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13 hours ago, Bacardi said:

I love wearing tight clothes 🤭 I am all about leggings and tight shirts that show off my figure. I feel like if I wear looser clothing I look like I'm heavier than I actually am. I love showing off my butt the most cause I know it gets attention 😅 Don't really mind my nipples being shown off tho, but when I can see my camel toe I get a but embarrassed 😬 it's really only in my two pairs of forbidden pants when I pull them up all the way tho. In my jeans and leggings I am safe. 

These days, I only want to attract the attention of my husband, but I do like wearing leggings and baggy shirts. I don't like tops that are too tight, just for comfort reasons. I have never liked wearing bras, but will when I have to. I wear underwear unless it's just me and him and I'm trying to be suggestive. He's a butt man, but he doesn't admit it. So I have some special clothes that used to arouse him before we were married. Before the prostate surgery. (He did start taking the testosterone shots again, so I'm hoping that will help us.) And there is one color he likes to see me in. I don't do the leggings sans underwear, and my leggings are somewhat baggy now since the unplanned (cancer) weight loss. But they're still the most comfortable thing to wear right now.  

Nicely hydrated too. Thanks for posting these. 

I have no idea how my experiences became arousing. If anyone remembers what I wrote when I was a member here before, my mother bore 7 children and must have had a weak bladder or pelvic floor. One night I woke up to hear her pissing in the basin of my potty chair. I guess that's where I got the idea of "naughty peeing" and wanted to do it myself. I see it as a passive-aggressive response to what I perceived my mother had done to me. Aside from an old crib mattress in our attic loft, I never really got to try it. I was the last child born, so I don't know why it had been kept. But I did piss on it occasionally. We didn't have an indoor bathroom so that led to outdoor pee experimentation too. And I think I usually peed in the (galvanized) tub when taking baths. When I was 17, I met the guy who would become my first husband. I wanted to try pee things and he was willing to indulge me. That was the first time I saw a man pee, and I got to hold and aim his cock. I think one of my favorite things was rubbing his cock on my clit while one or both of us peed. I did pee sexual activities while I was still a virgin. Then much later, we added pee after intercourse. I just couldn't get enough of it. The only part I disliked was the taste of pee. 

Genetics? I have a hard time with that one. Like something freaky coming from my ancestors? I really can't imagine it, other than the days of chamber pots, and when urine was used for practical purposes. 

On 6/7/2023 at 9:10 PM, Takashi96 said:

I was surprised that more women like to be peed on than those who like doing the peeing.

I really get more out of it from receiving. I will reciprocate, but I'm all about admiring the cock. Watching and feeling what a man can give me is exquisite.

13 hours ago, Horse_water said:

One of my regrets in life is not pissing in the lounge/common areas of my college more. Peeing all over public stuff is incredible and I cannot recommend it enough. If you had a bag or backpack you could squat down and pretend to rummage through it while pissing almost anywhere. I'm honestly jealous of skirts, such a practical garment.  

Seriously, because each length/style of skirt provides different ways to accommodate or hide open urination. 

On 3/22/2023 at 3:59 AM, LovesToWet said:

I hope these are OK here as they are on topic. It's me having a pee break next to my truck

Looks like you're excited to be seen too. 😉

On 3/24/2023 at 11:23 PM, Fanny said:

Welcome, someone else from Belgium 😇

Join the club of like minded people.

I live in the States, but my mother's family was from Belgium. Just putting that out there. And welcome!

On 6/14/2023 at 6:37 PM, Bacardi said:

Eh. If I get super horny when I have to pee or if I'm holding it doesn't really hinder me from peeing. But I find if I orgasm right before I can't pee. Usually I lose the need to pee all together and then it hits me an hour or so later and I'm rushing to the bathroom nearly pissing my pants 😖

I relate to the part of not needing to pee right after masturbation, especially if I did it as a way to postpone getting up to pee, and later on becoming way more desperate than I was before. 

