And that is a HUGE problem with women into pee play and/or diapers. Happy to talk to men online, but the moment meeting is mentioned, we get ghosted. It's not likely that you'll find a pee relationship offline.
What are your interests? You mentioned being peed on. Do you like panty wetting? Diaper wetting? Bed wetting? Bikini wetting? Naughty peeing? Public peeing? Letting a man drink from you? Peeing during oral sex?
There's no trick to this, next time you find someone you like online, set your fears aside and meet him.