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  1. After the young couple had gone I walked around to the top of the church steps and sat down on the bench. There were a few people coming along the street from the bars at the bottom of town and they would be closing up in ten minutes time so I decided I would hang around and see if there was anything to see before heading home. Sure enough just after 4 am groups of people started coming up the side street and walking along the street. Some heading straight through and up the main road, some heading to the ATM and some heading to the takeaway. I kept an eye on the groups stopping off at t
  2. My plan to have a “couple” of drinks in the bar fell through and we ended up staying there for quite a while until my work friends said they were going to head off and get a taxi. The birthday girl and her remaining friends also decided to head off and called for a taxi. We all went and stood outside the bar and waited for the taxi to arrive. Once my friend and her group had left we walked up to the main street and headed for the taxi office. My two work friends ordered their taxis and they asked if I was ordering one. I told them I would go to the taxi office by the station as they are the on
  3. On Friday it was a friend's birthday and she told me that she and a few friends were coming to play bingo at where I work as it had been ages since they had been what with lockdown and she wanted a fun night out. They came in and enjoyed their night and after the last session of bingo finished she came over to me and said that they were heading into town if I wanted to join them when I finished work. I said I would see and would drop her a message. Not long after I finished my shift and a bunch of people asked if I was coming for a drink with them. I said I would and when we were all don
  4. As it was bank holiday weekend Sunday night had become a “night out” night and as expected it had been quite busy. The last session of bingo finishes at 10 o’clock and this is usually when you get a mass of people leaving. Then the rest of the people gradually leave over the next hour. Just after half 10 a young couple came out and walked over to the desk. They had come in about 5 o’clock and I had signed them both up as new members. The girl was what I would describe as fake and chavvy. She was all fake tan and makeup and had drawn on eyebrows and false nails and all that other fake stuf
  5. Whether it is just someone moaning that they need to pee or somebody full on pee dancing I always love these encounters because, as I said before, I love that they let the imagination run wild. The conclusions to these sightings are open to imagination, as is the build up. I love to wonder how someone got to that state of being desperate. However sometimes you get the answers to those questions and it just makes the encounter all that more fun knowing the facts. This happened last Sunday and as it was bank holiday weekend and we had special promotions on we expected it to be busy. Usuall
  6. The following Saturday night I was at the front desk and we had just had a bit of a rush of people and I was just having a quiet moment dealing with a customer when 5 young girls came in, all dressed up for a night out and from the sounds of it already a little tipsy. They came up to the desk and one of them told me that she had been before but none of the others had and a couple of them had just turned 18 during lockdown and wanted to know what they needed to do. I asked if they all had ID and they said yes so I told them I could get them signed up here and now and put 4 forms on the de
  7. People wanted the fun little desperation encounters I have gotten at work so here we go. I will post these in and amongst the pee sightings, which I'm hoping given the success of last weekend are going to be plentiful. Since I started working at my job I discovered that working in that kind of venue can be great for witnessing those little moments of desperation, especially whilst manning the front desk. I have gotten a bunch over my time there and will gradually get to sharing them. I decided to see if people wanted to hear them as in the past few weeks of being reopened I have had a fe
  8. It was starting to get quieter with people either in bars and staying there or heading home. I was slowly walking down the street intending on going and checking out queues outside the taxi office and the takeaway when I noticed a girl walking quickly along the other side of the street. It took me a moment to realise that it was the asian girl I had seen before. I watched her walking along and just assumed she had found somewhere to have a pee. However she reached the bar where she had been denied entry and tried pulling on the wooden gates leading to the roof terrace. The gates were clo
  9. After going back down along the street I noticed a pattern. I think as people realised they would have to wait a while to get into the bars they just decided to stay there rather than move between as they usually would. Also people were not staying out as long as usual as the nightclubs are not yet open. This meant for a while there was a cycle of there being no queues for the bars at all and then every so often you would get a few people waiting. Instead my attention was now focused on the taxi queue as that was quite long and similar to the bar queues had quite a long wait. I witnessed
  10. When I got back down to the street I walked back over to the shop and leant on the wall, scoping out the queue for the bar and checking out the new people who had joined. I was happy to see when I looked down the queue that the three girls who had got the cans of lager were still there, now 3rd in line. I was even happier to see the blonde girl in the green jumpsuit dancing on the spot. At first it just looked like her and one of her friends were just dancing but then she showed the tell tale signs of needing to pee. She kept doing little bobs on the spot and couldn’t keep her legs still. I sm
  11. I've said before in another thread how this is always the downfall of going out looking for sightings. After any desperation sighting or pee sighting your mind always plays out other outcomes of "what if I had?..." or "maybe I should have"...or "I wonder what they would have done if?". This will always happen and sometimes I often find myself thinking I should have done something different, especially when it comes to almost sightings or near misses. You just have to make a snap decision and roll with it.
  12. Along with being able to get back to work the easing of restrictions meant people were now allowed inside pubs and bars so I decided to head out on the Saturday after I finished work to see if the changes meant people were out in town and to see if I could scope out any sightings. However, by the time I finished on Saturday evening I was exhausted. A long shift that day coupled with it being the first week back at work had wiped me, and everyone else, out so after we finished we went to the bar/restaurant next door to our work for a drink before heading home, deciding going into town could wai
  13. Having finally gone back to work after restrictions were eased last week I managed to get out on Saturday night after work and was lucky enough to get a few sightings. I have a few days off work this week so I will hopefully get the time to write those up. However I just wanted to ask a quick question to those who read this thread on the regular. Since being back at work I have had a few fun little desperation sightings whilst working on the front desk and have a bunch more from the past couple of years of working there and wondered if people would be interested in me sharing them. I ask
  14. Definitely don't need to apologise for this, it is a very hot thought.
  15. I do the same. Especially with sightings. Always hard not to because, as you say, its a split second decision and afterwards I always think of what I should have done or should have said in the moment but with everything happening so quick you just do what feels natural at the time. Definitely gets easier with experience to know when to do things and when not to. I agree on this too, for people who only get a small number of sightings it can be much easier to remember and make them more special. I usually make little notes when I get sightings but even with those notes there are sighting
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