pussylover

On 4/23/2024 at 6:16 PM, vanessa9 said:

If I try to pee standing, it is almost always a mess, despite years of training in the shower. The only way it can work is when I am naked, and I can spread my legs and slightly bend backwards. Not realistic in a street urinal. I did it once in the bushes of an Amsterdam park, though, back in the good old time when it was allowed to sunbathe naked in some parts of the park (Vondelpark).

High squat could have worked, but Amsterdam urinals are so disgusting I really wanted to avoid any risk of splash back...

what about in a skirt?

On 4/12/2024 at 2:57 PM, Kupar said:

I am sure you're right for many women, though there are some who pee forwards when standing up. The much missed @Eliminature was one and she used urinals from time to time I believe. 

Her content was a blessing to this forum and it's such a shame she hasn't posted recently.

11 hours ago, arigalo said:

Yes, although I’m not very skilled at peeing while standing. I definitely want to get more practice, though! I should probably work on my aim before I try a public urinal. 😂

Have you tried holding her lips open?

On 12/20/2023 at 9:32 PM, glad1 said:

I also used the shower. But, weeks back I made a urinal out of a plastic gallon-size water bottle and attached it to the wall in one corner. Kinda fun aiming at it from across the room.

do you have a pic of the contraption?

On 10/27/2023 at 7:49 AM, vanessa9 said:

You wouldn't believe how much fun it is indeed. It's fun, but it is also a liberating feeling, and let me face it... it's also exciting.

Do you prefer to approach the urinal from the front or the back?  I can see merits to both approaches. 

Facing the urinal, you're taking a "I'm one of the guys" approach to peeing into the urinal, but you are (unless you're very skilled at aiming with your fingers or wearing a dress/skirt), exposing your rear, a part of the body that definitely looks different in females.  However, despite being "one of the guys," you'll have a good view of their anatomy peeing, but it'll be harder for them to see yours.

Backing up into the urinal, you're pulling your pants down, bending over, and exposing your lady bits in a room full of men - it's sexually suggestive, even for those who are not interested in peeing.  However, it's relatively easy to keep yourself covered by bending over far enough, keeping your legs closed, or just covering yourself with a hand.

Looks like a classic tomboy/girly girl fork in the road.

5 hours ago, Eliminature said:

Kind if bouncing up and down on the balls of my feet. I don't really need to do it - the stream shoots out cleanly and the female urethra is small enough not to retain liquid (usually). I like doing it, though. It feels rebellious; even if not strictly speaking necessary. 

Good to hear you've found a better way of doing it!  In videos of women peeing, if they shake it off, they twerk, whereas a man shakes his penis.  I've heard of women (who may have had penis envy) shaking their lips after peeing, when twerking may have been marginally more effective, although it's usually done for suggestive reasons.  I wasn't sure if you were more into the freedom or (masculine) fashion of peeing standing - sound like it's the former? 

On 6/24/2022 at 10:33 AM, Eliminature said:

About two hours later (the coach was really delayed), we were finally making our way home from the bus station of our home city. I needed to release some more fluid. 

This time, I did it the normal way - well, normal for me, I guess. I found a diacreet corner, lifted my dress and released an arc of frothy pee against the wall whilst standing. It pooled and snaked onto the concrete below. When my bladder was empty, I had a little shake, dropped my skirt back into position and we walked on.

Do you shake with your hips or your fingers?

On 12/27/2019 at 10:48 AM, Hamster245 said:

Peeing stills from a short documentary I was interviewed for: Bizarre Fetish Handbook

Here's a similar documentary.  

2 hours ago, Eliminature said:

I want, more and more, to be caught by a urophile scouting for sightings somewhere. 

It gets a bit boring performing without an audience. 

You know how cruising at the urinal used to be a thing for gay men?  Someone should bring it back, but unisex.  

17 hours ago, glad1 said:

You've already proven that to millions of women who have you as their mentor.

In fact, were you to challenge me in a distance contest, you'd probably win. But, I still think I can best you for height! 🤣

Men tend to be taller than women.  

14 hours ago, Eliminature said:

An ad for a Belgian beer (or lager, I'm not sure which).

