Had Success Enjoying Pee Play with a Partner? I have some Questions

[mwfuntimes525 120]

To those on here who have been lucky enough to act on their fetishes and fantasies involving pee, what was the biggest challenge or obstacle you or they had to overcome? How did you do so?

• Have the pee related activities continued? If so, have you expanded your play to include peeing on each other? Wetting? drinking pee? etc. What was that process like?
• Was your partner initially hesitant to try/weirded out by it? How are they now? Are they now into it/turned on by it or more just tolerating it and indulging on your behalf?

Apologies for the number of questions. Trying to better understand the right ways to go about communicating and encouraging without pushing my kinks and fantasies on someone. Thanks!

[chubbyjack 172]

7 minutes ago, mwfuntimes525 said:

To those on here who have been lucky enough to act on their fetishes and fantasies involving pee, what was the biggest challenge or obstacle you or they had to overcome? How did you do so?

• Have the pee related activities continued? If so, have you expanded your play to include peeing on each other? Wetting? drinking pee? etc. What was that process like?
• Was your partner initially hesitant to try/weirded out by it? How are they now? Are they now into it/turned on by it or more just tolerating it and indulging on your behalf?

Apologies for the number of questions. Trying to better understand the right ways to go about communicating and encouraging without pushing my kinks and fantasies on someone. Thanks!

It was my partner who brought up the subject.  I was too afraid to ask.

[Kirby23 896]

1 hour ago, mwfuntimes525 said:

...what was the biggest challenge or obstacle you or they had to overcome? How did you do so?

• Have the pee related activities continued? If so, have you expanded your play to include peeing on each other? Wetting? drinking pee? etc. What was that process like?
• Was your partner initially hesitant to try/weirded out by it? How are they now? Are they now into it/turned on by it or more just tolerating it and indulging on your behalf?

Male, married 15 years. Wife not super sexual in the first place, definitely not into pee.

I've commented on all of this before, but I'll try to summarize here. I began introducing pee into our sex routine maybe 2-ish years ago. It began innocently enough. We were having "traditional" sex, and I had to pee. Not really wanting to stop (we were both close to O), I asked her if I could just pee a little inside her. She said "I guess I don't care?"... so I tried. It was actually harder at first than I thought it would be. But I managed to squeeze a little out, and then almost instantly came. It was a weird feeling (at first).

Since then it has become a fairly normal part of our routine. It doesn't do anything for her, but she doesn't care if I do it. The most common time I do it is if she's on her period. I shoot some pee into her to "clean things out," then we have sex as normal. 

Sometimes I'll still pee inside her even if it's not that time of the month. Sometimes the urge just strikes, and I "go with the flow."

Occasionally I use pee as lube... for example if it's difficult to put it in at the beginning, or to wet her butthole a little prior to rubbing it. But she only tolerates me peeing "on" her if she's particularly into the sex in the first place, which isn't often. 

All in all she's a little weirded out, but I don't think it's a problem. We have a decent enough sex life (with or without pee), and have a good, strong marriage as a whole. She tolerates it because it's generally harmless (we use towels, and I don't do it in a degrading way), and I'm always well hydrated, so my pee is usually clear, so it's not really "gross."

She tolerates certain other pee-related things - she lets me watch her pee in the shower once in a while, outdoors (once in a great while), and has let me taste her 2-3 times. As long as I don't make too big of a deal of things, she doesn't either.

[on the porch 470]

On 8/28/2024 at 9:43 AM, mwfuntimes525 said:

To those on here who have been lucky enough to act on their fetishes and fantasies involving pee, what was the biggest challenge or obstacle you or they had to overcome? How did you do so?

• Have the pee related activities continued? If so, have you expanded your play to include peeing on each other? Wetting? drinking pee? etc. What was that process like?
• Was your partner initially hesitant to try/weirded out by it? How are they now? Are they now into it/turned on by it or more just tolerating it and indulging on your behalf?

Apologies for the number of questions. Trying to better understand the right ways to go about communicating and encouraging without pushing my kinks and fantasies on someone. Thanks!

All of the above , with 2 other lovers also ,Ruth now is a dream come true. And it still happens , just about every day .We boh love itc

[mwfuntimes525 120]

14 hours ago, on the porch said:

All of the above , with 2 other lovers also ,Ruth now is a dream come true. And it still happens , just about every day .We boh love itc

Thanks for responding! You're very lucky!!! It's amazing that you were able to find someone that aligns with your particular fetish and enjoys it with you. 

