Big Bear

Definitely. Up until a couple of years ago I believed that most women would do anything to hide the fact they were peeing outside and look for the most private, discreet places and that only a small minority were brazen enough not to care. Now since I started this job and the circumstances meant I was in town late at night and discovered this spot a lot of people use to pee I have come to realise it is the opposite way round. Most women don't care about peeing in public and have zero care about being seen and its those who look for privacy who are the minority. Most women just look for a spot

It surprised me too. I like to think it was the latter. She was holding on whilst they ate and then realised she was actually going to wet herself and had no choice. I prefer that although the idea she just didn't care and was waiting till she finished her food before doing it is also nice.

Just one sighting from last Saturday as after work a few of us went to a guy from works house for drinks and to play games. I left his house about 3 am and walked the short distance into town to get a taxi home. As I was walking towards town I decided I would take a detour down to the bottom end of town and see if and who were still about. Always got to take advantage of possible sighting opportunities right? I walked down to the main street and there were people waiting outside the taxi office and a few people walking along the street. I headed towards the taxi office to see if there was

So many wonderful possibilities 😄

Definitely not the only one, my mind often paints scenarios and outcomes when I over hear little comments or situations like that. Had one last night that had my imagination racing. Friday and Saturday night are obviously the main nights for people coming out in town making them the busiest and the nights I go looking for sightings. However other nights there are always people out and about. Thursday night being the most busiest outside of the weekend as its student night and a lot of the bars have deals on and events. I was due to finish work late but as we were quiet the shift manager s

Just a quick thing from last week. Having found out my return date for work I decided to head to the coast for a few days to chill out. I have family over there so I just stayed with them. On the day I came back I was waiting for my train. A train pulled onto the platform and people started getting off. Down the platform a little two girls got off and started semi running along the platform. The one in front moaned that she needed a pee. They made their way along the platform at a quick pace to the end where the toilets were. I wondered why she hadn't gone on the train, perhaps she just didn't

The 3rd and final sighting from Saturday night, I could have probably gotten more but I headed home as I was tired. But it was a good one to end the night on. I had been thinking about heading home as I was starting to get tired (first day of work after months of nothing will do that) and I reasoned that I would head for a taxi after my next sighting. The main reason for this was I needed to pee and I had decided that rather than just going and peeing I would wait until something occurred and I could enjoy peeing with someone, much more fun that way. I took up a spot in one of the shop d

After the three girls went into the bar I wandered back down the street scoping out the next potential sighting and keeping an eye on the "pee spot" for anyone heading up there. I ended up standing outside the shop near the ATM as that is a good central spot on the street and I was stood admiring the sexy ladies as they went by. I had been standing there about 15 minutes and as I was a couple came round the corner at the end of the street and came across to the ATM. They used the machine and as they were the guy pointed out someone across the street and once they had finished he shouted to the

Saturday saw the return of two things and a gradual sense of normality coming back. Firstly it was first day back at work after the governments easing of restrictions meant we could finally reopen. It was a quiet day, as expected, it will be a while before we are getting the same number of customers we were before. I worked late and after helping to lock up the building I set off walking into town to get a taxi home. This is where the second thing returned. As I was walking through town I realised something I hadn't even thought about having being so caught up in returning to work. With r

The second sighting involving J happened a couple of months after the first. In that time we had been to a few parties as a lot of our friends were turning 18 that year. This time it was one of her friends who was turning 18 and conveniently for us she was having her party at the function room of a pub that was a 2 minute walk from our street. So on the night of the party J came round to mine and we hung out until we knew our friends had arrived and we walked round to the party. Fast forward four hours to 11 o'clock and things were starting to quiet down. The party at the function room wa

In hindsight I did think about that, then the second sighting with her happened and I realised that was very likely to be true.

Typical isn't it. Lock down gets eased and after getting a sighting in the park I realise that it could be a good place to potentially get sightings given the number of people and the face the toilets aren't open so I plan to go back to the park in the hope of maybe catching a few sightings and it goes and rains. For a week. So alas no new sightings from the park so I will just delve into the archive once more and share a couple of stories that happened back when I was 18 that involved one of my good friends. The girl in question I will refer to by her initial "J". J and I became friends

I had my first sightings since lockdown started over the weekend and I can't believe I didn't think about the potential opportunities sooner. Throughout lockdown I have been going out for a daily walk but beyond that I haven't been anywhere so when the restrictions were eased that allowed people to go to public spaces I made the most of it and went to some of my favourite places around where I live. Over the weekend I had been out for a walk and ended up at the big park in my town which thanks to the sunshine was quite busy. I walked around the big field at the back of the park before cro

