Such a shame to hear such little sympathy from someone who should be so supportive to you and your situation. It's good that you can feel the support from the site, and try to take some comfort from the compliments. If it helps you through the situations, I hope it will continue. Although, what is most important, is that you put your needs first, in all cases. But it's great that you seem to find the site a help. I hope you will find a resolution to your husband's issues.