What if......? in Pee Talk & Questions Posted December 30, 2014 The way I say it, at least from a moral perspective. Whether I personally get off to it or not isn't going to change the fact that it's already up on the internet for everyone to see. TBH, providing it wasn't my mom/grandma or some old lady like relative, if she was cute, I'd get off to it. Even if it was a close friend, cousin, or other such attractive relative and what not. As for telling the person, I can't help but think it might just do more harm than good. Again, I can't imagine it could do all that much to help get the video removed and would just bring up way too many awkward questions on their part to really justify throwing myself under the bus like that. If possible, I might politely try contacting the person who uploaded it myself and just tell them that it's someone I know who wouldn't want that sort of thing online and ask if they could remove it. From what I see, most people are generally pretty chill and understanding about that. That's not to say that I might not save the video to enjoy later beforehand. But I certainly wouldn't distribute it anywhere.