OldPottyGent

I'm trying to tease it out of responders how you'd cope if there was no washing machine available.  Abstain from indulging in your particular fetish?  Launder in a bucket?  Cart your pissed-on bed-sheets to a laundrette every time?   Come-on!  Let's hear how you'd cope!

To effectively indulge in your fetish,  how essential is it to have a washing machine available?    How about a tumble drier?

We were all subjected to some kind of potty training when we were babies and toddlers, and for some folks that's like a kind of brainwashing that it's very hard for them to undo.  In my own case accidents were turned into shameful traumatic experiences and the whole subject was kept taboo.  However as I emerged from this phase and started thinking for myself,  curiosity took over and I believe it was a desire to find out what I'd missed that sparked the fetish I've enjoyed ever since.   What I'm suggesting is that if a partner is unwilling to play pee,  it's cause is probably deeply-rooted in their very early childhood upbringing.  However such negative brainwashing can often be slowly overcome by taking them back with gentle sympathetic examinations of their experiences as a baby little by little like a shrink would do.  Very slowly though;  can't be rushed!   Patience!    In summary I wouldn't accept a simple initial "no" as being a final answer.

Peeing into a toilet or on to a hard floor,  hiss is mostly drowned (and I mean drowned sound-wise here) by the splashing,  so to effectively listen for hiss, you have to have your ears close to the source right at the start of the pee as it begins to soak into panties before it begins splashing on the ground.  In other locations such as on soft grass or in bed-sheets,  hissing is easier to detect.    I don't doubt the random spray of a female's pee as it hits her closed labia is a significant source of hiss, but if anyone's wetting with underwear on, and this applies equally to both males and females, a strong stream is also going to cause a hiss as it hits the fabric.  More careful observation and study on this tricky topic is obviously needed!  ☺️

Thanks for that.   Your two turn-off examples do help to put a slightly different useful light on the scene,  but I suspect initial physical attraction, although significant,  doesn't  necessarily have to be the only decider.   I'd tend to put it nearer 50-50% where for example a pee partner's known enthusiasm for water-sporting could make up for her not being quite so attractive,  or on the other hand not every good-looker will be happy participating in golden showers and some might need to be dragged into it rather reluctantly at first.      My idealistic dream pee-partner is a girl who shares a good part of both her mind and body with me.

Bear with me 'cos I'm still fairly new and shy on here.  For over 60 years now, I've had dreams of finding a pee-partner to bed-wet with me,  but been too shy and reserved to actually find one,  so much to my regret, I've never actually felt the warmth and wet of someone else's pee.  I was brought up as a toddler to think of pee as a taboo topic;  it supposedly being something too dirty and disgusting to discuss.  So even when I reached puberty, I still had no idea what there was under females' dresses or up their skirts,  because it was all too naughty for young boys.

However my always-curious nature eventually led me in my later teens to an unfulfilled fascination about females' equipment and everything about the way they peed;  a fascination I still have 60 years later.    So although I've occasionally indulged in a bit of water-sporting on my own, I've never ever realised my dream of feeling the warmth and wet of a girl's pee on me.  

The question that haunts me slightly is whether when I first feel pee coming from another body,  it will be the same arousing experience I've always been dreaming of,  or might the reality of it with a different flow and smell from an unfamiliar body suddenly revolt and disgust me the way I was originally brainwashed as a toddler to think of it? 

I look on bed-wetting as being an activity rather like sex that I'd only feel comfortable about when  doing it with a partner I'd already got to know well.  A one-night bed-wetting stand with someone unknown wouldn't really qualify as a test to check if it was going to be arousing or disgusting with a better-prepared pee-partner.

Has anyone here experienced the difference between long-term dreaming of bed-wetting, and actually doing it with a real partner for the first time?  

I'm just looking for advice really.  I don't want to soak a virgin mattress,  so I'm thinking of buying  fitted waterproof mattress protection,  but then I don't want to sleep in a puddle, so rather than having towels in between, aren't there special highly absorbent mats you can install under your bottom sheet to soak it up?   Isn't this the ideal solution?  You still get wet sheets and your bed still feels damp,  but if you want to clean up in the morning,  that mat and your sheets can easily be laundered,  and all your mattress protection needs is a simple wipe-over.  

I know there are some newbies who would like to try bed-wetting,  but they're discouraged by the thought of the cleanup and of ruining their mattress.   Can any more experienced bed-wetters confirm that what I've described is a good long-term solution even though it requires some initial investment?   Are there any cheaper or better alternatives?

What about tanking up with lots of drinks in the evening so you're going to be well-hydrated and your  pee's going to be nearer silver than gold, preparing some towels or a an absorbent mattress pad, and then after emptying your bladder as usual before going to bed (otherwise you won't sleep), going to bed normally and sleeping with most of that hydration still in you.    Your bladder will wake you up  later in the night, but don't get up to relieve yourself;  just do nothing,  relax,  ignore the pressure,  don't try to hold it or try to push it out deliberately until eventually you feel yourself  involuntarily wetting yourself and the bed.   Enjoy this unique feeling until you're done and you've covered yourself, your sheets and towels with nice warm wet pee.   Stay relaxed and resist any temptation to get up and clean up.  Just turn over and go back to sleep in the knowledge your silver pee is clean and isn't going to stain your bed-sheets or anything.   Depends how well you tanked up and how warm it is in the bedroom,  but you may well get a 2nd bladder wake-up an hour or two later and you can treat yourself to 2nd bed-wetting with less argument from your potty-trained brain this time.  

In the morning, you can decide whether your sheets towels or mattress pad really need laundering.  I believe some bed-wetters find they can  just leave them out on an open bed to dry for several days.  Depends partly on the weather, what they've been tanking up with.  

With a little preparation in advance, bed-wetting need hardly be any more messy than other water-sports,  but the erotic sensations that go with it  make it much more fun and worthwhile.