Quote

Take everything you knew about making beer–and throw it out the window. Making a lambic strays from every method of brewing a traditional ale or lager.

according to https://www.hopculture.com/beginners-guide-lambic-style-beer/

7 hours ago, Eliminature said:

Mine doesn't. This makes sense since females don't have prostates and the urinary tract is shorter than a male one. I just pee a strong stream. 

The difference is anatomic but not a result of the prostate or urethral length.  The male stream spirals because the male urethra is flat, while the female doesn't because it's circular.  

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Found this video on yt.  Guinness World Record?  

Edit:  

On 10/5/2021 at 6:18 PM, Eliminature said:

Water that parched grass... Yeah! 

Nice circumcised cock. If you check out my thread in the Men Peeing section, it contains a photo of Mr Eliminature pissing onto some grass (uploaded with his permission). You'll notice that he is cut, too - rare in British men. 

Such a pretty sight, a shimmering stream pouring forth from a handsome cock. Give those Autumnal Fields a good watering! Unfortunately, my own stream, whilst I can shoot quite far, has never made it as far as Canada yet! 

Do some women prefer their men cut?  Strange - I know some men feel violated they lost a body part without their permission.  

6 hours ago, Eliminature said:

She was popping a high squat, facing away from the trough.

But please remember, she would have been about six years old at the time. A minor.

Or course - I only wonder since most females tend to approach from the back rather from the front.  It would be quite the uncommon experience for 2 females to find each other at the urinals, both standing and aiming forwards.  

4 hours ago, Eliminature said:

As a youngster, I would sometimes go and use the boy's toilet if I was allowed out of class to relieve myself. I would stand at the metallic trough and pee in it. It felt good, knowing that I should really be using the girl's loo instead. No one ever caught me, and I still enjoy doing it to this day! 

I eventually found out that I wasn't the only one who did that. I once walked in on another girl with her woollen tights and knickers pulled down around her ankles, skirt up, hovering over the trough with a mischievous grin on her face. 

Did she do it from front or behind?  "Hover" in North American English generally means behind - same as in UK?  

22 minutes ago, Eliminature said:

I like the way the stream branches into two towards the end. I've never been able to achieve that effect. I wonder what causes it? 

Lovely piss. Keep watering the grass and bushes. 

Sometimes it's caused by cum sticking to the male urethra, but I don't think this was the case here since it happened at the end.  It's more likely his urethra was a little misaligned from the beginning, which was overwhelmed by the strength of his stream, but as his stream died down, became apparaent.  

1 hour ago, Eliminature said:

 

Mr E and I have just arrived home from a few days city break. I had several outdoor pees whilst we were out and about - as did Mr E.

The first evening, Mr E and I had arrived in the first city we were visiting and parked our vehicle in a multi storey car park. Next, as Mr E  waited for Google Maps to co-operate on his phone, I took the opportunity to tuck myself between a green electrical junction box (thousands of these in the UK) and the wall and release a long spray of clear fluid through my modified leggings down the sloping street. It pooled behind the junction box and snaked down the pavement in strong rivulets and tributaries.

In the next city, Newcastle, I chose a spot recommended by an article in the Tab newspaper on the best places to piss in the city centre (around the back of the Anglican Cathedral), lifted my faux leather mini skirt and released a pint of locally brewed ale into the Tyne via a storm drain. Despite my traditional manly posture, it made a delicate tinkling sound. Mr E, who had just pissed in the same alleyway, tried to record it on his phone. We're experimenting with making recordings to upload to various sites; but a lot more planning and practice is needed. The video came out too dark.

Later that same night, after Google Maps had got us lost (again), Mr E and I both needed to release some 6.5% and 10.8% locally brewed ale. We both descended down into a subway which was already pungent and both had a long, relieving piss against the Brutalist architecture wall. His piss went on longer than mine and I eventually had to back away to avoid paddling in the small lake he was creating! I don't want my lovely Goth boots all pissy! I don't know where he keeps it all - he's 5' 10" and fits into the same pair of jeans he was wearing at the age of 21!

