Last night K was feeling very generous and loving. A couple of nights before I had given her a massage … no expectation or requirement for it to lead to anything unless it spontaneously happened or she wanted it – just a husband carefully and lovingly massaging his wife because (a) she’s had a stressful few days and (b) she has a really sore shoulder right now that’s causing her pain and unhappiness). As it turned out, nothing did happen at the time, but later in the evening K appeared in the lo