Shybabe

1 hour ago, oliver2 said:

Do you think your parents were unusually strict?

Hmm, I wouldn't call it strict, just wanted to raise proper children, I guess... But they were unfair in certain situations.

I remember one time I was around 5, my younger brother had his "girlfriend" (let's call her Natalie) over and her older sister was my best friend. Ok so well, our mom was watching over us we were in the kiddie pool in our yard. It was about lunch time so it was time to get out of the pool. We all exited the pool at the same time and my mom was drying us off with a towel. Natalie said she needed to pee so my mom said let me dry you up so you can go pee (presumably meaning go to the loo). But no,  Natalie just stepped off the towel and peed standing up a couple of steps away. I still vividly remember thick yellow stream comming out between her legs. I was furious (lol we were all kids) because I had to use the toilet and that "intruder" had the audacity to pee so freely in my yard. I was mad for rest of the day.

The following day, I made sure to drink plenty of water. I was outside in our yard, with my family and said I needed to pee. My parents told me to come inside and pee. I wanted to hold and continue playing. Once they all came inside I took of my shorts and undies and peed on the exact same spot as Natalie did lol marked my territory. I came inside half an hour later and my parents told me to go pee, and I said I already did. They were mad I peed in the yard so I lied and told them I peed in grandma's bathroom... 

Ohh very nice 😏

When I was a kid, my brother and I were rarely encouraged to pee outside as it was inappropriate. But I always saw so many others peeing in parks freely, I guess I got kind of jealous lol I always found it intriguing and now I can make up to those times of not being able to pee outside. But still I need to be careful as getting caught would be traumatic for me lol

20 minutes ago, PissOnMyParade said:

Very nice! As a first picture you're well on your way! Baby steps to overcoming your shyness...

There's something really endearing to me about shy women.

Perhaps we come off as mysterious, therefore surprising everyone with our mischief

P.S. grey carpets are the best places for indoor pee 😩

11 hours ago, kiass said:

Which tree is for the dudes?

And why would u go outside to pee at night? Aren't there enough toilets inside?

No partying inside the dorms, so people party outside

14 hours ago, WantonLee said:

Hello Shybabe,

 I do not post very often here, but you mentioned something about maybe taking a female friend of yours on a, for lack of a better word, pee-tour, instead of your boyfriend. This made ALL of my alarm bells go off.

I do not know enough about your relationship to give any advice, but I would encourage you to find out wether your BF is into the same kind of naughty peeing as you are or not. (Unless you are afraid of him not being into it, and prefer to live with uncertainty rather then with being certain, but that certainty being not what you want.)

Lets just say if I were your BF, and even mildly into naughty peeing, then there would be nothing - literally NOTHING - better then you as my GF being into the same thing and wanting to go on an adventure with me.

 

I would encourage you to find a way to figure out what his stand on this is.

You do not have to be blunt about this, but little hints here and there could go a long way.

Be creative.

Like, when you are cuddling next tiem you could suddenly say something like "Oh, damn."

If he asks "what?"

You can say "I really gotta pee" (make shure this is not a lie, just to be sure)

If he tells you to go to the toilet, you can answer something along the lines of "I'd rather wet the bed (- or where ever you are; certainly not "my pants", because panty-wetting is a totally different kind of naughty peeing -) then leave you right now." Improvise that part; use your own words...

 

You can of course expand on the next pee he takes while you two shower together.

(To be honest, from what you describe, I suspect him to be more into golden showers then naughty peeing as such; but you never know, unless you ask (or invetigate in a different way).)

 

And unless your fear of him not being into the same thing you are into is really really big to the point of being relationship-breaking.... do NOT leave your BF behind when it comes to something THAT intimate.

Or do you secretly want to break up with your BF and want to start a relationship with the girl friend you mentioned? Just asking, because why else would you rather take her on a tour instead of your BF, who should be more intimate to you then anyone else... . 😛

I found the last part of your comment rather appalling. I have my reasons why I said I'd rather take my friend.

I'd rather keep my relationship than risk it over a fetish many people consider weird.

9 hours ago, Mr. Whizz said:

Think you could snag a photo of the night activity at this spot?

No not really. And I'm not willing to try. I wouldn't want anyone to violate my privacy by taking a picture of me while I'm peeing so I wouldn't want that for others.

2 hours ago, Sexismygod said:

I've always been opportunistic in my peeing.  I peed in many places around campus but didn't really have a preferred spot.  Midnight frisbee golf, because it usually involved beer, was an ideal time to water the trees, shrubs, bushes and buildings.  Sadly, golf nights were mostly an all male affair so I didn't see much that interested me, but there was lots of peeing going on.

I think my pee fetish was pretty much dormant during university ... I was more focused on getting laid than on sneaky pees around school.  😉

Who says you can't do both though? 😏

1 hour ago, wannawatchuwiggle said:

Great topic-thanks for sharing the question,as I find that sort of misschief quite a turn on as well !

