Opinion on boyfriend interest in pee

[WetinOH 0]

My man who I’ve lived with 4 years is kinky. Age 67. Likes my strap on, latex lingerie , stockings, wing eye liner , see me smoke a couple drags (I’m a non smoker ) etc 

to my questions & request for advice   

he asked me to pee on him during a shower early in relationship (like 2 weeks in ). I was embarrassed & politely declined.  He asked a week or so later on shower to pee on me. Declined again bc I was bashful.  He tried to put his hands under my peeing pussy while on toilet in en suite bath off bedroom a Month or so later. I declined again & he let it go.  I was turned on by his thoughts but like I said - I was bashful at the time.  
do you think by reading these texts he is  into pee play in past and would be obliging when I randomly request the same during a play night ?  Do you think he let his ex pee on him hence “wash your body in shower of yurt “ or on living room floor

is “ expression of love “ by washing his body the act of peeing ?  I am new to this link but it’s is arousing to try  

Incidentally-his password for a innocuous car auction site -created in 2017 when they briefly dated - is pisspot.   I always wondered why.   How do I bring up subject or this kink & admit that it turns me on now taut I’ve researched forums , masturbated to this genre  porn, sampled my own taste during solo ,  etc ?  

[PissDude 479]

If you’re into it too, by all means, have an honest discussion about what you each want out of it. 

[Fanny 773]

I would totally think he was into pee. Just the question if you would like to pee on him in the shower is a good indication that he would like to try that with you. 
in this case I would take the jump and just ask him.

[gldenwetgoose 21,487]

Hi and welcome to the site.

I must admit it took me a few minutes to grasp the full question.   So the screen shots are a conversation your partner had with his ex back when they were together, after they'd golden showered together - although it looks like the images may be out of order, but no matter.

Now your question is whether peeing on someone is an expression of love.  The first thing I'd say is there's so many different and subtle nuances to our 'interest'.  Some of them related to trust and sharing, a show of love.  Sometimes, or for some, peeing may be undertaken as an act of dominance / submission hopefully which both parties consent to.   For some, an interest in pee is something which seems to be inherent and many of our members explain their interest stems from a memory or an experience.

As to the advice of whether you should ?    Sorry, you're only likely to get one answer from us here....    It's worth noting that pee isn't dirty, the kidneys have already filtered out everything nasty and what's left is a beautiful, body temperature, near water solution.   You haven't really told us of your own personal take on pee - have you been brought up to think of it as dirty, and the act of peeing as something embarrassing for example?   Would you already pee in the shower where your legs will get wet, or consider peeing anywhere other than behind a locked toilet door?

My impression from what you've told us is that you have a man who is intimate with you, and is happy to be submissive to you as to dominate you.   I may be reading too much in, but I'm guessing he does have a pee fetish - very likely from before the yurt incident.   What he's asked of you is to open up a boundary of trust to him, peeing in front of him in the bathroom and then on him in the shower.

 

Of course, I'm guessing about all of this, and the best way to be sure is to hear it from the horses mouth?   Maybe you've already been discussing it?   Has he discussed the yurt incident with you and explained how he felt?

You could perhaps introduce a pee related conversation into 'pillow talk' to explore more about what aspects of our many varied kink.   Perhaps a slight exaggeration of how you arrived home bursting, thinking you were going to wet yourself on the way, but just made it and the relief was amazing.  Then you can discuss his feelings around the various side aspects to that story...   which bits would have excited him etc.

 

Final note, for the most part non-pee-kink people don't have a clue what makes us tick and would generally just consider us depraved and in need of psychiatric treatment.  But thanks for reaching out to try and understand we're not.   There are so many different aspects, best bet is to get your fella to open up properly on what he'd like and why.

[jckmys 2]

For some it's the intimacy. Just another level of that.

[Havelock 1,526]

I agree with Goldenwetgoose's thoughtful response. Don't fear his interest in pee. 

In terms of how to get into it. I think surprising him by casually peeing in an atypical circumstance would be a great and memorable way to do it. Some ideas:

* Just randomly pee in the shower. Act like its no big deal and you often do it. 

* Nonchalantly pee outside 

* Say you have to pee during sex.  First thing in the morning sex could be ideal, so he knows you have not had your morning pee. Say you have to pee during that.