I’m late to the party but thought I would put my two cents in.  I liked close trim.    Every woman looks different.  Some of us don’t look good completely shaved.   I don’t think mine does.  And I have problems being completely shaved too.  When it grows back I get ingrown hairs and they get infected. Very uncomfortable for me and not nice to look at either.   I like to leave the top no closely trimmed but vulval very close. I use the trimmer I don’t like razors.  And for u guy that like to lick