Penis Admiration

[arigalo 553]

16 hours ago, MonsterKane46 said:

it's hard for both sexes...

I have a gay male cousin and a gay female one....  i also work with a bisexual girl... they all find it difficult 

I wonder if that has to do with their attraction, though? I find it incredibly difficult to be platonically affectionate with straight women who I’m friends with, but that’s because I’m terrified of being seen as the stereotypical “predatory lesbian.” Or, even if people aren’t reading the behavior as predatory, that they might misconstrue the feelings anyway. But back in junior high/high school, before I was out (even out to myself 😂), I had no qualms about cuddling, hugging, sitting on laps of, holding hands, etc. with the girls I was friends with. 

I think it’s similar with fetish stuff too—I know many of us here have talked about how we can be a bit more self-conscious about peeing in front of others/talking about pee because we don’t want others to suspect that we are into it. Meanwhile, those without the fetish just aren’t thinking about it enough to even have that worry cross their minds and will sometimes be bolder about how they engage. Although on the topic of penis admiration, I definitely admire/am jealous of how much more normalized it is for you all to go outside when the need arises! Those of us with vaginas tend to be expected to hold it until a bathroom.

Of course, I’d imagine that this varies greatly depending on who is holding the penis and what part of the world you’re in (there’s some scary stuff happening in the US and there are whole states I wouldn’t let myself be caught in any state of undress so as not to be called a “groomer”), but by and large it seems more accepted. 

[GSBOY69 39]

On 3/2/2023 at 3:13 PM, glad1 said:

Don't you agree that daylong hiking trips are an ideal way for collaboration? 

Absolutely agree. It's the best way to watch and appreciate both options.

[Carb0nBased 647]

On 3/16/2023 at 2:27 AM, MidoriLemonade85 said:

Now this is very true. Big gap in the market there.

Or at least a big gap in between the legs 😅