Coming Out

[Silv 9]

First of all, please excuse for my English. It is not my first language.

I am not really a speaker, or a writer, but I would like to try.

I would like to talk about my coming out about mty pee fetish, not the beginning, I don't remember much about when it started. I have it from when I remember. As a kid, I had some experience with some friend, therefore I grow up with this fetish. From then, I always experienced it by myself.

Last spring, during the covid lockdown, I had a discussion with my wife, we had a bit of misunderstanding about our life together. Nothing serious, just the daily discussion that every couple have. After that, we talked and talked and talked. I asked her if she was missing something in her life, some desire about something that she want to accomplish. She expressed hers and after that she asked about mines. I told her about mines too.

A couple of day passed, then I found myself in a position where I would like to tell her about my pee fetish too. I struggled for a couple of days about it, should I talk to her? should it be only mine?

a day passed with my thinking going on, and then I took my decision. I told her. it was not easy, she partially understood, partially not. But in any way, she accepted it. From that moment, I found myself a bit more relieved, it was not a secret anymore.

 

[Kupar 13,340]

I totally understand @Silv and thank you for writing about your experiences. I would be interested to know how your relationship has changed since you first spoke about your kink to your wife. And what you now do differently. You may have seen this thread but if not you may find it interesting.

 

[Silv 9]

50 minutes ago, Kupar said:

I totally understand @Silv and thank you for writing about your experiences. I would be interested to know how your relationship has changed since you first spoke about your kink to your wife. And what you now do differently. You may have seen this thread but if not you may find it interesting.

 

Thank you for the link, I will read it as soon as possible. Regarding your question, let's say it is better. I was able to have some new experience. I will talk about them in the future. 🙂

[Kupar 13,340]

7 minutes ago, Silv said:

Thank you for the link, I will read it as soon as possible. Regarding your question, let's say it is better. I was able to have some new experience. I will talk about them in the future. 🙂

Great! Looking forward to reading about them 🙂 

[Mr. P 48]

Good on you. Happy that you finally told her about it, and you found some sort of relief. After all, a healthy relationship is one where you share everything with your partner, and he/she at least accepts it. A sound relationship is not one where you are being judged or condemned. A great partner accepts and supports your choices and desired. I'm not saying he/she naturally endorses it and joins in on the fun, but your partner should at least know of your desires and not condemn you. I am happy that you found the courage to open up.