W1ll_B

Yes, my first memories are from when I was about 10-12, or at least close to that, I don't remember exactly.
Although I do have one very vague memory of something earlier, maybe when I was 4-5 years old, but it's so vague that I'm not sure if it ever happened or if it's some kind of false memory. 

I don't quite understand the question...

I believe this is a public forum so anyone with access to the Internet can read everything that is written here.
So anyone who writes something here has to accept that anyone can read it.

Edit: The topics on this site may feel a bit extreme to someone with no previous experience of the subject, but it's up to each reader if they read them, no one is forcing them to.

On 12/20/2023 at 9:06 PM, Kirby23 said:

I'd really be interested in hearing others' experiences.

I feel like I've seen a similar message before, maybe from you, and I think I've responded to it or something similar, so apologies if there is repetition and I end up writing the same things.

My situation is pretty much the same, although in some ways it's different.
My wife and I have been together for a long time, and I've mentioned to her my interest, but she doesn't seem to have any particular interest in "these things."
She has said that "it's ok," but otherwise, we haven't talked much about it. She is quite neutral about it and might casually mention something related to peeing in an everyday tone without any particular meaning. (A couple of times she has done something that could slightly be interpreted as doing it for me, but on the other hand, it could be about something else.)

She hasn't otherwise kink-shamed me, but once she said something that felt bad and came as a real surprise because she hadn't said anything like that before nor after.

The good part for me is that my main interest is in desperation (of others, not my own) and hearing or seeing peeing. I don't necessarily feel a great need for any actual "doing," so I already get a lot of "joy" (if I can say so, sorry) if I see her desperate or hear her pee.

Additionally, I am very interested when I hear someone use an unusual expression for needing to pee, and the most original phrases have come from my wife

Of course, there would be many things that would be nice to experience that I can't with her, but mostly I would say that I am reasonably satisfied with the situation.

Also, as I mentioned, my main interest is more in seeing and hearing others than in doing myself, so the videos, images, and stories I find online also bring joy to my life.

On 12/14/2023 at 5:03 AM, DoctorDoctor said:

Anyone else enjoy seeing bladder bumps (or looking at their own)?

No, I don't remember noticing at least.

But I really like it when I hear someone use an expression I haven't heard before or that is somehow unique.
Did she actually use the phrase how "she was about to unload all of that piss into the car seat"?
I really liked it. About how it depicted the seriousness of the situation. (I also liked the other details of the story.)

Edit: I read the message a bit carelessly. I thought it was asking, 'have you seen.'
A more precise answer would be that it could be interesting to see, but I don't remember ever seeing it 'live,' so to speak

I would have sent you a private message, but for some reason, it didn't work.

2 hours ago, MRJH22 said:

Wish I could get this to play.

I don't think it's possible anymore.
The web site says:

"Instaudio is shutting down. On September 28th 2019, all remaining content, and all user accounts will be permanently removed, leaving only a message of what once was."

On 7/19/2023 at 11:28 AM, MRJH22 said:

I would love to read an account of those conversations if you still have them.

So, I have a friend in another country. We chat every day, but we've never met in person.
We talk about ordinary everyday things, what we've done, where we've been, who we've met, etc.
We both use English to talk for each other, even though it's not our first language. That's why I'm writing this message and both of our conversations using Google Translator and ChatGPT, to keep the message easy to read. So the messages below are not 100% the same as the original, but the content is 99% the same. But I will add a direct quote from her text in a couple of places because I think they are the most interesting parts.

My friend once worked at a small kiosk. This kiosk didn't have a bathroom, so whenever she needed to use one, she had to close the kiosk and go to a public bathroom nearby. The kiosk was owned by a person who also owned a few other kiosks.

Once, a worker from another kiosk went on vacation, and my friend had to fill in. (She temporarily replaced the original seller at that kiosk).
She told me one morning that she was going to collect the keys to the other kiosk that evening.

That evening, she messaged me:

She: I've picked up the keys and am going home.
She: The kiosk is tiny, and the door doesn't even seem to open and close properly.
She: The usual worker just gave me the keys and left. She didn't even show me where the toilet was.

(At this point, of course, I became interested in whether she had a special reason for mentioning the toilet...)

She: I had to hurry to catch my train.
She: And I have a full bladder. (Her original exact message was "And now want explode from pee")
She: Tomorrow I'll find out where the toilet is.
Me: Where are you now?
She: On the train.
Me: Is there a toilet on the train?
She: Yes, but it's gross.
She: I'd rather wait until I get home. (Her original exact message was "I hold myself to home")
Me: Do you have far to go?
She: 20 minutes.
Me: That's not too long.
She: But it'll take 40 minutes total to get home.
Me: Can you wait that long?
She: Yes.

We then moved on to other topics. About half an hour later, I asked if she was almost home. She said she was on her way. I assumed she'd left the train and was walking.
She didn't say anything more about needing the bathroom, so I didn't ask.

Later, she told me she was home and was going to eat and sleep.

On another occasion, it was her birthday and she was working at the kiosk. Her friend came by with cake and some alcohol to the kiosk to celebrate her birthday.
She sent me a picture of the cake so I assume the friend arrived around this time when I got the message.
And remember, there's no toilet in the kiosk...

