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I know this an oft repeated topic here, but one not touched upon recently.  Also, who knows there may be new resources, so always good to always ask.  
 

The question is how to best find someone who is willing to participate, live, with the various pee fun and games we enjoy?  What sources out there, or strategies, can be used to find the willing?  
 

I have spent years doing this and have had some amazing results, but alas, too few and far between, only to revert to the frustrating search to find someone in a place that is local to where you are or could be.  
 

There are two routes, generally, one can take.  One is to pay for the experience and the other is to find a like minded person who finds equal satisfaction in the fun.
 

 As for paid experiences, this is difficult due to the largely illegal practice of prostitution and the extremely guarded, and somewhat dangerous environment this creates.  Never mind that strict pee play does not violate that which has been deemed illegal, it still gets caught up in that category, making searches difficult.  In fact, if anything, the subject of pee is often so taboo that it transcends paid sex, creating even more barriers to shopping.  
 

As for simply finding a willing participant, there are similar concerns for safety, which are understandable.  There is also an understandable need to prevent a friend search app from becoming a tool for illegal solicitation.  So, many of the sites we use, make it extremely difficult to find others in your area.  Fetlife, being one of the most promising tools, for instance, simply does not provide a simple, if not incredibly time consuming, way of searching for local friends of like minded interests.  
 

So, I know for one, I am tapped out of ideas.  I can share my many experiences, as I have in the past in this, but none of those paths is easy or, largely, productive.  

On 3/19/2022 at 8:45 PM, Northern_pee said:

I haven’t peed on a car but I have squatted in between two cars in a car park. Maybe my pee stream hit the tire but other than that no pee on the car. If I could get away with it I would happily pee on someone’s car. 

You can pee on my car anytime.

welcome to peefans.  Hope to hear your nastier and nastsier fantasies.

2 minutes ago, colette888 said:

I share your hope.. but I'm not under the illusion that we are getting closer to that eventuality... in my opinion we are heading to the opposite direction. And that's because the system is trying to profit from any human expression, commercialyzing even the basic activities... 

Yes, I agree.  I have been on line regarding this fetish, for a long time.  Everytime that there has been a break through allowing all of us, with a similar mindset, to share, someone swoops in to insure that such sharing can only happen if a fee is paid.  To some extent there is logic as badwidth is an expense, as well as all of the maintenace and administration, a web site entails.  So, why should people not be compensated for that, especially if other benefits ensue, such as security, better quality, better organization, etc.  

I know that I, for one, will even voluntatily pay, not so much for the enhancements a subscription offers, but to better insure the sustainability of the underlying site.  For instance, I pay for this site, because it is very good it exists and I hope it continues to do so.

Still, I do get your point and Peeing Cupid is a good example.  It promises a lot, it is a sham, and someone is doing it just to profit.

So, even if there is a profit, and there is plenty of opportunity, it still cannot be pulled off, apparently.

On 6/13/2014 at 6:45 PM, CrissyP said:

1. Most of my experience is peeing while dressed.

2. On stage. I was a stripper at one time. The owner said it was ok, if I cleaned it up. I had multiple orgasms while doing it.

3. I once peed while waiting in line to get into an outdoor concert. People all around me, I didn't even get out of line.

4. Never tried that.

5. I don't think so.

6. Can't tell you for sure, but maybe like PeeGirl95 says, I like the idea of people seeing me. I am an exhibitionist at heart.

The fact that you were able to do that as a stripper is amazing.  Did it enhance your tips?  Did you do a full gush or just spurts?  fanscinating and thank you for sharing that.  I know that I woulf have been a very committed customer of that establishment.

I do love leather skirts, especially with cotton panties underneath.  It is that combination of the "bad ass" look of leather combined with the innocence of what lies beneath.  

On 5/7/2023 at 6:18 AM, colette888 said:

Reading here made me remember that a few years back I did join that Site and used it for a while, putting it to the test...

Honestly, I had completely forgotten, but now I see I can still log in.

Well, by my experience, that's not a true pee-dating facility, it's more of a fantasy-location where real people, especially of my gender, are few and far between...

