How to talk to sons about sex?

[GinaGercenPoish 2]

Hi I'm Gina.
I'm mother of two wonderful 10 years sons. Their father has left us 8 years ago.
I have a question, maybe some of you can help me?
At what age should a parent teach their son about ‘sex’ if there is no father around or would it be better for the kid to have a male family member to do this?
It really bothers me because i've found adult magazine in their room today.
Should I talk to them by miself or ask my brother to do it?

Hope someone had the same problem and can advise me anything.
 

[speedy3471 10,655]

Iam sorry to hear their dad left you all. Traditionally dad would have the sex talk with them but seeing as your both mom and dad you will give them the talk 

Just be sure to let them know to always treat women with respect and not as a sex object. Women in porn don't represent what most everyday women look and act like 

[Peefreak99 3,722]

Im so sorry for you and your kids it's not easy growing up without a dad neither raising 2 kids on your own. But back on on topic i would say let a male family member do it and preferly someone younger like 20 or something because it would feel extremely akward for them if a 65 year old grandpa did it. Tho it will feel akward no matter what but with a younger guy that they can "relate" to it will be much easier. But mabye the tallk could whait a few years? 8 and 10 year olds dosen't understand those things anyway. 

[speedy3471 10,655]

39 minutes ago, Peefreak99 said:

Im so sorry for you and your kids it's not easy growing up without a dad neither raising 2 kids on your own. But back on on topic i would say let a male family member do it and preferly someone younger like 20 or something because it would feel extremely akward for them if a 65 year old grandpa did it. Tho it will feel akward no matter what but with a younger guy that they can "relate" to it will be much easier. But mabye the tallk could whait a few years? 8 and 10 year olds dosen't understand those things anyway. 

Thats a good idea