Sex without pee

[Moore007 454]

3 hours ago, swekiss said:

@Moore007 I wouldn't dream of doing that to someone who hasn't requested it specifically. No way. I prefer/expect my man to be clean and not smell, so it's only respectful to be for him too. 

I'm purely a giver and wouldn't mind being able to, but it's not a very big deal. My main thing is naughty peeing, so I can indulge in pee play alone and save the memory for later. Would it be exciting if he was in to me peeing in naughty places too? Of course. But I'm happy with what I got.

I think we all do things that partners haven’t requested in a way of trying to find the best way to mutual satisfaction. It’s trail and error and why should my desires be less importantly than those of my partner? Sometimes it’s a success and other times a failure. I’ve been shamed for my fetish by many partners as well as encouraged by other partners. If my partner can’t accept me the way I am I wouldn’t bather to continue the relationship. For me it’s important to feel I don’t have to sensor myself to please her. Some times I have to do that anyway to avoid a big fight but in general I speak it out and it’s of course really scary. It might close doors but I guess that’s the the price for being open with desires. 

[Bacardi 10,131]

1 hour ago, Moore007 said:

Did you ever discuss pee with your partner? Do you prefer to give or receive? 
 

No I've never talked about my fetish with my husband. I had brought it up to my ex and he shamed me hard about it so I just never had the heart to tell my husband. I'm sure he wouldn't shame me, but I don't wanna take the risk. 

I can do both but I think it's more fun to give. 

[nutinfancy 577]

11 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

No I've never talked about my fetish with my husband. I had brought it up to my ex and he shamed me hard about it so I just never had the heart to tell my husband. I'm sure he wouldn't shame me, but I don't wanna take the risk. 

I can do both but I think it's more fun to give. 

Isn't a bummer how a ex can do so much damage to a person when they shame you.

My wife was shamed by a ex because when she had a orasam she'd soak the bed, she thought it was normal.  So she started clinching when she'd orgasam, so she wouldn't squirt or soak the bed.

It took me years into our marriage and telling I like pee sex and that she'd have a much deeper orgasam if when she felt her orgasam and the feeling to pee and just relax and let go!! Ibeven told her go pee before I went down on her, that way she didn't have to worry she was going to pee.

After the first time of doing it that way she said it was way stronger orgasam and she squirted! I was so tore up and she couldn't believe how different it felt! She thought she was weird or doing something wrong,  just because her ex shamed her.

I said all that to say this, maybe drop hints or discuss it sometime, somewhere outside the bedroom, I'm sure he loves you! What's not to love about you!! Your the best!! Don't let the past rule your future!!❤️❤️❤️

[Moore007 454]

22 hours ago, Bacardi said:

No I've never talked about my fetish with my husband. I had brought it up to my ex and he shamed me hard about it so I just never had the heart to tell my husband. I'm sure he wouldn't shame me, but I don't wanna take the risk. 

I can do both but I think it's more fun to give. 

Shaming is awful. Such a pity. 🤗I was completely devastated the first time I got shamed. I dated a woman and she didn’t know about my fetish. We dated for at least a year before I asked her if she could fancy peeing on me. She gave me this weird look and said something like “you’re sick in your head” It felt awkward for a long time. I lost my confidence and decided to see a sex-therapist. My therapist explained to me that it’s nothing wrong with being turned on by pee. It’s just a different way of being intimate. Since then I have basically been very open with my pee-kink from the very first date. 
I love to receive but also to give if my receiver is really into receiving. So did you ever play with someone else’s pee? 

[weteric 1,365]

On 9/30/2024 at 10:07 AM, swekiss said:

I'm not even sure how one could secretly involve pee in sex, but no. The closest is peeing in the hot tub with him in it. He is none the wiser and I would with anyone, so it's not even sexual to me.

I know we discussed something of the sorts like the second or third time we met, but from what he said I chose not to tell him that it's my fetish. So for me it's 100% percent secret and only in my mind.

I am sure there are ladies who secretly pee, then tell their partner they squirted, but i do agree it is not something you should impose on someone who is not into it. 

[swekiss 1,066]

14 minutes ago, weteric said:

I am sure there are ladies who secretly pee, then tell their partner they squirted, but i do agree it is not something you should impose on someone who is not into it. 

I wouldn't dream of it. I would feel violated af if anyone did something like that to me, so that's a big no for me.

[weteric 1,365]

Just now, swekiss said:

I wouldn't dream of it. I would feel violated af if anyone did something like that to me, so that's a big no for me.

Agreed, and please don't think I was suggesting it, just that I suspect there are people who would.  Any secular act should only occur with full valid consent.