Humiliated, flustered wetting vs Deliberate, transgressive wetting/peeing in the wrong place

[Vassal 1,471]

Not a huge fan of humiliation or anything to do with non-consent. Wetting is a weird one to attribute to the last point but it's a huge turn off if the person wetting or those around them aren't doing it for pleasure or in on the fun as bystanders. That goes for the brash side of wetting where models would deliberately wet themselves in crowded areas specifically for those around them to find out and react. Though there's a fine line with that and what I particularly like in women wetting/peeing discretely in public areas. The taboo of wetting yourself on purpose is what I'm after, though wetting out of desperation when already intending to already pee in a naughty way is also arousing but I suppose that's more on the desperation spectrum here than the wetting itself.