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Late to this thread, but I had just finished running a 10k on one of the hottest days in July in a big city. Naturally i drank a ton of water and post race beer. In order to get back home, we had a 15 minute walk to the train station, then had to wait almost 30 min to get on a packed train and then another 30 minutes on the train. I was at an 8 or 9 by the time we got on the train, but we were packed in so tight i couldn't move, much less hold myself. 

As soon as i got off the train I stopped at the nearest McDonald's and peed for at least a minute!

My guess would be either Crocs or pool shoes, something that's a harder material that won't absorb!

For me, about 5 minutes ago! (I'm at the beach, and absolutely love pissing in the ocean when nobody nearby has a clue!)

I've never been "given permission" in the way y'all have, but I'm always the first to give permission to others.

Either they will go outside (and maybe I can join) or, more likely, they won't but they will be more open about the desperation until they can go! Win/win!

No stories, but an image! This was sent to me by a friend from last year's burning man (or whatever the COVID version was called). There was no official event but people still went to the desert, meaning no official bathrooms, so this was their makeshift bathroom. I'm sure the desperation at the event was absurd, if anyone has stories from 2021!

54 minutes ago, Purple_minion said:

I’ve read that long distance runners will pee themselves while running marathons? Any insight to this? Have you yourself or witnessed others wet simply out of necessity during a race?

I haven't personally witnessed it but heard plenty of stories from my much faster friends. I've definitely seen plenty of people pee along the side of the course though, men and women. This is interesting as most races are in cities so people just openly squat on sidewalks, parks, benches, etc 

2 hours ago, Alfresco said:

Another psychological aspect is who much or little someone is willing to talk about their need to pee or what they are doing.   I know one lady who is happy to talk about it as freely as they might discuss what they had for dinner, and I know others who will do anything to avoid mentioning the need to pee.

The lady who is open, is someone who I have worked with. The ladies toilets in the building have a main door that is propped open and a cubicle that does nothing to hide sound.  I have known for us to be in the corridor about to leave the building and she will say “I am just going for a wee before I leave” and then proceed to go to the toilet and pee whilst still talking to me from in the cubicle.  She also told me that she sometimes goes on walks first thing in the morning for about three hours in the winter, taking a hot chocolate from home  and then buying another one from a shop before heading further into the countryside.  I made a passing comment that she must be desperate for the loo by the time she gets home and she matter of factly responded with “Oh no, that’s what bushes are for”.

Other people would completely avoid mentioning their needs and at most would use a veiled comment like needing to powder their nose or needing a break, but would never hint as to the reason being that they needed to pee.

 

That's another aspect that's fascinating to me. As i said above, part of the desperation interest is the knowledge that someone is holding all that pee, so people who openly talk about it are a personal fave. I've never understood what compels people to be shy or open. I'm always open because if I announce it, maybe others will as well. 

I also agree regarding the sporty type, from a different perspective: i run marathons. In a sport where hydration is key, there are often long lines for porta potties before/during races (which leads to spectacular pee dances). But so many people will opt to pee in public simply to optimize their race times, and i imagine once you do that a few times in a race, you're more likely to do that anywhere. 

Guess this has been a problem here? Would love to be in those cars!

Welcome!

11 minutes ago, Adyguy6970 said:

I can make some educated guesses, but I wish I knew for certain why I have the pee interest that I do.  However I'll give it my best shot.  In the male of the species, the procreative organ (the penis) is also the organ of urination.  Given the dual purpose of that organ I think some of the muscles and nerve endings which play a part in sexual activity, also come into play during urination.  I think it's therefore to be expected that for some people there will be a strong connection between urination and arousal.  In the case of women the sexual and urinary organs are separate but they are also close together so it would be hardly surprising if similar considerations didn't come into play.   

I agree 100%. Also, at least for penis owners, the feeling of release for both sperm and urine is at least somewhat similar (obviously not the same, but still) so that has to be correlated as well I assume. 

5 hours ago, Purple_minion said:

I’ve never thought about the psychology part of it. I share the desperation side of things. I enjoy holding till I can’t anymore and enjoy watching/talking with a lady while she does the same. The wetting isn’t of much importance to as I enjoy being able to see the “finale” as well. 
 

My theory is that it falls somewhat under a dom/sub style relationship only it’s focused more on the bodily functions than the body itself. I don’t necessarily align with the stereotypical dom/sob interaction, from either position, but when it’s just about the bladder that’s entirely different.  

I agree with the dom/sub comparison. It's not quite the same, but there is something to one person struggling and the other enjoying watching that struggle.

But the concept of women peeing outside is so fascinating. I have friends all over that spectrum, especially when outdoors at the beach. None of the friends who know about my kink share in it, but i agree some people seem to keep drinking and keep peeing and maybe they do enjoy it! It's one of the best reasons to do outdoor activities!

Anyone up for making one? Is that against the Peefans rules? I'm not trying to date or meet anyone irl, I'd just love to talk to like minded people more often!

I know there's been some discussion on this in the past but I'm new here and want to revisit this topic from a different perspective: what's the psychology of why we enjoy what we do?

I wonder if there's an aspect of sadism/masochism for those who love holding/controlling others holds for long periods of time?

I wonder if we're obsessed with wetting because it's some of the same nerves in our reproductive organs? 

I personally love watching desperate women, and watching the relief when they let it out! I don't know why our brains enjoy it though. Any other thoughts?

3 hours ago, TheGrandChamp said:

Drain near laundry machine or in handicap stalls/ one person bathrooms

Drains are an excellent idea!!!!

Wonderful ideas! I'm suburban so I can reach both city and country pretty easily. I really do love peeing outdoors so these are creative

I'm in the camp that I have no idea what triggered mine, but I wish I knew! I wonder what the statistics are, who remembers vs who doesn't?

Beaches are the best! Aside from the water you can just sit in the sand and go, or dig a hole in the sand and use that!

11 minutes ago, p1ssputz said:

Ideas:

• Sinks
• Buckets/containers/receptacles
• Laundry (if it's going to be washed anyway)
• Out of a window (I used to do this a lot, it was always enjoyable)
• In the holding tank of the toilet instead of the toilet itself
• Washing machine (you may want to run it, though, to get rid of some salts)
• Trash cans/garbage bins
• Dishwasher (if you're okay with that)

Holding tank is innovative, I've NEVER thought of that!

Alcohol is key, but for me relaxation techniques (deep breathing, meditation) helps. Sounds extra but 30 seconds of meditation helps me!

Grass all day!!!! Hard stream in the woods is great!

9 minutes ago, Likelettingitgo said:

Ever peed your pants?

 

Nope! So much cleanup. Peeing at the beach when the water is at your ankles is close!

11 minutes ago, Likelettingitgo said:

So what do you find so exciting about peeing?

I've spent years trying to figure out the psychology of why I love it. But i love the fact that everyone tried to hide desperation and i can notice it and watch! And the relief when you let it flow!

Hi, new here! I've recently gotten into naughty peeing/peeing anywhere but a toilet, but I'm looking for new ideas that aren't super complicated. 

Currently I like the shower, bushes, the pool/beach, but does anyone have more suggestions that are pretty mild but still fun??

I don't want to create extra cleanup for anyone so places like carpets are out! Anyone have good ideas??

Thanks everybody! My DMs are open if anyone ever wants to chat!

Hi, I'm new here, checking in from the US! While I love pretty much anything female desperation and toilet pissing, I recently learned that I'm also big on the idea of urolagnia, I love learning the how and why of how we pee!

Any other fellow nerds out there? Maybe some urologists?? I'm happily married, but would love to chat with people who understand!