Ms. Tito

Its neat that all my queer friends are pro-public urination (or at least not against it) 

On 10/27/2023 at 1:13 AM, sillyme said:

Hi, I live in America. I am curious from people on here which countries where naughty peeing is the most socially acceptable, and common. I think it would be so awesome to have a group of friends who all do naughty peeing together somewhere where there is no need to worry about getting arrested for peeing on public restroom floors, store floors, roads, fitting rooms, elevators, and whatnot. Does anyone have suggestions for countries?

Honestly in my experience, even in the US it's somewhat accepted, usually in the countryside where there's fewer people. Farmers especially probably do it all the time, since they're out in the field all day working. 

Its like the saying goes. City girls look for public restrooms, country girls make do. 

On 11/24/2023 at 12:12 PM, PeeOV330 said:

What are the chances he's already figured it out...

Probably a nonzero percentage. 

Peeing outside is generally just my own little rebellion against the oppressive heteronormative capitalist society we live in. 

On 11/22/2023 at 1:48 PM, oliver2 said:

Could be a hint

Do I dare tell him? 

My best friend (the one I made the joke about if no one wore pants to) heart reacts all of my piss-related comments and memes whenever I text him. 

On 2/17/2023 at 11:50 AM, Ms. Tito said:

My friend IRL and I were talking about people not having to wear pants one time and I jokingly suggested that "If people didn't wear pants they could pee wherever they want" and they said that it was definitely someone's kink. I regret not dropping a hint. 

Side note, pretty much all of my irl friends are gay/trans/queer in some form, so gender isn't too huge a factor. However I make lots of piss jokes with the. I should probably tone it down lest they sus me out. 

Wait there's a National Kink Day?

On 8/9/2023 at 6:01 AM, oliver2 said:

“Everywhere including the floor and all over his pants” and “deftly down the sink, not including the dishwater which is in a bowl so it doesn’t get piss in it” are the two kinds of boy, henceforth

I will peg both. 

On 9/3/2023 at 3:36 AM, oliver2 said:

🥰 Like, an actual bar trough, in front of the bar, or just a pee-designed-wall-and-drain in the bathroom?

One of those stainless steel troughs in the bathroom. Like, not wall-and-drain, but more like this.

On 12/2/2022 at 6:53 PM, Takashi96 said:

I don't believe pee troughs would get much use at lesbian bars. Not that they would be useless. But if I were building a lesbian bar, I wouldn't spend the extra money to have one installed. Or urinals either.

I would

I just went to a queer bar in Berlin and used a small trough urinal

1 minute ago, toseepee said:

You sound like a fun drinking companion. Come visit lmao

Maybe someday 😉

1 minute ago, toseepee said:

Next time I hope you get to hose down a dumpster or a wall to your heart's content! Or to your bladder's contents!

I'll do plenty of that once I go barhopping. 

8 hours ago, oliver2 said:

You are clearly an imposter. Where is the real @Ms. Tito?

11 minutes ago, toseepee said:

You had to wait so long and didn't even get to piss somewhere fun. :***(

Trust me, if the city wasn't absolutely crawling with people, and by extension the Fuzz, I would have just went behind a dumpster. 

9 hours ago, toseepee said:

Omg that sucks. Where did you end up peeing??

I had to walk all the way to another subway station that had a bathroom. 

On 8/11/2023 at 12:51 AM, toseepee said:

Aaah I love taking the train and seeing piss bottles on the floor. Like knowing some person was so desperate or just so confident that they pulled out their cock and filled up a bottle. I love it

I genuinely considered that option when I was stuck on the tram that one time when a train ahead of us broke down and we were stuck there for nearly an hour before they finally told us to get off and shut down the entire line. 

On 8/24/2023 at 12:23 PM, 1badboy said:

I agree.  Now that is smart thinking! I think I would create 3 options.  A woman's only restroom with all stalls, a small men's only restroom with only urinals, and an all gender restroom with private toilet rooms 

Or just... make all bathrooms gender-neutral with wall-to-floor stalls. Not that American crap, I'm talking straight up Euro-style bathrooms with doors that close all the way. 

Yeah, especially when you find a rain puddle.

2 hours ago, Emilaze said:

You men are so lucky to be able to pee outside the window and not flood the room too

Cant be me tho 🤷🏻‍♀️

Psh, you could totally do it too. Practice make perfect. 

Do you have to actually be a Harvard student to do this? Asking for a friend, of course. 

On 8/3/2023 at 8:28 PM, Johnboy777 said:

Same with me. When I see another guy standing in that familiar position, or see a female squatting, it's really hard to not stare. And I always have to check out the area where they peed. 

same

On 8/3/2023 at 6:56 PM, Cum_ez said:

Ya when friends have to go pee and we're at a park or something I have to stay back. Because the sight or sound of them going will turn me on and I dont want a boner in front of them. It still turns me on just knowing their going. Also when I see someone going in public i have to stare. Like my neck locks in to position and I have to fight my self to not be caught. But I love to memorize all the spots I've seen people pee or evidence of it.

I feel so bad for getting turned on when my friends talk about peeing. 

10 hours ago, InsertName said:

I googled it and I think it means they are saying I’m right. I may just be biased though 😂 

Correct!

17 hours ago, InsertName said:

I’m here to celebrate piss 🤤

 

I understand where you are coming from with this perspective. I think it would be seen as unacceptable in either case if there was no valid reason. There is a hierarchy of issues here which, primarily, are the social contract that we use the restroom designated for our sex (or, in progressive areas, gender). Medical necessity, including sanitary conditions and prevention of UTIs, trumps that social contract almost universally. 

We all know that parasympathetic, really all autonomic, nervous system functions are functions we can only control to a certain point. We know if a person’s body needs to expel waste, it will. We also know that creates an unsanitary environment for ourselves- appealing to our selfish lizard brains. We also know that this will result in humiliation and sometimes pain for the person and we know that a janitor will have to deal with bleaching the area- appealing to our empathy. 

In short, a man walking into a woman’s room would only need to knock loudly as coming in, announcing themselves with eyes to the ground, and stating why he was coming into the ladies’. There will be a small percentage of women who are uncomfortable, but if it is a busy restroom it is a non issue and they need to recognize that their trauma does not change the physical necessity to void waste in a sanitary location. 

Similarly, there will absolutely be men who are uncomfortable with a woman in their facilities. The differences between the two are that men in western civilizations (less in recent generations) are conditioned with messages implying that they should always be eager for anything sexual. And, no, using a restroom is not a sexual activity but the separation of the rooms is to provide women, a frequently assault demographic, a place to partially disrobe with less vulnerability. 

Everyone deserves privacy. That doesn’t somehow make bodily functions stop. 
 

 

This is an icky generalization that perpetuates dangerous stereotypes and toxic masculinity. Men are diverse and while many are less private about urination, some are. Saying “men don’t care” minimizes any discomfort a man reading your comment might feel about it and that, in turn, can fuel self doubt/shame/etc. Words matter. 

 

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