Hidengo

1: “No expectation of privacy” does not equal “consent to share your image.”

2: You are right that if the victim were a man, he wouldn’t be seen as a victim, and that’s unfair. My question to you, is if that’s an unfairness you are willing to live with, or one that you want changed.

I hesitate to link VM218 here, because while they are REALLY GOOD at writing pee scenes, they’re also REALLY into incest. It’s your call whether you want to stomach that (or, in my case, alter the fictional reality in your own head) for the sake.

Allow me to play Devil’s(?) Advocate here:

1: This was not a personal video recording. He did not own the device that made the recording, or the property where the device is set up. 
2: The Company. He most definitely broke rules by sharing the footage with anyone beyond his superiors.

3: It was uploaded to PornHub. I feel like this is self-explanatory. 
3.5: I lied, I’m going to explain it anyway. I’m reminded of a recent case where several female twitch streamers had their faces used in AI deepfake porn without their consent. No, it was not themselves filmed having sex, but they were inserted into pornographic content, threatening their lives, livelihoods, and reputations.  I’m all for people expressing themselves, but when you express another person without their consent, they have every right to tell you off and collect whatever legal reparations they can.

Despite the topic being bathroom-related, there is little sexual about this question.

Context: I was celebrating a friend’s birthday at a club, and popped into the bathroom.

it was tiny. I would guess something like 5’x8’. Narrow enough that I– an average-sized male– would not have had the space to T-pose, we’re I in the mood to assert dominance.

It still was able to fit four urinals, a wide sink, and a single, walled-off, toilet, so congrats to the interior designer for maximizing the space at least.

But there was also an attendant. Usually a staple in the fancier locales, this is a man who in all likelihood drew the short straw, and is tasked with turning on the sink, providing hand towels, and offering post-piss mints. It is my conjecture that his real purpose is to add subconscious social pressure to ensure that the patrons wash their hands.

Which leads me to my next question: given that I mainly have experience in the Men’s restroom, I have no idea if such a person is stationed in the fancy-pants ladies’ rooms as well.

I mean, if you told me that men were so disgusting about hygiene that this specific job had to be created, I would believe you. But so would simply like to be sure that things are equally weird across the socially constructed gender aisle.

On 2/28/2023 at 12:16 PM, Hightower said:

Paying for pirated porn is absolutely nuts to me anyway, might as well say you miss getting punched in the face because now you're getting kicked in the balls

I can see the theory behind buying stolen goods for cheaper than the store would sell it for (and while the buyer may not know it’s stolen, some things can be assumed…), but to do so with files is odd. That’s more like paying someone to steal something for you. 

It’s definitely a variation of joint grip. Just rotated 180 degrees so that my pinky is closest to th rest of my body as opposed to my thumb and pointer. And also different finger spacing to account for the… girth difference.

Ostensibly, it’s to be expected. Like, we’re on a message board because it’s our kink/fetish, so of course people are going to do it.

But at the same time, participating in a kink doesn’t automatically mean we expect to participate with others so… directly.

Like, not to confirm or deny whether or not I’ve done this myself, or on which posts, but I’m of the mind that anyone who posts Fictional stories is seeking such a response, while I’m not always certain such is the case when people talk about their real lives.

But that might just be the asexuality talking lmao. 
 

I’ve been through something similar a few times, where I’ve been around visibly desperate people and felt little to no arousal. It actually isn’t that hard to explain: the lack of consent makes you uncomfortable.

Which is good, in the “this is how a decent human being should think” sort of way.

I know, I know, b careful what you see advertised on the Internet, it I did happen to see this while scrolling TikTok a few hours ago
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR5nB6Rv/

I’m from the Bronx, and at least three times in the past year I’ve witnessed a man peeing on the sidewalk/street in broad daylight with only minimal attempt at hiding. Also on at least two occasions I’ve been walking in Manhattan and someone– again, a man or at least someone with a penis if we want to be inclusive– literally step between two cars to pee into the street.

New Yorkers are unfazed by a lot, but I never had the courage to do something like that.

I can also tell you that public urination is more of a norm in Jamaica, especially in more rural areas. Aside from some buildings that make it known that they would rather you not pee on them, usually with a sign, I’ve never seen any legal action taken against it.

I always find it weird when scenes in otherwise non-fetish stories seem to be catering to them. It takes me out of the moment and makes me wonder if I am, in fact, reading about the author’s fetish. Which, after all the feet stuff in Schneider’s Nickelodeon Sitcoms, rubs me all the wrong way. So if I ever end up including anything related to peeing in my stories, I definitely wouldn’t make the scenes too descriptive.

