Hi Wetmanjf,
Thanks for your reply. I would assume you are the same person with Wetmans Place? If so, I want to tell you that I have spent a good bit of time on that site and really enjoy it.
I would have deleted this duplicate post (as it was posted accidentally), but I couldn't figure how how to do that.
With regard to my question, that may be a good suggestion about the slow approach to peeing. We have gotten to the step, where she lets me put my hand under her stream on the toilet, although I dare not touch her in the process, or she'll stop. Maybe we can proceed to the shower a