Sophie - Ask Me Anything

[PisSRL 72]

3 minutes ago, Sophie said:

Just a demonstration, I'm far too shy to post a photo of myself!

Sorry!

Don’t apologise 😁 but I love the style you go for 🙂 always love a bit of hair above the downstairs ! 
 

I guess the next question would be, what do you like on a guy ?

[Sophie 24,412]

Just now, PisSRL said:

Don’t apologise 😁 but I love the style you go for 🙂 always love a bit of hair above the downstairs ! 
 

I guess the next question would be, what do you like on a guy ?

Trimmed short 🙂 I don't mind completely smooth so much but I do prefer it trimmed short nice and tidy.

I'm not a fan of pulling off his boxers and being met with an afro.

[Schmitty20 313]

Hi Sophia I just wanted to say thanks for answering these questions and I really enjoyed this thread. I have a couple questions if you don’t mind.

have you ever peed the bed by accident?

have you ever been really desperate to pee while teaching? 
what was your most embarrassing pee accident you ever had?

were you ever with someone that had an accident? 

[Sophie 24,412]

1 hour ago, Schmitty20 said:

have you ever peed the bed by accident?

I did many times when I was young, I was a chronic bedwetter right up to my early teens but I am sure that's not what you are asking. As an adult? It hasn't happened. When in bed I am generally okay, I can lay there and jiggle about for ages. But as soon as I get out of bed it is a very different story. There has been so many times I've nearly wet myself while getting dressed, and even occasions where I have had to abandon the clothes and run to the bathroom either fully naked, or semi naked.

 

1 hour ago, Schmitty20 said:

have you ever been really desperate to pee while teaching?

Several times! Here's a couple of examples :-

https://peefans.com/topic/19476-classroom-desperation/

https://peefans.com/topic/13679-parents-evening-desperation/

1 hour ago, Schmitty20 said:

what was your most embarrassing pee accident you ever had?

Part of me wants to say it was one of the times I wet myself in front of my sister just because she teased me relentlessly afterwards but I was young then and I was only with family. I've never really had any embarrassing accidents as an adult.  I've had close calls and a few leaks, but never full blown accidents.

1 hour ago, Schmitty20 said:

were you ever with someone that had an accident? 

I once experienced my friend wetting herself after waiting in line for the toilets. She jokes about it today so I think it will be okay to share the story.

I was at a big event at a local town a few years ago, thousands of people there and to be honest, not many toilets. The few porta toilets that were there all had big queues and while I tried to encourage my friend (let's call her Hannah, just to give her a name) to find somewhere discreet to pee, she insisted on waiting in line. She had never peed outside in her life, her parents strongly discouraged it and it was a belief she carried into her adulthood.

So we waited in line, and it was a long line. I wanted to enjoy the fair rides and things and I knew we would be there for a while but I was a good friend and waited with Hannah. She was getting increasingly desperate by the minute, reaching the point where everyone nearby knew she was bursting for a wee and she was quite short tempered with me. She couldn't stand still at all, she was half bent over with her legs crossed over each other, barely able to keep her balance at all with her feet twisted like that.

We had been waiting in line for a good fifteen minutes and it hadn't moved much. I knew she wasn't going to make it to the front of the queue and to be perfectly honest, I was getting a little fed up with waiting. I wanted to have fun and enjoy myself! I grabbed her arm and dragged her away from the queue. "Look. It is going to be another half hour before you get to those toilets. Come on!"

We had been in line for fifteen minutes, it took me less than five to find somewhere hidden for Hannah to pee. It wasn't as private as a toilet but it was a quiet cut-through and nobody was around. But she was very hesitant.
"What if somebody sees me?"
"There's nobody around Hannah..."
"But there might be somebody watching!"
"Look, the quicker you pee, the quicker we can get out of here. It's a minute of embarrassment for hours of comfort"
She took her time umming and erring, unable to stand still. She kept looking around for the non existent people coming down the street to catch her peeing. Then it happened...

She swore, very loudly, and suddenly crouched still wearing her tight dark blue jeans. Moments later a puddle started growing underneath her as she completely lost control of her bladder. She had her head in her hands, saying "shit shit shit shit" over and over as she wet herself. and wow did she need to go, by the time she had finished the puddle was huge. She eventually stood up again and turned around. "Is... is it bad?" Her backside was very wet but fortunately the front of her jeans had survived. I took off my hoodie and gave it to Hannah to tie around her waist and then hugged her. "Nobody will know. Trust me"

We spent a couple more hours out that night before going home. She didn't go on any rides that meant she had to sit down but she did cheer up a little and had fun on the shooting galleries and the like. By the time we took the bus home her jeans had mostly dried so there was no stain on the bus seat. She insisted on taking my hoodie home with her to wash and she thanked me the next day for looking after her, giving me it back nice and clean.

We was both 23 at the time, I still don't think she has peed outside!

[MC Cumzy 1,641]

If I recall correctly, you mentioned recently that for a while you were only interested in girls and thought you might've been a lesbian. Is this true and if so when was it you realised you were into men as well?

[Sophie 24,412]

7 minutes ago, MC Cumzy said:

If I recall correctly, you mentioned recently that for a while you were only interested in girls and thought you might've been a lesbian. Is this true and if so when was it you realised you were into men as well?

