I can see that being a thing. Maybe when men are younger they tend to feel that way but I’ve been with women who don’t mind it at all… some like to see the bulge or a penis in underware which is usually at rest verses erect. Additionally, there’s women who will use a rest penis as their please toy for their clit, especially after ejaculation in the “rest period.” lol.
At the end of the day, I’m sure the majority of women know it’s natural and is what it is. Maybe if they use their fingers on it then it’ll get to the size they rather see 🤷🏻♂️
interesting topic lol.