Is okay for a man to have many women

[Jsanchez01 52]

I don’t want to sound womanizer but my Gf lets me have many women do you think this is okay?

[gldenwetgoose 21,487]

I know what you mean 'sound like a womaniser'  - but a different way to put it would be that your girlfriend allows you to have an open relationship.

And I'm guessing that it will work both ways, so you both trust and respect each other and are free from jealousy - which is a wonderful situation to be in.  In other words you can both enjoy having different partners with different experiences and growing stronger in your relationship because of it.

Many of us do it in the virtual world here - having intimate online friendships which some partners would be jealous of.  And other people here I know enjoy similar relationships in real life.

So yes - I think it's perfectly okay, as long as she enjoys the same opportunities. 

[Bacardi 10,133]

I have always been for polyamory (if that is what it's called). I personally do not think I could handle it, or maybe not at the moment with a full family, but I see the benefits and can see how the lifestyle is fun for people. 

My thoughts are as long as all parties involved conset and there are clear, well explained rules, then it's a valid way of life. 

[Jsanchez01 52]

8 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

I know what you mean 'sound like a womaniser'  - but a different way to put it would be that your girlfriend allows you to have an open relationship.

And I'm guessing that it will work both ways, so you both trust and respect each other and are free from jealousy - which is a wonderful situation to be in.  In other words you can both enjoy having different partners with different experiences and growing stronger in your relationship because of it.

Many of us do it in the virtual world here - having intimate online friendships which some partners would be jealous of.  And other people here I know enjoy similar relationships in real life.

So yes - I think it's perfectly okay, as long as she enjoys the same opportunities. 

Ya I asked her about it and she fine with it and she said she the only man she wants is me but she’s fine with sharing me