I do think this is the inherent challenge of any meet up site, in that men always become way over represented and females, who are then rare, become targets of too much attention.  I have seen that with regard to fetlife.  Females, very quickly, get unrelenting attention.  While it, no doubt runs a spectrum of good, bad and ugly, sheer volume seems to become reasons to shut down participation by females.  It seems a universal problem that should and could be solved?  Maybe, females get free subsriptions and males have to pay, perhaps even have congestion pricing imposed.  Maybe there should also be better verification and qualification of participants to rid sites of those who are fakes, disrespectful or do not otherwise respect limits?  I know several sites have tried to implement those masures.

In the end, I do hope someone develops something like Peeing Cupid that actually works.

On 5/7/2023 at 5:31 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

I've no experience myself - but a quick search here on the word 'Cupid' and it does appear from time to time in discussion.   None of it suggesting that it's the holy grail we'd love it to be.   But have a browse on the search results for yourself.

https://peefans.com/search/?q=cupid&quick=1 

Thank you.  Yes, over the past decade, or more, there have been several observations posted here on Peeing Cupid, which mostly pan it due to the very high ratio of men to woman, as well as no instance noted where it ever worked for anyone.  That said, there has not really be a substantive comment about Peeing Cupid in the past couple of years.  Perhaps, that is the answer, as it is not even worthy of comment anymore.

In the end, I am still astonished there is not a website that enables people, with similar pee fetish insterests, to meet.  There are a ton of dating sites, often catering to particupar demographics.  There are also several notable fetish sites, such as this wonderful site, as well as fetlife, that are not really designed, purposefully or not, to easily facilitate meet ups.  Finally, there are "paid for services", assuming that there are people who would pay for an experience, because a non-paying outcome is simply not easy or possible.  Yes, prostitution is illegal in many places, but that does not stop web sites that facilitate such match ups from occuring.  Again, while many of these do attempt to cater to one's sprecific needs, again, nothing out there specifically on any of the pee fetishes.  My last thought on "paid for services,"  modeling is legal and a desired encounter does not need to include acts for which solicitation is illegal.  I know for one, I would be interested in paying to have someone model, live, a role play scenario.  However, even here, while fetish and erotic modeling have many internet sites to facilitate the offering of services, there are no pee fetish offerings out there that I can find.

I do know that all the above is possible and can be found.  I just wish it was not akin to finding " a needle in a haystack."

I have long been intriged by the Peeing Cupid web site and wondered if it is any good.   Finding like minded participants is hard and this might be the answer.

I would like to further explore when you say that when you are feeling extremely naughty, and wearing a skirt, you pee in your underwear, keep them on, and go home.  What type of underwear material do you like when you do that?  You say that you either walk or drive home.  I get how you conceal the walk, but how do you conceal sitting in your car, with wet underwear?

Thank you again for being so informative.

On 1/30/2023 at 10:52 PM, adamz33 said:

Would you consider going in your swimwear wetting when youre in some sort of water ( pool, sea/ocean, lake, river etc.) ?

Ps: i would really appreciate if i would get some answers please

I would never pee in a pool.  I heard that urine does not combine well with clorine in the sense that it causes a nasty chemical reaction to occur.   I also think it is just simply too contained and would involve innocent people.  The ocean or other bodies of water are fair game.  I would just go in my swim suit without pulling it aside.

Welcome and I do hope you share.  I also hope that you find good content here and connections.

After years of reading about our fetish, the one thing that seems to emerge is that women do get turned on by the risk of being caught.  In fact it transcends peeing and covers all sorts of naughty behavior, such as, otherwise vanilla sex, conducted in a place where the risk of being caught is real.  The turn on probably even extends into going commando or wearing something revealing, on the risk that something taboo much might get flashed.

I have experienced this with partners, as well, over the years.  Sex in public does seem to to highten the erotic response.  Wearing something hidden, but naughty seems to do the same.  The risk of being caught doing something naughty does seem to be significant.  Peeing just seems to be an aspect.

I am not so sure this applies to men, generally.  Yes, we often are thrilled and titilated, but I sense, in general, we are not seeking this, beyond the thought it would make our partner hot.  

I am interested in other's thoughts.

Thank you so much for all of these posts.  I just read through them all to make sure my questions were not repeats.  

1.  Does a full bladder make you horny?  

2.  Does having a full bladder enhance your sexual experience?  I know you said a bursting bladder does not.  The question just regards fullness.  

