New to this whole thing but i like it alot get shy sometimes talking or asking anyone about it cause it seems to out there to talk about

[Peeformeplz 0]

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[Dave91 2]

I know where your coming from.  It's very hard to get the topic started.  As terrible of advise it probably is I've found the most luck when drinking at smaller parties and their need arises.  First couple times trying to talk about it gets awkward but it gets better with time.  I think it's more of a self confidence thing.