The final piss in Newcastle was in another alleyway - or should I say throughfare - between two main roads. It is another one of the sites mentioned by the Tab article. I had found a good spot to stand in - a graffiti covered black doorway, in keeping with my dark, Gothic image - and piss down some steps facing the camera. Unfortunately, I was put off by the foot traffic there. I don't mind general night revellers seeing me pee, but the rozzers were knocking about. As much as I love pissing outside, I really don't want to be arrested for it. Finally, I found a dark corner behind some bins facing the open entrance of the alleyway, but discreet enough to be given the benefit of the doubt if any police officers had seen me and I pissed openly into the downward slope of the street. I didn't even face the wall. It made a foamy, streamy puddle a few feet in front of me. People were walking past the entrance of the alleyway, but I don't know if anyone saw me. Again, Mr E tried to record it, but you couldn't see a thing. It was too dark.

As for any video footage, it will be uploaded to other sites in due course; namely when we are happy with the quality of it! One thing, whilst I am more than happy to provide waist down still images of myself for free on this website, I will be uploading any footage and face reveals to websites where there will be a small but affordable charge for them.

Footage sounds great - but perhaps you should reconsider a face reveal.  My opinion, of course.  

On 8/30/2021 at 9:12 PM, Vassal said:

Be fun to just piss through the grate, wonder what's below.

This kind of begs the question - can't the woman's room save space with a big grate?  Equivalent to a trough

ig's uri_nari has some finds.  

10 hours ago, Eliminature said:

Thank you for admitting that. ❤☮

I think on a fetish based forum it can be easy to forget (and I'd be the first to admit that I am occasionally guilty of this) that whilst we all love to indulge in our fetish, consent is everything. And that goes for any kind of sex. 

If it wasn't clear enough, I want to iterate that I don't think a woman peeing in front of you is a literal ask to have sex with you.  Just that if a woman you know starts peeing in front of you she might be expressing interest in you.  She also might be very desperate or very drunk.  

6 hours ago, Eliminature said:

On 8/4/2021 at 6:20 PM, pussylover said:

How is peeing in front of someone not making a pass at them?  A woman you know has pulled down her pants and bent over in front of you.  She's spraying pheromones everywhere, letting you know she's fertile, and her elegant thin stream suggests she hasn't given birth and is eager to prepare a baby.  When she's done, she shakes her buttocks, suggesting her crotch is wet.  

 I'm not sure that I like this comment. It sails too close to the "she was asking for it" territory for my liking. 

When a woman pees in front of a man, either she is desperate enough to damn the consequences - in which case, it's strictly utilitarian. 

I didn't think that one through.    

6 hours ago, Eliminature said:

Or she wants him to see it because it turns HER on. It is titillating and arousing for her. Unless he is a sexual partner (or future sexual partner) in a consensual and mutually respectful relationship, it is - as a rule - done for her benefit, not his.

Either way, for a woman to urinate in front of a man is a huge gesture of trust. To say that she is "making a pass" at him or simular is untrue and exploitative. A popped squat or an arc sprayed against a wall is not and never will be an invitation for a grope, a playful slap, an unwanted grasp, a lewd comment (you can look, but don't touch) or, heaven forbid, a violated genital or anal orifice. Not on either sex or any gender.

By making a pass, I meant flirting, not asking for a groping.  Bad, careless, wording.  My fault.  

On 8/3/2021 at 6:53 AM, Eliminature said:

This article, a few years old but still fairly recent, goes some way to explaining. Apparently, at its foundation, urophilia is related to sadomasochism. Though if this is true, it's probably subconscious in most of us.

The sexologist in question also states what the men of this website lament about a lot - the discrepancy between men and women. Kinks and fetishes are overwhelmingly more common in men, it seems. 

https://www.mirror.co.uk/science/reasons-people-enjoy-golden-showers-9603027

Perhaps it's related to how female sexuality is supposedly more plastic - her preferences liable to change over time and experience based on what her body needs this season, whereas a man's brain may have assumed he has found the best marker of fertility?  