[Library_Lady 2]

On 8/28/2024 at 10:43 AM, mwfuntimes525 said:

To those on here who have been lucky enough to act on their fetishes and fantasies involving pee, what was the biggest challenge or obstacle you or they had to overcome? How did you do so?

• Have the pee related activities continued? If so, have you expanded your play to include peeing on each other? Wetting? drinking pee? etc. What was that process like?
• Was your partner initially hesitant to try/weirded out by it? How are they now? Are they now into it/turned on by it or more just tolerating it and indulging on your behalf?

Apologies for the number of questions. Trying to better understand the right ways to go about communicating and encouraging without pushing my kinks and fantasies on someone. Thanks!

I've never had a guy refuse when I've called to them from the bathroom and asked them to watch me pee.  Most of the time they're rewarded with a blowjob after the show 🙂

[mwfuntimes525 120]

7 minutes ago, Library_Lady said:

I've never had a guy refuse when I've called to them from the bathroom and asked them to watch me pee.  Most of the time they're rewarded with a blowjob after the show 🙂

WOW! Dating you is like having a winning lottery ticket. Well, I hope one day I am lucky enough to be called into the bathroom and asked to watch you (or another lovely lady)pee. Any guy lucky enough to enjoy your company should be insanely grateful 

[nutinfancy 300]

On 8/28/2024 at 9:43 AM, mwfuntimes525 said:

To those on here who have been lucky enough to act on their fetishes and fantasies involving pee, what was the biggest challenge or obstacle you or they had to overcome? How did you do so?

• Have the pee related activities continued? If so, have you expanded your play to include peeing on each other? Wetting? drinking pee? etc. What was that process like?
• Was your partner initially hesitant to try/weirded out by it? How are they now? Are they now into it/turned on by it or more just tolerating it and indulging on your behalf?

Apologies for the number of questions. Trying to better understand the right ways to go about communicating and encouraging without pushing my kinks and fantasies on someone. Thanks!

I brought it up to my wife, she didn't quit get it but was willing to try it! After the first few times the obstacles were cleanup and the stigma that your not supposed to do that. 

Our first 2 times doing it was as a douche and then enema and it was in a unprotected bed, though it was a water bed. And we didn't have a bathroom inside the bedroom. 

Then it did progress to her peeing on me and I on her, though she was okay with me pissing on her she didn't ask me to do it very often. Not like me anyway,  I could go for her pissing on me everytime she needed to go!

Then it progressed to her peeing while having sex! And that has lasted! Weather it be oral or intercourse. 

And I have drank her pee straight from the source and from container and bottles, but she told me she has no desire drink mine! Win some lose some. But I feel lucky that she gives me what she does regularly. 

Which having said all that, I think she does it mostly because she knows I love it! And that arouses her that I'm so aroused from her doing it.

And another note is if she intoxicated she'll do it without even thinking about it!!

Her inhibitions are let go of, that's the hard thing to get past for some people,  your not supposed to like this! What your doing is wrong!

 

 

[nutinfancy 300]

One more thing I will add is, I do a whole lot of solo pee play! Because my love for the fetish is over the top compared to hers. And she doesn't seem to mind it. 

[on the porch 470]

7 hours ago, mwfuntimes525 said:

Thanks for responding! You're very lucky!!! It's amazing that you were able to find someone that aligns with your particular fetish and enjoys it with you. 

Its not a fetish , Its a way of our lives

[Kevvvv 274]

On 8/28/2024 at 10:43 AM, mwfuntimes525 said:

To those on here who have been lucky enough to act on their fetishes and fantasies involving pee, what was the biggest challenge or obstacle you or they had to overcome? How did you do so?

• Have the pee related activities continued? If so, have you expanded your play to include peeing on each other? Wetting? drinking pee? etc. What was that process like?
• Was your partner initially hesitant to try/weirded out by it? How are they now? Are they now into it/turned on by it or more just tolerating it and indulging on your behalf?

Apologies for the number of questions. Trying to better understand the right ways to go about communicating and encouraging without pushing my kinks and fantasies on someone. Thanks!

my advice is a closed mouth wont get pissed in... me and my girl love it and i wish i knew sooner.. too busy being afraid...

[Kevvvv 274]

we have no limits now.. took time and communicating