Yesterday the pee play repertoire of my wife and me was expanded a little. We have a system that has helped our physical intimacy, suggested by a counsellor a few years ago when we were going through a really bad patch. It involves scheduling ‘sessions’, which alternate between me and my wife (let’s call her K) deciding what each session will involve, and if necessary, setting things up – making the room warm, putting music on, lighting incense sticks – that sort of thing. It was my turn