The article goes on to say, "Dr Griffiths also points out how, in a 1982 medical journal, it was found "urine fulfilled many different functions for urophiles.""  It appears his sadomasochism hypothesis may have been in reference in his belief that "Urophiliacs typically derive sexual pleasure from urinating on (and / or being urinated upon by) another person," and "Some urophiliacs may also bathe in urine, enjoy smelling people in urine-soaked clothes, and/or engage in urophagia (i.e., drinking the urine)."  I am not sure if this is true - in my experience, the pee kink tends to be either wetting, or exhibition/voyeurism.  

The biological reality is that female urine contains pheromones which arouse men, and male observation of female urination tends to be arousing for both parties - some of us have just taken it to the extreme and consider it the most arousing thing.  This is partially because peeing is stigmatized even though recently passed urine is clean.  When you pretend it's not peeing - it's squirting - most people will acknowledge it's arousing.  How is peeing in front of someone not making a pass at them?  A woman you know has pulled down her pants and bent over in front of you.  She's spraying pheromones everywhere, letting you know she's fertile, and her elegant thin stream suggests she hasn't given birth and is eager to prepare a baby.  When she's done, she shakes her buttocks, suggesting her crotch is wet.  

As a corollary, most men tend to prefer slightly thicker women but that was not the ideal body type presented in the media until recently.  

On 8/3/2021 at 6:58 AM, Eliminature said:

Perhaps, in my own case, I risk being humiliated when I post photographs of myself online doing what is essentially a private act - urinating. Maybe this is at the core of it? 

People here tend to praise me for it, which is highly arousing. There's nothing like being praised for peeing, but I could just as easily be ridiculed for it. 

If you don't mind me asking, why do you find being praised for urinating a turn-on?  I have nearly no response to being praised for peeing, but I praise and adore a woman who can pee like a man.    Is your train of subconscious though is similar?  

On 7/22/2021 at 2:33 AM, pussylover said:

My generation, the millennials, were told growing up that boys were defective girls, that anything boys can do girls can do better, that girls can do anything, be anything, and rule the world.  

A woman can be stronger than a man, or taller than a man.  She can cut her hair shorter and tidier than a man, work harder, get promoted higher, and wear a cleaner cut suit.  Rarely, a flat breasted woman can develop more noticeable pectorals than a man.  The few things a woman supposedly cannot do that a man can supposedly relate to the penis.  A woman is not expected to ever have aim of her pee stream.  None of her pants come with a fly made for her.  None of bathrooms have a urinal installed for her.  For a woman to pee standing into a urinal through the fly is incredibly arousing to me.  She can even do so with her genitals fully hidden from the side view - pee like a man better than a man!  

This is strange to me because I worship the vagina.  It is what and where a woman can do what a man cannot.  She cannot be kicked in the testicles.  She can give birth.  

Do you really think people's reaction to pictures of you peeing standing up through the fly, into a urinal, onto a tree, onto a wall, with only front and not your rear exposed, into the sink, and without having to wipe, would be to shame you?  I think most women would wonder why no one taught them to do that, and men wonder if their ladies could take less time in the bathroom.  I think much of the shame towards women peeing is due to her having to pull her pants down, exposing her ass for no reason, and squatting, which is awkward and vulnerable.  You've circumvented both of those!  Men aren't shamed for peeing, but seen as vandals.  

3 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

No problem - it's worth reading @Eliminature's profile which would have addressed the surprise at source.

I'm used to business speak where the phrase "I'm a little surprised that you..."  generally can be read to mean "What planet are you on, you must be out of your mind if you really think that...", but of course I accept that it can also be used literally and with no hidden meaning.  All's well that ends well.

Attraction to both men and women is common and completely acceptable.  You're right that I could have worded what I wrote better.  I actually had read her profile and wasn't surprised that she in particular is bisexual, but how bisexuality translates to the peeing kink.

50 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

@pussylover - Don't be confusing your own personal taste with those of another member.  We all have our own unique preferences, tastes and things that turn us on.  As a community our aim is to celebrate, not to critique other members' choices.

Sorry, my intention was not to critique and I apologize if I came off that way, but marveling in the diversity of interest in peeing.  If you're interested, I just posted a longer explanation of my own kink here: