. He already thought I was very attractive even whilst I was overweight - I've lost 15kg since he last saw me so I'm objectively hotter now 🙂

So, I want to dress up prettily, with a pretty dress, fancy heels, hairdo, makeup, and no underwear - then hold on for as long as I can, go to his place when I know he's the only one home, and let out my full bladder just outside his window 😈 I think it's the hottest thing I could possibly do in his view, so the fact that it would be purely for me, so I can feel like I'm doing something to get back at him, is extremely satisfying 🙂 I just want to do something that would torture him to know it happened and he missed it, but I don't know if this is too far or not. Opinions?

[Jar582 24]

Revenge is a dish best served cold.  As much as I would not do this to any ordinary person he has a pentant for this so you should definately do it or record it and tell him you have something he cannot see again

[Moore007 435]

46 minutes ago, Rosie2810 said:

So, I need opinions here 🙂

I became interested in peeing purely because my (former) best friend (of 15 years!) is very into women peeing and finds me attractive, and I have a deep-seated need to be admired, or even just noticed. So when I found out he was into it, I was only too happy to provide material for him 🙂, despite having no interest in pee myself. Eventually I developed an interest in it, because I received such praise and attention for peeing - training by positive reinforcement, really.

Anyway. Eventually peeing started to turn me on sometimes 🙂 then we had a massive falling out a few months ago, where he hurt me immensely then cut me out of his life with no warning and no opportunity for closure, and I'm mad. I can't help thinking of him every time I pee now, and when I do it brings the pain back up 😞 I don't want to hurt him, but I feel like I need to do *something* to express my pain and emotion, to somehow give myself the opportunity for retribution without it affecting him at all.

So, what I want your opinions on: to satisfy my desire for retribution, I want to fulfill his ultimate voyeur fantasy but not let him witness it 😈 I'm not planning to tell him, but if he did ever find out, I think it would drive him nuts to know it happened and/or could very well happen again at any time, but he's not allowed to see it 😄

Here's the scenario I want to fulfill:

He's super into pretty women needing to go so badly that they just have to go behind some bushes or something - the desperation and vulnerability are key for him, he's a huge voyeur. He already thought I was very attractive even whilst I was overweight - I've lost 15kg since he last saw me so I'm objectively hotter now 🙂

So, I want to dress up prettily, with a pretty dress, fancy heels, hairdo, makeup, and no underwear - then hold on for as long as I can, go to his place when I know he's the only one home, and let out my full bladder just outside his window 😈 I think it's the hottest thing I could possibly do in his view, so the fact that it would be purely for me, so I can feel like I'm doing something to get back at him, is extremely satisfying 🙂 I just want to do something that would torture him to know it happened and he missed it, but I don't know if this is too far or not. Opinions?

Sorry to hear about he cut you off. Does he just like to view or does he also like to engage in pee-play? I’d try not to be used as I’d make him understand what he’s missing out on. Sounds like a great plan as long as you’re comfortable. Let him chase you and use pee as your weapon 🥰👊

[overcaffeinated 180]

3 hours ago, Rosie2810 said:

So, I need opinions here 🙂

I became interested in peeing purely because my (former) best friend (of 15 years!) is very into women peeing and finds me attractive, and I have a deep-seated need to be admired, or even just noticed. So when I found out he was into it, I was only too happy to provide material for him 🙂, despite having no interest in pee myself. Eventually I developed an interest in it, because I received such praise and attention for peeing - training by positive reinforcement, really.

Anyway. Eventually peeing started to turn me on sometimes 🙂 then we had a massive falling out a few months ago, where he hurt me immensely then cut me out of his life with no warning and no opportunity for closure, and I'm mad. I can't help thinking of him every time I pee now, and when I do it brings the pain back up 😞 I don't want to hurt him, but I feel like I need to do *something* to express my pain and emotion, to somehow give myself the opportunity for retribution without it affecting him at all.

So, what I want your opinions on: to satisfy my desire for retribution, I want to fulfill his ultimate voyeur fantasy but not let him witness it 😈 I'm not planning to tell him, but if he did ever find out, I think it would drive him nuts to know it happened and/or could very well happen again at any time, but he's not allowed to see it 😄

Here's the scenario I want to fulfill:

He's super into pretty women needing to go so badly that they just have to go behind some bushes or something - the desperation and vulnerability are key for him, he's a huge voyeur. He already thought I was very attractive even whilst I was overweight - I've lost 15kg since he last saw me so I'm objectively hotter now 🙂

So, I want to dress up prettily, with a pretty dress, fancy heels, hairdo, makeup, and no underwear - then hold on for as long as I can, go to his place when I know he's the only one home, and let out my full bladder just outside his window 😈 I think it's the hottest thing I could possibly do in his view, so the fact that it would be purely for me, so I can feel like I'm doing something to get back at him, is extremely satisfying 🙂 I just want to do something that would torture him to know it happened and he missed it, but I don't know if this is too far or not. Opinions?

I hate to hear you had a falling out with your friend. Those things always suck.  At the same time, I also find the scenario you described insanely hot, so that side of me says to do it.  Ultimately, it's harmless with regard to property damage or something like that and it may provide you some kind of closure.

[jmatthews1995 3,632]

Sounds like a rough situation. I hope you feel better as time goes on.

It sounds like a fun idea, but it maybe worth noting that his house may have cameras / doorbell cameras that may see you. He'd then have video evidence.

[madalu21 0]

If he doesn't see you, you get what you needed and no harm no foul.

If he sees you, or if he has cameras that see you, then he gets to feel the arousal aspect of your connection without the actual relationship, and he's going to hope it happens again, and fantasize about it until it creates a monstrous longing.  That might be what you want, and it might even inspire him to try to patch things up (if you're open to that), but you might also find yourself dealing with creepy or stalker-ish behavior.

[Kiwi Watcher 14]

So you want to get back at him for cutting you out of his life by pissing outside his window but he'll never know about it?

You talk about a massive falling out... I had one of those a few years back with a female friend who wasn't there for me when my grandma died... 

My advice to you....just move on and find some new friends and forget him. You'll be much happier for it.

[Alfresco 11,545]

So sorry to hear you have been treated like that.  Personally I think it is better for your own sake to keep clear of him and have nothing more to do with him.   However, If it helps you to gain closure and satisfaction by going to pee outside his house, then go for it.   You will have the satisfaction of doing it and knowing he missed out.   Even if he did catch you (unlikely) then he can’t and won’t complain as he likes that behaviour.   He would be very frustrated that he is going to miss out in future but you would have to realise that if he does catch you then he is going to have that memory imprinted in his mind and may continue to fantasise over it.   If that bothers you, then consider that in the risks.

You could consider that the ideal for revenge might be if you could leave a puddle without him seeing you, then take a photo of the puddle and send him a message with the photo saying “look what you missed out on”, or otherwise let him know what you have done, which would get him frustrated, BUT you may prefer to just do it and keep it to yourself and know internally that you have done it but not get involved with him.

In answer to your question, no you would not be an AO (that is him) but be careful and don’t do something that actually gives him pleasure at your expense.