56 minutes ago, Sophie said:

Hysterical Literature? I posted a video in the reply you quoted. 🙂

Yes, sorry, I should have clicked the link before I asked that question.  I do think these videos are very erotic.  However, I also know that there must be some women where those circumstances would make it impossible for them to cum.   Was the assistant, under the table that good?  

On 4/10/2021 at 5:23 PM, Sophie said:

1. My two beautiful daughters. Every day I am reminded that I have managed to create something so amazing, and raise them to be the truly incredible people they are today.
2. My teaching. I am so, so proud of being a teacher. Knowing that i have helped change peoples lives, help them have successful careers, help them be happy. Every day someone learns something from me, I feel incredibly proud. Every time someone does well in an exam, or every time I get a thank you from my pupils or their parents. Every time I see something "click" for my pupils.
3. My marriage. I am so proud of having such a loving and wonderful relationship with my husband. We're not a perfect couple, I don't think anyone is, but I wouldn't want to spend my life with anyone else. We make each other so happy, and we have achieved so much together. I can only feel proud.

In no particular order...

1. Cowgirl position, I love being on top and in control. I'm not into domination by any means but I love being able to control the pace, depth, angle, etc. I can really take my time and climax when I want to, and I think it's a loving position too, and very versatile. I can be leaning forward, being held by my husband while we kiss or I could be sat more upright, giving him a wonderful view of my breasts. For example.
2. I love being blindfolded, lightly tied up and my husband doing the pleasuring, usually with a small vibrator. I love not knowing what's happening, what's coming next. He will bring me right to the edge of climax and then stop, letting me calm down before repeating it over and over again. Until one time he doesn't, he keeps the toy there and gives me the orgasm I desperately crave. I love not knowing when it will be, if he'll make me stop or if he'll let me cum.
3. I enjoy trying to do things while I'm being pleasured, and I had best give an example for this. I'll sit on a chair with a vibrator buzzing away between my legs and I will be set a challenge, count down from 100 for example, or name the elements on the periodic table. It sounds easy at first but having the toy buzzing away, and the pleasure rising is SO distracting. It quickly gets to the point where I can't even count, and I forget where I am. I'll go through the 50's three times in a row or something, and eventually I cannot take it any longer, my mind goes blank as a powerful orgasm surges through me. Here's a video example! The main part is at 5:30 but I strongly recommend watching the whole thing.

 

on your third method, have you ever watched the video series of women reading while someone works on them with a vibrator?  They try to read the text, which becomes inceasingly difficult.  It seems to have beem a mainstream project, with many women featured.  I could find the link and post it, if you would like.

On 3/25/2018 at 11:22 PM, Sophie said:

I've peed in a mens room toilet before but never let others see me. I think I'd be too shy.

I'll PM you the message board  

can you PM me the mesaage boaed as well?  Thank you.

I think you mean the envelop icon?  In other words, the ability to message another member directly and privately?  If so, I did not know that you could turn that off.  I spent time trying to figure that out and could not find that ability.

On 1/1/2023 at 6:55 AM, Chrissy89 said:

My dream as a little girl was always to be a pilot. I started doing my private licence before covid, had a block of lessons then boom! Lockdown…. Now it’s far too expensive, between fuel and the hire of planes, then there’s the complete lack of instructors as well as many of their own licences or medicals have expired. 
The money I had saved went on a garden refurbishment. 
maybe one day. What a great question 😘 x

I too had that dream.  I was lucky enough to once have had a job that allowed access and use of a GA plane.  While I was not a pilot, the pilot did give me informal lessons.   I always wanted to get a private pilots license, but life got in the way.  Too bad covid interupted your dream.  Covid did so much to disrupt.  I do hope you can pursue it someday.

Riley, this was a very well written story.   Thank you and I do hope you share more.

Beautiful story, thank you.

Thank you for posting a wonderful story.

Thank you for sharing this story.  

Having a woman being absolutely desperate and having her sit on my face as I give her my best oral, as well as finger her pee engorged pussy.

I have clothing festishes, in addition to my pee fetishes.  There are simply certain items of clothing that trigger me.  My perfect trifecta is a woman wearing kneesocks, skirt and cotton panties, who is desperate to pee.