As I said usually when it gets late in the night I generally stand around Mcdonalds as it can get busy and is good for sightings. I was standing leaning on the railings outside watching the crowds when two women came up and stood next to where I was stood. My natural reaction was to check them out as they stood talking. Both in their mid 30's. both very attractive and both quite drunk. One of them, a slim blonde, said she was going to get something to eat to which the other, a curvy brunette, said she wasn't bothered and would wait outside. The blonde went inside and for the next ten min

A similar incident at the same ATM. Again it was getting late in the night when the bars had started closing and I was standing by the entrance to the nightclub watching the people coming and going looking for my next potential sighting. It came from a young blonde girl who had just arrived at the ATM with a group of friends. My attention was drawn to her as when they joined the queue at the ATM she made a comment to her friend that she needed a wee. I looked round at her when I heard that and noticed she was fidgety and couldn't stand still. For the next five minutes or so she cont

I love when girls are drunk and loudly announce their need openly. I am not a fan of when people are drunk and shouting and making a scene but this is the exception.

It was getting late in the night and the bars had started to shut which meant most people were heading up to the top side of town, either heading to the big nightclub which is one of the few remaining places that are open or heading to Mcdonalds which is across the road. This area at this time can be a good spot for sightings, especially as Mcdonalds don’t allow use of their toilets. I was stood on the corner outside of Mcdonalds looking around the crowd there and looking down the road at the groups of people coming up, looking to see signs of my next potential sighting. I was watching a

Another story from the archive. This one involving a family friend when I was younger. Growing up there was something we used to do every so often when the weather was nice. In my town there is a river and alongside it there is a canal with a footpath that runs all the way to the next little town about 4 miles away. Just before the next town along there is a pub on the river side that is lovely to sit at next to the river in the sunshine. Every so often we would go as a family and walk along the canal to that pub, have food and drinks and then walk back. I enjoyed these days out and most

I had not long since left my friends and was sat on the bench at the top of the steps watching the people coming and going and waiting for it to get a little busier. Once it gets busier queues start to form to get into bars and more people want the ATM and this is when it is more likely to witness/overhear desperation and scope out potential sightings. It gradually started to get busier and I was thinking about moving down onto the street to see if I could scope out my first sighting of the evening. As I was debating where to head to first a group of guys came across and up the steps and

I was milling around chatting to people along the main bars street waiting for my next potential sighting when it came from a girl standing partly in the road with two friends. My attention was caught by her mentioning that she needed a wee. I looked round and found a tall black haired girl in her early 20's wearing a thigh length black dress. Whether she had made the comment to her friends or had just said it aloud to herself wasn't clear but she had said it and had my attention. For a few minutes she stood with her two friends chatting and every so often she would make motions that were

I have used the excuse of going to pee myself quite a few times over the years. I remember the first time I ever used that excuse and the excitement of doing so and the nervousness as to how it would turn out. I was 19 at the time and had gone away to the coast for the week with my mum and stepdad. During the day we would do stuff and go places together and then in the evening after we had had dinner I would go off and do my own thing and they would do theirs. They were happy just going for a walk and then going to the pub for a few drinks. I would go down onto the front and wander about

I was sitting on the bench at the top of the steps killing time waiting for town to start getting busy. Usually there are people about but it starts getting busy after midnight when pubs start closing and people start coming into town. A group of people came down the road and they stopped on the street corner. They would stood talking for quite a while when one of the girls in the group, a sweet brunnette in her mid 20's, turned and walked across the road. She appeared at the bottom of the steps and walked up towards me. At the top of the steps most people go right and round to the s

Going off the last post I figured I would share my general rules when it comes to looking for sightings. Not rules per say, more just the code I keep to. These things make it easier to get sightings and can often enhance the sightings themselves. Don't be a creep - A simple statement but one that makes getting sightings easy. I don't ever let myself come across as creepy or suspicious. There have been plenty of potential sightings I have missed because I have chosen to. Pursuing them would have broken this rule. I never follow people into alleyways or places that realistically I have no r

When I got off the train she had already gone into the shelter so she was past caring who was around and as she was in the shelter her friend had wandered down the platform past the shelter so she obviously had no care either. I just pretended to be looking for something in my bag and putting my jacket on. I obviously wasn't just standing there staring and making it obvious that's all I was doing. I just happened to be watching whilst I was sorting myself out..."obviously" 😉 It was a great sighting indeed, very rare to get the full start to finish with some amazing views and dialogue, if

Another sighting I had whilst waiting for the train which thanks to the fact the train station toilets get locked up at night meant I had a great journey home. It was a night I had been working late and the time I finished my shift was the time my last bus home left so I was left with the choice of being lazy and getting a taxi home or walking into town to the train station and waiting for the train. I motivated myself to walk for the train, telling myself it was a nice evening and it would be cheaper. It just meant I would have to wait a while. I walked into town and to the train st