Loving someone but not mentioning your fetish? Long term relationships without pee?

[Admin 14,363]

Whilst mentioning your pee fetish may not be appropriate on a first date, I imagine most people have told any long-term partners about it. However, I was curious whether there's anyone who hasn't and has managed to keep their fetish a secret the whole time? If so, do you plan on keeping it that way forever?

For those who have told their wives or long-perm partners only to find out they didn't want any part in it, do you think not having pee fun in your relationship will be a problem? I'm interested to know whether being with someone who is against the idea has had any kind of impact.

Even if you're not currently in either of those situations, could you happily commit to a relationship knowing your partner is totally against the idea of watersports or indulging in your pee fantasies?

Thanks.

[WantonLee 823]

I am in neither of those situations, so my answer is mostly hypothetical:

If there is love then my fetish would not matter.

On the other hand i doubt such a relationship would last very long, unless really everything else that is important for me would be a 100% match.

[Char242 1,119]

I am currently single, however if I did have a girlfriend I wouldn't mind telling her my fetish if I thought that she would not think any less of me. I also have to admit that I have fantasized a couple of times about having a girlfriend who would indulge my fetish.

[ukpee 41]

It doesn't pose a problem as such just sometimes when the craving gets to much I maybe watch a video and hand job

That's why I am trying to find girl pissing outside or in bathroom before or after sex porn film no in face or on body to slowly introduce peeing to my wife if it was to dirty she would just switch off

[RemyRyanne7 2]

I'm currently in a relationship with the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. We're absolutely perfect for each other in every way, especially sexually, except that he doesn't share my pee fetish. He doesn't actually know about it, but I know he won't be into it. I got a little optimistic for a while... He likes when I squirt (though he doesn't know I'm actually peeing). He once commented after coming back from the bathroom that "peeing is like sex when you really have to go." That stuck with me, so a few days later I brought it up with him. I reminded him of what he said and asked if he would like it if I held his cock while he peed, but he wasn't really into the idea. I mentioned that I've known people who are into sex and peeing, but he said he had no interest in "bathroom stuff." I just played it off like I didn't either, though I never actually said I wasn't, in case I do want to tell him the truth someday. But at least for now, it's going to stay my little secret. Oh well...

[themoneyman102 2,758]

When I first starting dating Abby a month ago, I was kinda afraid to tell her about my fetish, cause I felt it would not end good for me, but when we we're a date, I told her that I had a pee fetish and that I have been into it since I was a teenager, and I when finally told her, she said she respected my fetish and I was man enough to tell her about it, she also told me that she accepted it, and that she had someone what of a interest in sexual pee activity, so we are gonna be trying it out on occasions

[Adrian196970A 26]

I have a GF who is aware of my urological interests but doesn't share them and lets me pursue them on my own. Everything else in the relationship is good though and I wouldn't want her to share my fetish interest if it wasn't naturally a part of who she was. For that reason I don't try to force the issue and never would.

[ironbladderman 36]

It seems that the women I have dated for a while did not want to hear about my fetishes, while the women who I did not date for as long did. Either way it never amounted to anything.

[welshboy 26]

I've been married for almost 5 years and we've been together a lot longer. I did ask many years ago whether she had any fetishes to which she said no. I did kind of awkwardly tell her that I enjoyed the 'naughtiness' of peeing outdoors (and seeing girls do it) but it didn't really go much further. From things she's said in the years we've been together I think she thinks it's a bit ... dirty? Not in the unclean way, just something she thinks is not for doing outside of the bathroom.

I'm more than used to reading and viewing stuff involving pee online now, and I'd not trade my wife for anyone else.

I think I'd be tempted into some kind of email/chat thing with a like-minded woman, though the chances are obviously somewhat remote...!

[steve88 21]

Figured I'd chime in here.

I'm not long out of a 7 year relationship and I never told her, I do slightly regret it as she was really open about peeing around me, but I just don't think she was into it. I'm pretty sure my very first girlfriend was, but again never mentioned it. So far I've never had the guts to mention it, I do slightly regret it, but I think it depends on the girl, I've just started dating again and I'm planning to be more open if I find someone, but at the same time it's a hard subject for me to bring up.

I'm trying to start about being open about it online as I'd never really spoken about it before, unfortunately it can be quite hard to come by a like minded individual that you can feel comfortable chatting with.