Jayne78

I recently bought a leather skirt it is stylish and has the added bonus for me of not showing my my leaks.

Last week I had a major mishap (I wet the floor) and still it looked dry.

Anybody else got items of clothing which can mask an accident?

I dont talk about my issues face to face I find it to embarrassing. This is why the forum helps me so much and hopefully I am able to give a little something in return.

This happened only this morning. I had been into town with my mum while my dad looked after the boys. I had this outfit on.

Well as I have said recently I have started to have bouts of urge incontinence. The urge comes on very quickly and in less than 10 minutes I am desperate. Well you know how good my control is (not).

I parked the car on my mums drive and walked with my legs clamped together as fast as I could while trying to look natural. Totally ignoring my boys who were happy to see me I ran upstairs. I locked the bathroom door as the floodgates opened.

I yanked up my skirt and ran to the toilet and sat down, peeing through my tights and panties. There was nothing I could do to stop the flow I just had to accept the situation for what it was.

A silly 40 year old women weeing in her pants. I looked at the floor it was wet, but fortunately it was tilled.

It took me a good 15 minutes to clean up, I had my bag with me and as you know I always carry spares.

My mum asked if I was OK (she knows I have issues), I lied and said I was.

1 hour ago, gldenwetgoose said:

@Jayne78 - Firstly, on behalf of most of us - please ignore any unhelpful comments being made here.  Those that have been around and following since your first posts understand its your choice to post knowing that many are aroused at the thought of a wetting.  But I'd hope though that we'd be human enough that empathy would overcome in realising that you're a real person being so distressed by it and receiving little domestic support.

Other than that I struggle a bit with what to say, other than my usual 'hugs'.   You definitely don't deserve abuse and arguments as a consequence of what is after all, a situation outside your control. It's not like you can try harder, it's not like you're doing it on purpose.   Indeed, I'm not an expert but I guess the wet bed could be a consequence of the stress the rest of the arisings have caused during the holiday - maybe combined with your sleeping brain knowing you're in an unfamiliar location without the comfort of your en-suite next door.

I really can't understand your husband's attitude - it's like somehow he's humiliated and hence angry, when it's you who is feeling humiliated?  I obviously don't know him and it'd be unfair and unhelpful for me to be more critical.

I do wonder though if, as I said above, stress and the panic of 'what if I wet' is actually contributing to or even causing the situation - after all, we all know that feeling of getting home needing to pee and that urgency being multiplied as we're unlocking the front door.

Please try and treat tomorrow (today?) as a new day, because something bad happened yesterday doesn't mean it will today. Your friends are here for you - we do like reading your accounts and seeing pictures - but ultimately we're here with you and for you.  There's no doubt people you already DM with and do keep doing so.

Hugs.

What a wonderful post thank you so much i was in tears as I read it.

You no me so well and 99% of you on this forum ar so loving and caring.

I think you are correct in every word.

Thank you thank you thank you

Back at apartment after a day on the beach. Hubby with screaming kids trying to shower them. Sat on terrace reading when I needed to go. Kids were going to be in the bathroom for at least another 10  minutes.

So I went into the corner faced the wall so as to best hide myself just in case squated and pulled my navy blue bikini bottoms aside.

When I finished I had wet feet and with no toilet role to hand I still wet my bottoms enough to show.

Rinsed before it was seen but not before i took a pic.

So I'm on holiday with the family it's half term in the uk.

Weather  a lovely 24c, apartment very nice bladder control not the best.

we have been here 4 days and yesterday before going to bed I washed 5 pairs of knickers, my loose summer dress (seee pic) and a pair of denim shorts.

i wore the shorts last night we went for a meal I leaked on the walk back. When quizzed by the boys I told them my seat had been wet.

Tuesday morning I was sat on our private roof top terrace in my white dress I need the toilet but my husband was doing a number 2. Not a problem at home but here we only have 1 toilet.

"please hurry"

"2 minutes" he replied

" I can't wait 2 minutes"

i went back on the terrace and squared in the corner lifting-my dress but peeing through my bikini.

i hadn't cleaned up when my hubby saw the puddle he was less than sympathetic saying he was less than 2 minutes. The boys heard the argument and soon realised I had peed on the patio.

Needless to say awkward questions followed

I picked my youngest up from nursery today.

later I put him into his buggy and we walked to school to pick my other son.

on the way back I was getting pretty desperate the lads were messing about and it seemed to take an age to get home.

when we got home I was frantically trying to open the front door.

The kids ran upstairs to play with some new play figures while I sprinted to the downstairs toilet. To cut a long story short I didn't make it and ended up peeing most into my panties and tights and making a complete mess.

I ran upstairs to clean myself up and change. The front door was still ajar and my mum let herself in, needing the toilet she went in the downstairs toilet.

By time i came down she was in the living room. She commented on the state of the toilet and I said my youngest had had an accident and I hadn't cleaned it up yet.

As if that wasn't bad enough when he came down to say hello to Grandma she mentioned the mess and told him to try and be a big boy. Before he could answer I whisked him away and gave him a lolly.

I felt terrible and still do.

FYI I was in an outfit similar to this

Never ever in my life thought I would say this.

But the think I like best is knowing that there people on this forum who enjoy seeing me urinate it gives me such a buzz.

I guess in a roundabout way I have my husband to thank for that 

If he hadn't spied on me and was from sound only I would be turned on myself to see his reaction particularly if he was good looking. He if had spied that would be an invasion of trust and I would be very disappointed