Jayne78

I have never had great control even in my 20s I was prone to the odd accident.

But for sure age and most certainly child birth make bladder control even more of an issue.

personally I don't find being desperate fun at all as it could  lead to an embarrassing accident and sometimes has.

if however the readers find this fun and enjoy it then you should do so without feeling guilty

I would see the top specialist who would stop me having accidents.

Don't worry I would continue to post pictures of me wetting but know I would be in total control of the scenario.

You could still watch and I would still get the same buzz I get from reading your fantastic replies xx

Having a great holiday but now constantly quizzed by the kids having seen mums wet knickers on at least 2 occasions so far.

When I went to the toilet yesterday my youngest asked if I had managed to use the toilet. I actually had to lie😕

Women go together because one usually announces her need and the other feeling a slight urge decides to follow suit.

When I was younger and went to more popular clubs we would often shared a cubicle but other than maybe discuss a boy it was just a pee.

As we get older I have tended to use my own cubicle especially if I have wet my knickers or have to change my pad because I have peed in it. It's not something you want someone to know about. (She says telling everyone in the forum)

When I know the toilet is clean I always sit and I pee onto the front of the bowl when my stream at its strongest.

When hovering i have wet the seat numerous times even myself if i haven't pulled my knickers down far enough

Just hand washed some clothes and hung out on balcony. Been here 5 days I have just washed the following items as they had been peed on (by me not the kids). Not badly in some cases but clearly stained.

Bikini

Swimsuit

2 pairs of shorts

Skirt

7 pairs of knickers

I am up at 7 each morning (I need the loo) and I sit in the sun on the balcony waiting for the family. I browse the internet news etc but not before checking this forum. I cant believe how much it has become a part of my normal day.  Love it thanks all xx

OMG this has happened to me several times mainly when pregnant but it still happens even know. This is one reason I always carry spares.

Did she have any other episodes?

Did she have a weak bladder or was she just holding to long. She may have liked the feeling of needing to go.

Thanks for letting us know.

So halfway through our first trip abroad since having the 2 children.

The main thing I have struggled with to date is the toilet facilities. At home we have 3 toilets and I can almost guarantee 1 will be free. Here we have the one which the kids seem to live in. It is also the shower. As you know I am very bad at controlling a pee urge this has led to a few desperate situations of me banging on the door, peeing in front of the kids in the bath and once peeing in a cup.

Having spoke to my hubby he admitted checking the laundry to see how wet my underwear was. He said he loved itwhen the gusset was soaked which it often is.

I did tell him that with bigger accidents I rinse them and they go straight in the washer.

Anyway does anyone else check there wifes / girlfriends underwear? If so how wet are they? Have you told them?