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there is a joke on Chinese internet that there was a Chinese man went on a blind date with a woman. when they talk to each other for the first time, they could get along,but the man didn’t expect the woman to say that it was inconvenient for her to pee while squatting. the man drove the woman away as soon as she said that it was inconvenient for her to squat to pee. https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV1s441167rX/?vd_source=626323ad32e644d8224020804e335069 https://www.sohu.com/a/337798929_120282583 https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV164411r7MG/?vd_source=626323ad32e644d8224020

there might be a strange belief among some Chinese men that women who sitting down on public toilet while peeing is associate with promiscuity and sexual infidelity. hovering while peeing in public toilet is associate with sexual purity and fidelity. women who don't want to control their bladder, don't want to hover, have sat on many different toilet seats in various of public places(such as shopping malls, movie theaters, gym house and such),willing to sit on toilet seat to relieve their bladder in public which too many other women have sat on,are considered likely to relief their sexual dri

I think the author of the news article consider the habit of sitting down to pee on dirty toilet seat in public bathroom is akin to promiscuity,because too many women have sat on the western toilets. just like women who have sex with many men, who already have sex with many women, are likely to be infect with sexual transmitted disease,women who have habit to sit down to pee in public bathroom that many women have sat on will likely to infected with disease. women who don't want to control their bladder, don't want to hover, willing to sit down on dirty toilet seats to relieve their bladder, a

those are all Chinese slang words that the google translation system cannot recognize. the google translation seem to translate too literally. the term "女生" originally mean female students or girls who are in school age, but in modern Chinese, it can mean young and unmarried women or girls in general. single women below 40 years old can still be called "女生", not just school age girls. the term "肉便器 " is a term that borrow from Japanese. It doesn't mean "meat toilet". It mean sluts or promiscuous women which considered to be sex toilets for men to contain their semen. the term "小号" literally me

last Sunday (the day before yesterday)my younger sister, my mother and me went to shopping mall together, to buy some clothes and makeup. that was the last day of holiday on sale. Inside the clothes department of a department store in the mall, there is almost no heterosexual couple shopping together. almost all people are female. almost all of them of them go shopping with their same sex family members. when we went to bathroom together, we almost saw no men go into or come out of the men's room, while there were females from various of age groups (from little girls to female senior citizens)

in public bathroom,women generally spend longer time to pee than men. some research show that the average time men spend to urinate is 39 seconds while women spend 89 second to urinate. https://www.aboluowang.com/2021/1017/1660533.html https://www-aboluowang-com.translate.goog/2021/1017/1660533.html?_x_tr_sl=zh-CN&_x_tr_tl=en&_x_tr_hl=en&_x_tr_pto=wapp in public bathroom during holiday and weekend,there are long lines in front of women's rooms, while men's room are empty and quiet most of time. women are more likely to have to wait in line in

did you try google translate?

inside the ladies room in gym houses in Taiwan, the situation is very different from the ladies room in shopping malls in Singapore. unlike the ladies room in shopping malls in Singapore, which most women prefer sit down to pee, women who go to gym house in Taiwan prefer pee while hovering when face western toilet. peeing in semi squat position is a normal inside ladies room in gym house in Taiwan, which often make mess of the toilet seat. https://www.commonhealth.com.tw/article/67990 gogle translate:https://www-commonhealth-com-tw.translate.goog/article/67990?_x_tr_sl=zh-TW&_x_t

do your aunt and cousin also pee in full squat position?

you said that a Chinese woman squat next to you. is this mean that the toilets do not have partitions? how about the third woman? can you describe her age or what her stream angle look like?

how big was that bathroom? how many women were inside the bathroom?how was their squat position?do they do full squat or squat on toes or semi squat? did you see the stream of Chinese women?how was their stream angle look like? is it true that Chinese women more likely to have forward stream than western women? were there any other western women inside the bathroom? what would be the average age of the women inside the bathroom? do younger women have more forward stream than older women?do women in different age or ethnic group squat differently? will this make their stream angle look differe

it is true that many Chinese women are very curious about western women inside the bathroom. I saw a webpage which was written by a white woman who traveled to China (the webpage is no longer available) when she met Chinese men in China, they said that she was as beautiful as movie stars. when she went to pee in public bathroom, she was surprised by the long trough toilet with no door, with partitions which were only three feet tall. women seeing each other from the side while peeing. she and the Chinese women looking at each other. they were looking at each other with smile rather t

