Potty training and not being too dependent on pullups

[Mary Moon 1,662]

With the vacation, where obviously i couldn't wear the pullup as i was mostly in my swimsuit, i realized that if i plan my bathroom visits well, i can do without diapers. Mom is a little worried that i might have public accidents. But i have to take the risk if i want to be less dependent. Of course i wear them if i have to go on a long trip, to long lessions and the night.

My girlfriend gave me an app that my mom can access that reminds me to go to the bathroom with a beep. It's a little embarrassing because it's a little childish thing but sometimes it's useful because i might not think about it and then i get desperate and have to run to toilet. My bladder often doesn't let me know how full it is, so this is a great help.

But i don't want to give up diapers completely but it's right not to depend on them too much. Then by not using them i can dress a little tighter and sexier. Even a girl who is a bit alternative and "tomboyish" like me, sometimes wants to feel sexy eheh 

[Intraco 21]

At least accidents in a swimsuit can be pretty discreet I guess

[MrLasagna 45]

The public wetting is an experience I still haven’t tried and a vacation, where nobody knows you, could be an occasion. I think that, in your condition, I absolutely wouldn’t wear the diaper and, in case of accident, I just would enjoy the wetting.

[Mary Moon 1,662]

11 minutes ago, Intraco said:

At least accidents in a swimsuit can be pretty discreet I guess

It depends on where you are

[Mary Moon 1,662]

38 minutes ago, MrLasagna said:

The public wetting is an experience I still haven’t tried and a vacation, where nobody knows you, could be an occasion. I think that, in your condition, I absolutely wouldn’t wear the diaper and, in case of accident, I just would enjoy the wetting.

Unfortunately i have experienced the humiliation of public wetting several times, due to my urge incontinence. Believe me, it is truly mortifying. That's why i started using pullups. If i get desperate i literally can't resist for more than a few minutes, sometimes seconds. That's why it's important to plan bathroom visits every two hours. But sometimes it slips my mind and i end up in dangerous situations.

Edited September 9 by Mary Moon

[Mary Moon 1,662]

I have to admit, the idea of the app that reminded me to pee every two hours, seemed like a stupid idea to me. But i have to admit that my girlfriend was right this time too. It's helping me a lot, sometimes i hear the beep that maybe I'm thinking about something else and it saves me from a sudden desperation that i would have in a short time. Believe me, it's complicated not to fully realize, the progressive filling of the bladder as it should be and feel the desperation that comes at any moment. This app makes me feel a bit like a "little girl", because when i click to stop the beep it marks that i peed. There is also the section where I can mark any accidents, fortunately i haven't used it yet. My girlfriend told me that if i have an accident i have to mark it, sometimes she really is a 2.0 mom, i love her for this too  😄 

[gldenwetgoose 21,110]

Maybe @Mary Moon when you're inside the apartment with just your girlfriend you should have a little fun...    When the been goes off and she reminds you it's time to wee-wee then you should grab the nearest thing...   maybe a vase or a container of some kind and pee into it, whichever room you're in.  Maybe on some towels you're just about to put in the washing machine. A plant pot, or hop onto the edge of the sink... Just whatever is nearby.   You'd be avoiding an accident that way...   And maybe your girlfriend can judge on how creative / naughty you're being ?

[Mary Moon 1,662]

20 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Maybe @Mary Moon when you're inside the apartment with just your girlfriend you should have a little fun...    When the been goes off and she reminds you it's time to wee-wee then you should grab the nearest thing...   maybe a vase or a container of some kind and pee into it, whichever room you're in.  Maybe on some towels you're just about to put in the washing machine. A plant pot, or hop onto the edge of the sink... Just whatever is nearby.   You'd be avoiding an accident that way...   And maybe your girlfriend can judge on how creative / naughty you're being ?

It's not like we're on a porn  🤣

[gldenwetgoose 21,110]

1 hour ago, Mary Moon said:

It's not like we're on a porn  🤣

Why not 🤣🤣🤣

 

[Mary Moon 1,662]

15 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Why not 🤣🤣🤣

 

Actually last night there was a hilarious scene, we were in bed with my girlfriend in an intimate moment, and the app rang, i was very taken and said I could wait but she told me "no, rules are rules", so she practically took me to the bathroom to pee with her who was there as if to make sure i did it. I admit that it turns me on when she is the dominant one eheh