wife not into pee

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2 minutes ago, Sephora said:

He did say he accidentally left that open.

Oh yes,apologies...

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On 10/5/2018 at 4:46 AM, Jamezzz3189 said:

Well it didn’t go exactly as planned. We did stay at a hotel in town.  When we got there, she actually needed to pee, but she went straight to the toilet.  So, then we went to the hotel bar, and drank beer and watched a game on tv. She went to the bathroom once, and we drank some more. 

We go back to the room, and we are buzzing. She starts undressing and says she was going to try. I’m rock hard sitting on the bed watching. She squats beside the bed but is unable to go. She starts apologizing and says she just can’t. I tell her no worries that I love her.  She then motioned me to follow her in the bathroom, and she let me watch her pee in the toilet.  It had been years since I last saw her go like that, so I was elated. 

We go back to bed and have drunk sex, which is really not the best, but I did get off just on the visual of her squatting on the carpet and trying to go. 

So, a success overall. I did not want to pressure her at all.  Maybe it’s best she didn’t go through with it , and feel guilty about it later. 

 

That sounds like part of the problem was that she was not really into it and she went straight to trying to pee on a carpet, so probably felt uncomfortable on many levels - you were watching, it would feel really strange to pee on a carpet, she probably was feeling guilty for the hotel staff.   I think a slow approach and maybe start with peeing in the shower or the bathtub or outside somewhere might be better.  Somewhere that she doesn't feel is "wrong" or "naughty" or at least is acceptably naughty in her own mind.  There is no way on earth that my wife would just pop a squat and pee on the carpet by the bed, but I have managed to get her to pee outside a few times.  She would much rather pee in a toilet, but she will happily pee in the shower/bath when she is using it and she has peed outside a few times to please me and just once in a while because she was really desperate and couldn't wait.

[udai 164]

Well, i guess 99% of them are not into pee.

but, ill tell my strategy.

when im with a girl at home on weekends (dates or GF), normally we both drink a couple of beers by the night, chill and have sex.

Eventually she ask for a shower (or me) and we both go together.

since i have a big walking shower in my bathroom, at certain point in the middle of our bath, i say “i have to pee, do you mind?”all of them do not care... and i say “you can pee here if you want. If she starts to pee, i ask her to pee together aiming our streams at the drain or just ask to cross our streams.Its something, at least. I guess its a good start.

 

[Sephora 2,372]

3 hours ago, udai said:

Well, i guess 99% of them are not into pee.

but, ill tell my strategy.

when im with a girl at home on weekends (dates or GF), normally we both drink a couple of beers by the night, chill and have sex.

Eventually she ask for a shower (or me) and we both go together.

since i have a big walking shower in my bathroom, at certain point in the middle of our bath, i say “i have to pee, do you mind?”all of them do not care... and i say “you can pee here if you want. If she starts to pee, i ask her to pee together aiming our streams at the drain or just ask to cross our streams.Its something, at least. I guess its a good start.

 

I am not sure if 99% is acurate. I can tell you that most women don't talk about it as much as men would. I must know about 3-4 friends that has talked about peeing a peeing experience on or with their boyfriends. As others are not into it and have their opinions about it. I remember one of them said the men who are into peeing can't be stimulated with normal sex anymore. I am not sure where she gets her information. However I can tell you that is completely false.

Walk in shower are amazing, i hope one day we can get one. It sounds like you guys are having fun and that's what's important.

[dearelliot 1]

My experience has been for the last 84 years, ladies are not into kink anywhere near  like men are...Yes some are, but the percentage is low...Really how many ladies do you know who on their own buy  or seek porn with kink and no love or cuddle parts? Yes a few!!! I knew a lady   loved pee play, but God knows I only knew one in my entire lifetime!

My wife is into nudity on beaches, and  oral not in public,  or was, until about age 70, no pee. 

I pay for pee play now, and have for many years, sometimes at gogo bars ladies will sell me a glass of their pee...or out of the country at whore bars.