But that’s me, personally. Do what you want but understand that if I clock you, I’m silently judging you to myself and nobody else. 

On 11/2/2021 at 2:09 AM, Kupar said:

An excellent account thanks! Hope you enjoyed it 🙂. Did the risk enhance the experience for you?

Sorry I just saw this lol

There was actually little risk of being seen, between having adequate cover and the streets being deserted. But I’ve recently been finding it  fun to pee outside, while when I was younger it would just make me anxious.  

I set my alarm for 5:40 to catch the 6:00 bus to get to work for 6:45. This used to be early enough that I had the privacy to pee in the street as I waited for the bus, but there’s been an uptick in joggers that early.

This morning was my day off, though, and it so happened that my body decided to wake up before 5. Not the first time, not going to be the last, but if I had to go to work, I’d have simply closed my eyes and pondered the universe until my alarm went off, or maybe gone online so my brain started to wake up.

This time, I went for a walk to clear my head. And my bladder.

i walked around the block— no foot traffic, but so did see the occasional car— and decided to walk through the park, eventually stepping off the lighted path to relieve myself behind a pillar. At first I went directly on the ground, but it was loud and forceful enough that it was scaring away the wildlife (the nearby bugs or whatever had been noisy, but had started to quiet down once I started, so I shifted my stream so it ran onto the stone block at an angle.

it was about 45 seconds of peace, listening to the sounds of nature in solitude as I relieved myself.

A meditative experience, almost. That’s kind of what I like about it. A connection to nature I don’t always get. 

Aagh! Just saying that reminded me that someone DID already write a(n unofficial) rule set for sex in D&D— the Book of Erotic Fantasy.

You can find it with a quick Google, though it’s for an older edition.

The number of women who are responding that they’re being called out… makes you wonder if the foot fetish is actually the most common fetish, and not just the most common fetish people will admit to.
 

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR6gWYFR/?k=1

If you’re curious, M&M uses 8 stats

Strength— Obvious, used to calculate melee damage

Dexterity— Fine Motor Control, Hand-Eye Coordination, used to calculate hit rate of ranged attacks

Agility— Speed, Gross Motor Control, used for dodging ranged and area attacks  

Stamina— Constitution in everything but name

Fighting— Battle IQ, used both to attack in Melee and deflect incoming melee attacks

Intellect— Intelligence

Awareness— Wisdom in everything but name

Presence— Charisma, force of personality. Note: actually being attractive is something akin to a feat 

4 hours ago, Pee Sensei said:

In my opinion charisma in dnd (wrongly) mixes being attractive and being charismatic and convincing.

I mean Dexterity mixes fine motor control with hand-eye coordination, AND the ability to parkour, so I think that’s beat out

(that’s why I kind of prefer Mutants and Masterminds with it’s 8-Stat system. But that’s a whole other animal)

Ever since I started working an earlier shift, I’ve been purposely avoiding my morning pee to see if I get lucky enough that I can let it out in the street near the bus stop. Doesn’t usually pan out the way I want though— sometimes there’s not enough coverage from view, sometimes there’s too much foot traffic, sometimes a school bus would be parked nearby, the other day there were entire news crews within lie of sight— more often than not I find myself rushing to the bathroom when I get to work, but valiant efforts were definitely made. 

I usually aim next to things rather than on them for splash prevention purposes. I even tend to turn to the side of walls rather than aim straight at them. 

B is the only orientation that makes sense from an ergonomics perspective. A is acceptable only if you have a cat. 
 

No I am not arguing this point, neither will I accept any constructive criticism. 

Did it this morning. I have an earlier shift at work now, so I end up going for the bust before 6 in the morning. Streets tend to be empty on weekends, so without taking my morning pee I left earlier than I had to to get to the bus stop, then let loose into the street, hidden by the closest available minivan. 

As an added bonus, it had rained last night and the asphalt was still wet, so any evidence was already hidden. 

I feel like for it to not be completely taboo, there would have to be some loosening of the existing nudity taboo as well— otherwise most people would still think to hide when they go so others don’t see whatever bits they may or may not be packing. In such case, there would still be some element of naughty to it.

That being said, my interest in peeing mostly comes from my own pee shyness when I was younger— it was still a taboo in my own mind, whether I was somewhere “appropriate” or not, so I might still be the way I am, just… less so. 

Like I said, for me it was an issue with using Google Chrome specifically. 

It gives me that error when I used Google Chrome, but Safari works fine. Seems we’re missing an update to that browser.