Perhaps you could try peeing in some sort of abandoned building first ? (there's even a name for that-not the peeing part though- it's UrBex, as in urban exploring) The idea is to enter an abandoned building,could be a house,or an old office that's no longer in use or an old factory, anything really. People are no longer living there,it is probably on the demolition-list anyhow,so you're not causing any real damage to someone's property.

But there might be still couches, tables,closets. Or filing cases, desks and chairs.. You get the picture I think; it's naughty peeing, without the smell and/or damage left behind for the owner 😉 

Have fun !

There's not many places like those where I'm at. Actually there are two houses in my neighborhood, one abounded that's sealed shut and the other one right next to mine that's been recently bought. However the new owner doesn't plan on remodeling it soon so it's pretty much filled with old things. But I'm afraid if I get caught, I'll be charged with breaking and entering lol. The second house is locked I'd have to jump over the fence to get in.

55 minutes ago, ShyPeeMan said:

So would I but I'm too old for clubbing lol

You're never too old for that!

I don't go out much as I'm extremely uncomfortable in crowded places, but I'd love to try naughty peeing in the club

I've peed in parks multiple times, whether they had toilets or not. I even have my favourite places to pee there... I'm always happy to see someone used them as well.

I usually pee i tucked away in a bush, or besides one house in a park. I've also peed on a playground below the slide. The ground soaked it up, no effect on children

20 minutes ago, Paulypeeps said:

Oh yes. It is rather fun to be peeing somewhere when all those around you are oblivious that you are doing it. If you don't mind wetting yourself (it really is no big deal to wet yourself when you like pee) it can be really easy to get away with just letting your pee run down your legs, or just sit somewhere and pee.

The cinema can be a good place, especially if you are with your boyfriend. It is easy to drink too much and not be able to hold it. Wear a black skirt or dress and nothing will show, but when he puts his hand on your bottom...

The pub is another great place. There are usually places you can sit and get away with wetting yourself where no one will notice you doing it, I will often sit in the pub all evening until closing time and never leave my seat, I just pee where I am sitting and soak my black skirt. No one (except my friends!) know I have done it, and by the time the pub reopens the seat will be dry.

When I go clubbing I wet myself all the time, clubs are dark and noisy so I can just pee absolutely anywhere without anyone noticing. It is nice to just let my pee run down my legs standing at the bar, or while dancing. I wear fishnet stockings which hide the wetness completely while my pee is running down my legs.

It is a lot of fun to pee in a crowd, and often a lot easier to do than you might think.

I'd love to be in your friend group honestly 😩

4 minutes ago, Aristona said:

Thanks for the support maybe I should open a topic soon. English is not my first language so I have to take some time for it.

Ah that's not nice to hear, get well soon.
Hopefully after that you will find the courage to do it or else just start doing it outside in public places.

I have to say that we have never peed anywhere indoors and my girlfriend is not so brave either. But in parking lots, bushes, forest, etc.

As a man I dare a little more but I only like it when my girlfriend is there I think. Then we can enjoy it together.

I would love to read soon that you have found courage

I had quite a few past pee experiences too, but they are mostly outdoors lol.

Don't worry about your English, it's fine!

4 minutes ago, Aristona said:

Are you a little reassured about peeing in a building?

Yes she knows about my kink and she also participates a bit.

I'm thinking about opening my own topic with our experiences, I don't know if this is interesting for other forum members also because I don't have many pictures or unusable for privacy.

It's going a bit offtopic now, but I'd like to say it briefly anyway:

Last night I told her that I want to replace the floor in our bedroom soon. The current wooden floor is crooked and creaky we just hate that floor and I asked if she would symbolically get rid of it by peeing on it and she liked that.

So it seems to be fun I'll let you know by then maybe in its own topic? But I'm still a little unsure about that

Honestly, I'd love to read about your experiences. 

When it comes to building pee, no, not yet. I'm stuck inside for at least 5 more days as I have a fever. So, I might gather up courage later

19 hours ago, Aristona said:

Just in a corner? This did not happen with my daughter's swimming lessons. It's great that you guys were so open about that in your swimming lessons.

 

ontopic:

@Shybabe: I would indeed just try it at the pool in the changing rooms or, as said before, a parking garage you really won't be seen there.

Yesterday I asked my girlfriend (because I saw this topic) what she would do if we were in a family changing room of the swimming pool and she suddenly had to pee.
She said she would just pee in the corner of the cubicle with or without a drain. Without a drain she would sweep it away with a broom I think but maybe not.

She said no one sees it and if i got to go i got to go and the toilets are so dirty by a pool. She would also do it in front of our daughter I think we are very open about that.

 

That turned me on but unfortunately she doesn't like swimming, so it won't happen anytime soon

Hot, is she aware of your kink or? 😏

On 10/16/2021 at 11:23 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

It would be a tragedy if your boyfriend was actually really receptive to the idea of you peeing, but also thought it’d be to weird if he mentioned it. 