On 6/10/2023 at 2:50 AM, Paulypeeps said:

I did install one in my garden for the purpose of collecting the by-products for use in composting - and very effective it was too for making the plants grow.

Most people when presented with the urine separator find it baffling. It is just a funnel arangement at the front of the 'hole' in the toilet seat, the idea being that when seated No2 goes straight down and No1 goes forward in to the funnel. Pee has to be kept out of the No2 because it must be kept dry, and that is the main reason for seperating the urine. To aid drying of the No2 after each use a sprinkling of sawdust gets layered on top of the No2 - but a lot of it ends up in the funnel blocking the pipe that takes the urine to the urine tank (grumble grumble) because no one quite understands the process.

When you get five gallons of urine it can be poured on to the compost heap to accelerate the rate of composting, and after the dry No2 has been stored for about six months it reduces in volume to about 20% of the original and can be sprinkled on to the compost heap too. The resulting compost at the end of the process is fantastic for growing vegetables.

If your composting toilet is well designed it becomes quite straightforward to swap out the five gallon urine bottle and the 40 gallon plastic dustbin periodically - and all without any plumbing!

Very informative. If we inherit the homestead, we want to install a composting toilet. My background is farming and I find it incredible that as long as this land has been in my husband's family, it has never been farmed. I can grow almost anything outdoors. I'm planning to read up on homesteading and off-the-grid living.

48 minutes ago, ABBYPEEGODDESS said:

Yea as a person who worked at a fast food place when I was 16 for a couple of months before I started playing u17 soccer you begin to notice the different between drug addicts and Regular people.

Or the homeless vs. the aimless. If I went into the city for an appointment and had to wait around all day for the bus to go home, I noticed that certain people would use the library to nap in and McDonald's to drink free refills of coffee all day. The genuinely homeless were often cleaner-smelling (wood smoke as opposed to offensive body odors).

On 7/16/2023 at 7:04 AM, Bacardi said:

I am the asexual person in my relationship, and while I cant speak for your partner, I can add details of my experience. 

My last pregnancy was rough. It was a c section with a labor that lasted well over 24 hours. This is what I partially blame my asexuality on, plus other outside factors such as my depression, the fact that I have kids that tend to suck the energy out of me every single day, and the fact that often my husband works late. I am also a CSA survivor. Yes we do have sex, but I find I don't enjoy it. Any of it. Oral/penetrative/anything involving my nether regions that isn't me getting myself off. I just don't enjoy it like I used to. Well, really, I've never enjoyed penis-in-vagina sex, but that's beside the point. I still do it every so often to make my husband happy, but that's just it. To make him happy. It does nothing for me therefore I don't seek it out. Thus, I choose to label myself as asexual. 

This is where I have to emphasize once again that these are my feelings and I cannot speak for your partner. This might not be how they feel, but this is how I feel as the asexual partner in my marriage. I feel tons and tons of guilt on my shoulders. Every single day. I know my husband didn't sign up for this, and I know he misses the first few months of our relationship when we were having sex literally all day every day. I cant give that to him anymore, and therefore I feel bad. I've even offered to open our marriage so that he could find a woman to satisfy him more often but he declined and said he is committed to me. 

I am certain there are men out there that would have let both me and my children by now if they were in his position, but he hasn't left me yet, which I am grateful for. It's obviously not a deal breaker for me, and neither is it for my husband either. 

I would say do you. I have other outlets for sex in the form of porn, masturbation, and this very forum. I can confidently say I get what little sexual needs I have met with those three things, and I have my husband to fulfill everything else. He has his sexual outlets too and I've never stopped him from enjoying them. Remember that you are one half of the equation in your relationship too. I'm not condoning stepping out on him of course, but just as I've found a way to keep myself satisfied so has my husband with things that are adjacent to sex. We are both happily married for nearly ten years. 

