hold_on

Curious how much and how long?

8 hours ago, runningback said:

for many once they get older , usually somewhere in their 30s for most. the bladder becomes less elastic and wont stretch as far as when it was younger. plus many get more intense bladder contractions when part full then they did when younger when the bladder would stay relaxed with just a full feeling until it was much fuller. i knew many class mates that could pee for a minute when i was in high school when they were busting. going to parties or once legal drinking age going clubbing saw many pissing for a long time when they went to the bathroom. the biggest dance club here has the bathrooms all the way in the back. dance floor is in the front along with tables on one side for people to sit and drink and watch the people dancing to see who they like. had a bar in that area. another bar in the middle area between dance floor and bathrooms. there are pool tables in back, along with one of those long slide things where you sent a puck sliding down it and then  you get points when you are able to send it to the right point on the other end. they don't announce closing time. they turn on the lights to show its closing time, and the bouncers are already in the back and push the people forward soon as they turn the lights on. you cant go pee before leaving the club.. they work their way forward getting everyone out of the club. lots of full bladders as people leave the club. no one can piss in the street as there are bouncers and  cops outside making sure there are no brawls or shootings as people are crowded on the street talking. shootings are such a problem here that the bouncers wand everyone going in with a metal detector. so even if your busting you cant whip it out and go piss. you got to hold it. I often see people still chatting outside half a hour later. I'm sure most have full bladders when they leave the club at closing but they still stand around chatting outside the club after closing. I kind of suspect the club does it so people wont hang outside the club after closing but instead go back to their dorms or  homes to piss.  there is  a  small size specialty university walking distance away. 

Yeah, I think that's probably what's happening with mine. It doesn't stretch like it used to and the contractions happen when part full!

5 hours ago, Bladderlad said:

You must pee for longer when desperate though? 😏

Not really! I get that feeling of desperation pretty quickly. Sometimes I can put it off a little bit but usually my bladder's like "no more" 😂

Wondering where everyone stands on this? I am 47 m, and I usually have what I consider to be extremely short pees of about 24 seconds. Seems like I start peeing and then in an instant my bladder is relieved! lol. Would like to hear from fellow short pee-ers as well as those who can go a minute or more 😵

28 minutes ago, Peewee123 said:

I can see why someone might do that, perhaps they find it happens often. I just sit and go, however occasionally I go and it sprays or hits my leg and then yes a quick rearrange is necessary. However it happens like once or twice a year so I don’t routinely do it. 

Might be similar to what happens when sometimes the skin near the penis hole gets kind of misaligned and you can sometimes shoot off in a weird direction 😃

47 here. Emptying small bladder 🙂 https://www.erome.com/a/LD7K33OR

I like the word.

Seems like a lot of you with stretched bladders are female. I always thought women could hold it longer. I get annoyed after about 2 hours of holding it; 3 hours is usually torture!

Mine's mostly the holding and release. I love the feeling of my bladder getting full and swelling up, then peeing really hard.

Mmmm love these!

Hi, welcome! Thanks for introducing yourself.

On 9/15/2018 at 2:37 PM, Blackinksoul30 said:

Pretty sure the last time i had sex was in February or March. yea.... sexless marriage is rough.

Ugh, you too huh? Stress is a bitch.

8 minutes ago, Carb0nBased said:

There IS no "instinct to shake" for either women or men. Women typically wipe, which is of course something their moms teach them when they are young, and none have come here to say they have ever tried shaking their labia. For a guy as I said it seems more effective to squeeze it but some guys seem to shake it because it looks less awkward in public.

Yeah, for me (as a guy) it's more like a slight tap or two to make sure I don't have any drips remaining. Women's urethras are a lot shorter so they don't really have a lot remaining anywhere I would imagine. I have a short penis but my urethra is still a lot longer than a woman's.

31 minutes ago, Spectator9 said:

What I like to hear is one loud, strong piss that thunders for up to a minute.  It makes me wonder why he was holding so much as well as how it felt to need to go that bad.

I like that too, especially since mine tend to only go for 30 seconds or less lol

What were some of the measurements?

11 hours ago, pisspup said:

for me, personally, i like holding because i like the pressure of a full bladder. for reasons unknown, it's always turned me on to have to pee - not just mentally, but physically as well. there's nothing better (imo) than masturbating while needing to pee. holding will turn me on almost every time.

I have heard that it really intensifies the orgasms for some women.

Welcome!

For me, I enjoy holding because my bladder is on the small side. So it's partly out of a desire to not pee all the time, and also because I enjoy the feeling of fullness that results. I can actually feel the walls of my bladder stretching to try to contain it, and that's pretty exciting. I can sort of tell how small it is at that point. Definitely don't mind talking about it more.

Wow, that's a huge bladder! I am very impressed.

I like holding! (and making liquid go through fast) 😉

Haha that was great. Do you never have to use it? 😉

I can't even get past that point though lol

For me it's a gradual thing that starts with a slight stretching sensation in my lower belly.

By the time I am really needing to pee my bladder feels fully stretched, achy, and throbbing. I have a small bladder so at this point I can often feel exactly how small it is, as the walls are being pushed to their limit.

Like others in this thread, I find sitting down helps. If I stand up, I often will then have to go right away.

That's pretty incredible...my pees are literally like 30 seconds lol.

Curious to know what the general capacity is of people here.