mayanprincess

On 1/22/2021 at 10:38 PM, GenericUsername said:

I have almost no experience with dating and sex. I’m a shy person in general who has trouble making friends. This doesn’t present me with many options when it comes time for me to have a relationship in the future. If you have experienced sexual relationships, how important was it that they were also into peeing? Was it something you could ignore if they didn’t like it? I have been into pee since before puberty, so it is kind of like a part of me now - hard to let go I guess. There are all these posts about how your SO isn’t into pee and it sounds like it sucks. 

I have had plenty of relationships where my person didn’t know. It was fine, but I was never fulfilled (quite literally, not once) and always hated that I was into pee. I tried to tell an ex-girlfriend but got a hard red light so I didn’t actually tell her. Now, 7 years into marriage -  my (soul mate) husband and I do pee stuff almost daily, and it’s fucking fantastic. He wasn’t into it more than just to make me happy when I first told him (I eased him into it) but he’s gradually come to seriously enjoy it himself, and now it turns him on as much as (or maybe more than) it does for me 🙂 I’d say it’s incredibly important if it’s your life partner.