I am one of the rare women who easily experiences orgasm, whether clitoral, vaginal, or from g-spot stimulation. I might also have the condition where frequent arousal is considered a disorder. Not sure. Sex is absolutely not a 100% priority, as we courted for 14 years without having it, and I was celibate 4 years before ever dating him. So it's been 18 years since I had it. I like having sex. (I already know that he will never give me oral, and there have only been two men in my lifetime who ever made me climax from cunnilingus, one in 1980 and the other in 1997). I would like to have any type of intimate pleasure with my husband. I just feel despondent that he doesn't want me.

On 7/16/2023 at 2:54 PM, PeeOV330 said:

Dual purpose! All about the physical accessibility and the wheelchair keeps you at the perfect eye level for the urinal!

I have to admit that I wouldn't be hesitant to notice, though that would not be my primary purpose in being there. It would be an added bonus though, especially if some deliberately missed the urinal.

There is a local site for whitewater rafting at one edge of the river. It has two small outdoor cubicles; one has a toilet and one is for changing. When my husband stopped there to pee, I noticed him slightly hesitate. He later admitted (when I asked) that he almost went to pee in the changing room. That left me with some nice fantasies.

Most days are tolerable as I await the next phase. They give you three weeks between dosages for the body to rest. Now my husband needs to get his family medical leave in place again so I can get the 7 weeks of radiations. Thanks so much for your weIl wishes.

Just now, Johnboy777 said:

Would that be in a Walmart near Neshaminy in Pennsylvania...I think I've seen him.

No, I've never visited that part of the country. Interesting, though that there is more than one! 

On 7/15/2022 at 4:53 AM, CON2H4 said:

I think kilts are becoming more widespread in England too.

I live in the States and a male employee at our local Walmart wears kilts regularly. 

On 9/1/2021 at 6:12 PM, Peevert said:

I really wish it was acceptable for non-trans men to wear skirts.  

How about a kilt?

Having gotten off to many videos of people peeing in abandoned houses or vacant buildings, I always wish I could find one nearby to explore my pee fantasies in.

On 7/16/2023 at 10:33 AM, Alfresco said:

That’s a lovely attitude and a definite leveller of the field giving everyone the same level (or lack) of privacy and access.  But on the other hand, there is no reason why a wheelchair should be a reason for having to lose privacy if you want it.  Certainly any significant venue should be able to provide suitable sized cubicles with power assisted outward opening doors.

 

I'm okay with anyone wanting to see/hear me pee, if that's the case. When my husband helps me to get my chair into a public restroom, I tell him he's more than welcome to stay while I use the toilet, but he always declines. There isn't much for anyone to see; just me transferring from my chair, pulling down panties (and leggings if I'm wearing them), and sitting myself on the toilet. It's not as though I'm putting on a show. They probably wouldn't even notice my lady parts, if they were in the bathroom for the same purpose. And given that he usually has to pee immediately after I do (power of suggestion?), having a urinal right there would give him an opportunity to pee too. 

I would love for every place I go to have adequately accessible restrooms, but sadly most do not. The nearest mall has one stall that barely affords enough room to turn around in, let alone close the door behind my chair. Most "accessible" stalls in women's restrooms are placed at the far end of the room, so in navigating with a chair or walker, you have farther to travel and are likely to get hit by people opening the other stall doors, on your way to the only accessible stall. Businesses can remain ADA-compliant simply by having that one designated stall. It doesn't have to be conveniently located and there's no guarantee that it will not be used by non-disabled people, at the time a disabled person needs to use it. (I have the same problem with preferred seating on public transportation, though I've never used buses for toilets.)

On 6/14/2023 at 6:19 AM, Wetling said:

I try to not piss the same spot all the time and don't do it every day, so it can dry. There is some smell if you knew what you were looking for, but not the bad kind. It's actually pretty decent and not worse than my bed.

I think it matters as to how hydrated one is. The clearer your pee, the less chance of (offensive) odor.