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An acquaintance of mine is a police officer and she said despite all the high tech gear the wear and use they still keep empty pickle jars in their cars to relieve themselves if necessary!  

As someone married for 35 years and who, along with my wife, did counselling of other couples through church, having different sex-drive and having sex drive change over the years is the norm. 

The secret with us has been to be open to anything and respectful of each other.   Masterbation has always been totally acceptable in our marriage as a way of dealing with sex drive differences.  We learnt to masterbate each other as part of giving massages and are fine with solo masterbation anytime.   My wife had endometriosis where she couldn't stand more than a few seconds of PIV - and doing this we still managed to get pregnant! 

Hopefully you'll get lucky like I did and your wife will get horny again at peri-menopause.  For about 6 month when she was 48 she had to have sex every day which helped re-enforce the importance of keeping up the intimacy as we grow old together. 

Sexuality is a continuum; there's no real think as kink, just some things are more "common" than, say, urinating in your wife's vagina.    In all relationships there are turn-ons that aren't shared.  You can't "make" your partner like something they don't like and you have to respect that if you want to have a long and healthy relationship.  That you have regular sex after 15 years is a sign you're doing something right.  And it's great your wife indulges your "kink" occasionally.  Just be sure to indulge her sometimes as a thank you.   With my wife that means buying her an expensive book or a weird plant (not kidding).

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With desperation videos, when they finally decide to go they need to look like they are trying to be discrete, like a real person. I find it a turn off if she pops out her boobs or is flashing her ass for everyone to see.

Also no long delay or jump cut between the time they drop into a squat and they start to pee. It makes it look fake. In fact if they can start to go before managing to get their panties down, even better - a wet spot is a sure sign of real desperation.

Yes, it does turn me on, but in reality I have mixed feelings about it. I suppose it come from experiences as a child and young adult where I got to see girls' naked parts because they couldn't find a bathroom, couldn't wait anymore and were comfortable doing it in front of me, despite not being intimate in anyway. But I'm always sympathetic to an actual desperate women such that it doesn't really arouse me. Also I've had friends' desperation lead to them wetting their pants and in both cases I found it gross and embarrassing. And then there's my wife...who has had to pee by the side of the road, or into a cup many times because she just couldn't hold it anymore. She always had peed her pants just a little and for some reason I find that wet spot a real turn on!? I think it's because it is always stressful - trying to find a bathroom for her, that when she gives up it's a relief and I get to see her with her pants down!

When I was in school our department had a Christmas party. To get home, most people had to bus to the end of the line to get the last metro of the night. This friend of a friend had to pee but the bus wasn't going to wait for her so she had to get on and hold it. For the first 10 minutes she was fidgeting and complaining about how bad she had to pee but after that she was quiet.

When we were still a few minutes away from the metro station she got up abruptly and stood at the back door of the bus. When the bus finally stopped we all got off - I noticed the step she had been standing on was wet! When I saw her later on the platform it was obvious she had completely soaked her jeans.