Perhaps it may be worth ‘testing the waters’ in a way that gives you a safety net… 

Like maybe telling him that you’d arrived home absolutely desperate and had actually considered having a wee in the garden because you thought you wouldn’t make it. And would he have been grossed out if you had?

Or maybe if you did have a much needed pee somewhere, tell him about it and how ‘this sounds really weird, but it actually felt sort of nice to be naughty’. 
 

He may not react instantly, but after he’s had time to think about the scenario he may confess he likes the thought of it… or he may never mention it again. There’s always a chance you’ll find out his views though.  I’m pretty sure a lot of guys would be very tolerant of the thought of a lady peeing other than in a toilet even if they don’t understand the real reason why. 

We did have some pee fun though... He likes to pee in a tub while I'm showering... Also he frequently pees when we shower together. And the best one yet was when he peed between my legs while I was sitting on a toilet. I don't know if he likes it or just likes teasing me 😕

I think having a friend to go with me would certainly help. I'm too scared to ask my boyfriend. I'm afraid of his reaction because peeing somewhere you're not supposed to isn't widely accepted... But I did/ do have a girl friend who would join me on my outside pee adventures

3 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

As other people have said, it's a very widespread fantasy - I mean, an awful lot of us are excited by the 'non-conformance' that comes from peeing somewhere we shouldn't and in a lot of cases the 'naughtier' the better.  So peeing outside on a tree is one thing, but peeing inside a building is so much more...

I do think everything that makes it such a naughty thrill (being so non-conformist) is the same thing that makes us fear doing it - I mean if someone caught us peeing outside in a bush there's a lot of ways we can justify it that sounds rational to a non pee fan, but if someone caught us peeing on the carpet in a hotel corridor then even justifications of drunkeness still wouldn't be likely to get us off the hook.

So - in terms of your shyness, I'm guessing the two things you want to avoid are the risk of getting caught in the act by someone seeing you and perhaps the feeling that you could be held accountable for damage?

On the first point, one common indoor area that keeps coming back are car parks - a lot of recommendations for the concrete stairwells.  You wouldn't be the first, you can generally hear anyone coming and it's fairly easy to check you're in a corner not overlooked by CCTV.

My preference though is in the main body of the car park and in terms of rationalising it, the car park is an area designed to have liquids spilt - whether it be rainwater from cars entering, condensation from air-cons or oil drips.  So my recommendation is to be drive in and drive up a couple of levels of the car park.  What you'd be looking for is an area with plenty of cars already parked but not where there's a lot of people just parking and getting out of their cars.  Reverse into a space with the wall behind and leave enough room to be able to open your tailgate.  Then when you're happy nobody is about to walk past you can go to the back, open your tailgate as though sorting out stuff and pee on the concrete behind your car.  I've enjoyed this many times - in some cases in car parks which have a waist height wall behind my car and an open view over the city.   As a guy I'm normally standing to do this, I have peed into an empty takeaway cup and depending on your preferences for clothing you can be pretty discrete about it.  The other option you have of course is to go as you return to your car before jumping in and driving away.

Derelict buildings are the other common suggestion - and there it's a case that anything which eases guilt about potential damage. If it's already derelict, then who cares.  I enjoyed a moment like that earlier this summer in an unoccupied and unsecured house, may main worry was that I'd be seen on the way in or out, but at night in the dark the chances were lower.

Other than that, I guess another thing putting us off maybe the feeling that we're disrespecting someone's property or disrespecting them.  So if staying at a close friend's house for example the idea of peeing on their carpet may seem totally wrong because we know how proud they are of their house or just because of our respect for them.  But in a different situation, for example in a shabby bar or a dark nightclub with dirty carpets and toilets, where the landlord has just short-changed you on a round of drinks then you may feel far less respect for the place and consider exacting a little revenge.  Whether that be peeing in a cubicle but missing the toilet, or even under a table onto the seat or floor are all exciting prospects and fairly easy to do undetected. 

Then there are the options for places like swimming pool changing areas and gym showers - indoors, but designed with the expectation that pools of liquid will be draining away.

Would love to know your thoughts @Shybabe and whether you do try out any options.

Fantastic suggestions. I've peed in a couple of car parks during nights out. Since I'm not a driver it would be pretty difficult for me to enter other car arras unnoticed.

On top of that, I completely adore the idea of simply peeing in a swimming pool locker room. At the same time I want to have people around me oblivious of what's going on, but also I don't want to get caught. Haha the struggle!

2 minutes ago, PullbackSoaker said:

Hi

One of my most heart pounding moments was a long piss at the top of a multi storey carpark staircase, the thrill of pissing and someone coming was truly amazing. 

Hot, I love coming across random pee puddles where they shouldn't be. Makes me mad 1) I wasn't there to witness it, 2) I wasn't the one peeing and 3) I'll never have enough courage to do something like that