Telling your significant other about your fetish

[peelove56 4]

So this is my first time ever being on a site like this and I thought I'd get this off my chest, see what you all think.

I'm a guy who has a pee fetish, like most of you here. Thing is, I've always been ashamed of it, never liked admitting it due to a lot of people seeing it as weird or gross.

I was once in a long distance relationship with a woman and it took so much courage for me to admit my fetish to her. Luckily, she was cool with it and even tried it out over webcam and she ended up loving it, making me feel somewhat comfortable about it.

Me and her aren't together anymore for more personal reason. Right now, I have a boyfriend (yes, I'm bi) and as much as I enjoy the "women peeing" fetish, I also like the occasional "guy peeing" fetish as well. I love my bf so much and I hate keeping secrets from him, but this is one thing I'm terrified of telling him, cause I think he expressed during casual conversation with me and a group of friends that he wasn't really into that.

Now as a note, there are A LOT of other things I'm turned on by, just as much, if not more than the pee fetish, but part of me still thinks I should tell him, even if the idea is rejected, cause as I said, I hate keeping secrets from him. On the other hand, I'm just that afraid of saying it. What should I do?

[Guest Anonymous]

We've known each other as friends for 5 months. We've been dating 3 of those months. I actually met him when I was with my ex gf.

We're young, me and my bf but we love each other strongly and have planned out how things will be when we're able to move in together.

[F.W 5,655]

Ive only asked once if i could watch a g/f pee.She said no,and really didnt like the idea..Since that time,ive paid a few escorts to do it,and the relief i had when i first asked and the sexy brunette simply said,"ok,but its £5 extra,give me 5 minutes"then she led me into the toilet offered me to kneel between her thighs as she peed in the toilet,was fantastic.Since then ive watched about 10 other girls pee in a similar way,and been peed upon..I once heard a female colleague pee behind a hedge but not the same as watching.:)

[Guest Anonymous]

So should I tell my bf or just keep it to myself for now?

[Guest Anonymous]

It really depends upon you and how serious your relationship with him is . That should determine whether / not to tell him about your pee fetish . That if it's not that serious then I would hold off in broaching the subject with him . Since He has already admitted that He doesn't particularly like the pee fetish . In that I think then not to say anything to him . Unless He asks you directly what turns you on the most / arouses you . In having sex. Then be truthful to him at that time . That it might mean . That if He refuses that of what you like . Then remain silent about it . In just having fun with your pee by yourself . When alone and not risk being rejected by your B/F on your pee fetish you have .

That of continue on searching for some one who will accept you completely and leave this other guy in the dust .

It really boils down to you in how you really feel about your pee fetish and your relationship with him at this time .

I love him much much more than my fetish. I'll take the "only tell him if he asks" choice

[Sexismygod 1,762]

There are other ways to raise the subject. Saying "I like to pee during sex. Do you?" isn't the best approach. :wink:

My wife and I often take showers together. It saves water and we can chat and be sexy. Sometimes we pee and I've even peed on her this way. I think she has an idea that I enjoyed it more than she did. She didn't mind in that setting but it was clear that she wasn't into it. Now I know and I focus on the sexual preferences we share. Pee stays in the shower.

Be creative ... Getting into a desperation moment, for example, could open new doors if handled right.

In the end, if the relationship is important and solid, you should be able to find a way. Just don't make it a deal breaker unless you're willing to lose them.