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was that an open squat toilet? did it have doors or partitions?

there are Chinese women discuss their peeing experience in ladies room on Chinese internet forums. they are not afraid to discuss their stream. they observe the stream of their friends or coworkers inside the open bathroom and discuss on internet. a example below is a page from a Chinese forum: https://zhuanlan.zhihu.com/p/23310965 the Chinese women discuss how common for them to peed their shoe when using squat toilet. one of them said that the place she live in have no western toilet or stall. they only have open squat toilet. she observe other women's stream and found out tha

This might be the reason why a lot of western men want to date or marry East Asian women and find East Asian women to be more attractive than western women. one's physical attractiveness to people of opposite sex might be a sign of fertility or reproduction ability. when animals including human, are attracted to member of same species of the opposite sex, their subconscious tell them that they need to reproduce offspring, so their genes will survive and will not die out. they unconsciously find the members of opposite sex who are fit enough to preserve their genes. physical attractiveness is c

have you ever heard any Chinese women saw western women squat to pee in open squat toilet in Chinese bathroom? did they noticed western women pee significant differently than Chinese women?did they notice different in body shapes or sizes while they were exposed to each other? will western women draw more attentions from Chinese women? I heard that western women tend to have more downward stream, more likely squat on toes or squat high than full squat, and have thicker thighs than Chinese women. will those differences attract more attentions from Chinese women inside the bathroom?

actually this novel is really popular. There is a TV series which is based on that novel. I just watched the beginning, but I am not sure if the pee scene will be on the TV series. the name of the book is ""the ninth widow".

you don't need to tell her that there was a fetish story in the novel. what you can tell her is that there is a very popular Chinese novel which was written by a famous Chinese woman. see if she is interested in it.

would she read the chapter of that novel? did you ask her about that idiom?

The page below is a entry from baidu encyclopedia. it is the entry of "尿友". the term "尿友" is a modern Chinese slang term. Its literal translation is "pee friend","pee mate" or "pee buddy". it mean friends who meet each other inside the bathroom or pee together. pee mate are almost always same sex friends,because Chinese bathrooms are strictly gender segregation. people who have pee mates are usually women, because men don't usually go to bathroom together. for example, when girls in high school talk about something they consider to be private (such as the boys who they are attract to, or

can she still read Chinese? I found a link for the novel:https://www.xstt5.com/dangdai/1902/ and the pee story in the novel:https://www.xstt5.com/dangdai/1902/140363.html update:I just found one more novel that mentioned the same idea. there are three novels that mention this idea,as far as I can tell. is this just a new concept created by the author of the novels? could this have been created by one author, and then other authors follow it as a example? are those authors "closet pee fans"?

please read the Chinese novel "Hawthorn Tree Forever" (山楂树之恋)by ai mi (艾米). I am not sure if it have English translation or not. as I said in my last post, My ability of translation is limited. some slang or idiom may not be translated correctly. also, I just found another Chinese novel today, which is called "The Ninth Widow"(第九个寡妇). a version of the same idiom appear in this novel too. those two book were written by two different authors. both are female. this suggest that this idea might be commonly known among Chinese women in older generation, whether they truly beli

This reminded me there is a Chinese idiom, it is "处女尿尿一条线,妇女尿尿一大片". I don't think I can translate this correctly. maybe you can ask your wife if she can translate this. the word "处女"mean girl,young woman, virgin or unmarried woman. the word "妇女" mean non-virgin,mature woman or married woman. The rough meaning that I can translate is that young unmarried women tend to have more straight forward peeing stream while mature marries women ten to have downward peeing stream. this idiom have several different versions. one version of this idiom is appear in a Chinese novel,"Under the Hawthorn Tree".

I think this have more to do with culture than biological reason. Chinese people view about gender tend to be binary. Men are supposed to be dominant while women are supposed be be submissive.peeing standing up is considered to be a sign of dominant(a penis symbolize a gun, which represent masculine power, peeing while holding a penis is like shooting while holding a gun) while peeing squatting down is a sign of submissive. Also,many Chinese bathroom, (both men's room and women's room) are open stall,(open stand urinal is in men's room,while the stalls in women's room have no door, some of the