First of all thank-you all for the love you showed me in my first post, I'd thought I'd share the experince i had with a friend of mine at a new years party a few years ago. Myself and my friend (I'll call her B) were invited to our other friends new years party (I'll call him J), it was really just his family having a big get together but he wanted us there anyway, I think J had a crush on B but i never asked. We felt a bit strange going to a families new years party as 20 something year old adults but i had nothing better to do so i went anyway. I get dropped off as i know i will be drinking