A few hours later, she messaged me again:

She: I'm drunk.
She: I hope I remembered to lock up the kiosk.
She: I really need to pee. (Her original exact message was "Want pee. So much." I think it's very cute way to say that she was desperate)

This would have been an opportunity for some interesting conversation, but I was watching TV and unfortunately I didn't see her messages until 20 minutes after she had sent them.
When I saw her message, I wrote her.

Me: Were you drinking at work?
She: Yes.
Me: Where are you now?
She: On the train, going home.
Me: Be careful.
She: I will.

We chatted about different things during her train ride. She didn't mention needing the toilet again, so I guess she found one at the train station or on the train during that 20 minutes while I was watching TV.

Something a quite similar has happened to me some years ago, at least a couple of times.
I have a friend who lives in another country and we've never met in real life, but we send each other messages on Messenger every day.
A couple of times I've received a similar message from her, how she has a bad urge to pee and she's on the train, etc.

And just like you, when these things happened, I gently tried to ask for more information about the situation (How much distance do you have left, is there no toilet on the train, etc.), but I didn't stay on topic when she started talking about other things.

On 5/25/2023 at 7:19 PM, Kirby23 said:

My wife too. She'll hold it forever. But once she crosses the threshold, it can very quickly turn into "gotta go right now."

It never ceases to amaze me how much she can hold. A 45-second pee is not at all unusual for her. 1L for sure, maybe 1.5L. 

 

Heh, same here.

My wife often goes to the bathroom once in the morning and then not until the evening. Going more than three times a day is already unusual for her.
This can happen even if she's at home all day.
She doesn't even seem to have a strong urge to use the bathroom in the evening.
But if she waits too long to go to the bathroom, suddenly she can feel such an urgency that she needs to rush to the toilet, even though just a few minutes earlier she was completely calm.

And if her bladder is full, for example, in the morning, it takes an incredibly long time to empty it.

Maybe you should look that thread:
 

I also have a situation where my wife is practically not at all interested in these things, but I still feel that things are quite good.

I see and hear a lot of all kinds of interesting things that I like, even though she doesn't cause these situations on purpose..

14 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Happy Birthday @W1ll_B

Thank you.

14 hours ago, InsertName said:

Any time I am outside with a sexy person and they take a drink from a water bottle I’m instantly distracted. All I can think about is that they will need to piss it back out. Maybe they’re already starting to think about what they can duck behind the moment we part ways.

Anyone else?

I haven't thought about a water bottle in this way before (maybe the situation will change after this), but the same thing happens when I see someone (a woman, either live or in a picture/video) drinking from a big beer or cider glass.
I'm thinking that after a while all that fluid will be in her bladder.

Yes, I do.

I have told my wife and she "knows" it, but she doesn't really seem to "understand" or "realize" what I'm meaning with it.
For me it feels very awkward to talk about that whole thing, so I have mentioned it a couple of times and she knows it, but I don't usually talk about it too much.

On 6/12/2021 at 5:16 PM, UkPeeFan said:

this whole experience did give me mixed feelings, on one hand she’s my sister and I stand by not seeing her in a sexual light but on the other it was a really hot experience

I think I understand you.

When I started became interested in female peeing and desperation, it was the 90s and I was living at home with my mother, sister, and brother.

Back then, there was no Internet to watch pictures or videos.
Sometimes, rarely in an ordinary movie on television or in a book, there could be some short related scene.

For that reason, my first situations in real life, or at all, where I witnessed a girl or woman needing to pee desperately or going to pee a bush, were mostly related to my mother or sister.

One person once told me about a married couple who had problems and who were divorcing.
They fought pretty much everything.

For some reason, this woman once got angry about something and peed on her husband’s computer keyboard.

I don’t know more details and what aftermath it caused, if any.
Also, I don’t know how true this is because I’ve just heard the story, I didn't witness it myself.
But the person who told this to me knew the couple well and I know that couple too.
Maybe it's happened, or maybe this woman only threatened to do so and the person who told me, understood it wrong.
I don't know for sure.

21 hours ago, wannawatchuwiggle said:

Dreams- or fantasies are weird like that..one has no control over them as to what is appropriate 😉 

So I guess my one fantasy IS extreme ,a bit anyway. 

My mind always let me dream about this one BIG woman, who I get to help out. Sometimes she's sprained her ankle and I get to help her back to her appartement, sometimes I'm just giving her a lift home... And it's very obvious she is just dying for a pee ! There are times I dream about the ways she's apologizing for her behaviour,holding herself,squirming and pausing in her stride.Other times I just fantasize about all the different ways she might express her urgent need in words to me.

I do sincerely apologize for that disturbing view of the inside of my twisted mind folks !  😄

How that is disturbing view? I think this is ok.

Finland here

Without taking a position on these videos, isn't that little bit hypocritical that they call it disgusting on their topic and then include several video clips and screenshots on the article?

(hypocritical: "saying that you have particular moral beliefs but behaving in a way that shows these are not sincere")

Hello and welcome. 

Hello and welcome.