Yes that's true 🙂 While growing up and at school I only liked girls, very specific girls at that but I never liked boys. I mean I was friends with them but I never saw it as anything else, even when I was in my mid teens and all my friends were getting boyfriends and snogging in the school corridors, I just didn't have the attraction. It was when I was at university and going out with friends that I found a guy attractive, just one guy but it hit me like a ton of bricks. I had the same feelings when I saw him that I got when I saw a cute girl. For the first time in my life, I wanted to kiss a man.

I consider myself bisexual but I lean very heavily towards women. There are a few guys I find attractive but probably ten times more women.

[UnauthorisedGuy 510]

18 hours ago, Sophie said:

I consider myself bisexual but I lean very heavily towards women. There are a few guys I find attractive but probably ten times more women.

Given that you're more attracted to women, are you surprised you married a guy? Did you consider whether or not you wanted to be in a long-term relationship with a guy before accepting your husband's proposal?

Edited March 6, 2023 by UnauthorisedGuy

[Schmitty20 313]

Sophia Thank you so much for answering these questions. You certainly have some great stories about real life situations. I really enjoy all the content you post.

are you someone who finds yourself putting off going to the Bathroom when you first have to go and find yourself really squirming and dancing around trying to hold it and then have to really hurry and sometimes just make it in time and sometimes have little accidents in your panties?

[Sophie 24,412]

16 hours ago, Sorin said:

Hi. What size do you think the ideal penis is?

 

Short answer - Whatever is connected to my lover.

Long answer - I don't think there is an ideal size.

I have only slept with one guy so I cannot speak from experience, but from talking with my friends they have all told me the best sex they have had hasn't necessarily been from the guy who is the largest, or the guy who is XYZ size. There is no perfect penis. They have had just as much fun or even more fun with a smaller guy than a larger guy. My husband isn't the largest, or the widest, or the biggest show-er or whatever, but damn does he feel good inside me. I don't have a single complaint.  It isn't about the tool, it's how you use it.

[Sophie 24,412]

10 hours ago, UnauthorisedGuy said:

Given that you're more attracted to women, are you surprised you married a guy? Did you consider whether or not you wanted to be in a long-term relationship with a guy before accepting your husband's proposal?

I'm not surprised that I married a guy, some of my friends were, but not me. I knew I liked both genders so I didn't rule out marrying a man. When my husband proposed, heck, when we were dating, my sexuality never really made much impact on anything. I loved him, the fact he was male was irrelevant.

[Sophie 24,412]

2 hours ago, Schmitty20 said:

Sophia Thank you so much for answering these questions. You certainly have some great stories about real life situations. I really enjoy all the content you post.

are you someone who finds yourself putting off going to the Bathroom when you first have to go and find yourself really squirming and dancing around trying to hold it and then have to really hurry and sometimes just make it in time and sometimes have little accidents in your panties?

It's Sophie, please. Sophie.

You are welcome.

It depends on what I am doing really. If I'm just relaxing and not really doing anything I will get up and go to the toilet, but if I am busy with something, especially if it has a definitive end I will often hold it and squirm and dance. For example, if I am sat on the sofa watching TV I will get up and go to the toilet, depending on what I am watching I might not even wait until an ad break. If I am sat doing things for work and I have 30 books to mark, I will hold it until I have finished those 30 books.

If I am in bed I will jiggle about for ages. It would be much easier to just have a wee and get comfy again but that's giving up!

[navesink01 157]

On 3/25/2018 at 11:22 PM, Sophie said:

I've peed in a mens room toilet before but never let others see me. I think I'd be too shy.

I'll PM you the message board  

can you PM me the mesaage boaed as well?  Thank you.

[Sophie 24,412]

2 minutes ago, navesink01 said:

can you PM me the mesaage boaed as well?  Thank you.

The community has since closed down. Sorry.

[navesink01 157]

On 4/10/2021 at 5:23 PM, Sophie said:

1. My two beautiful daughters. Every day I am reminded that I have managed to create something so amazing, and raise them to be the truly incredible people they are today.
2. My teaching. I am so, so proud of being a teacher. Knowing that i have helped change peoples lives, help them have successful careers, help them be happy. Every day someone learns something from me, I feel incredibly proud. Every time someone does well in an exam, or every time I get a thank you from my pupils or their parents. Every time I see something "click" for my pupils.
3. My marriage. I am so proud of having such a loving and wonderful relationship with my husband. We're not a perfect couple, I don't think anyone is, but I wouldn't want to spend my life with anyone else. We make each other so happy, and we have achieved so much together. I can only feel proud.

In no particular order...

1. Cowgirl position, I love being on top and in control. I'm not into domination by any means but I love being able to control the pace, depth, angle, etc. I can really take my time and climax when I want to, and I think it's a loving position too, and very versatile. I can be leaning forward, being held by my husband while we kiss or I could be sat more upright, giving him a wonderful view of my breasts. For example.
2. I love being blindfolded, lightly tied up and my husband doing the pleasuring, usually with a small vibrator. I love not knowing what's happening, what's coming next. He will bring me right to the edge of climax and then stop, letting me calm down before repeating it over and over again. Until one time he doesn't, he keeps the toy there and gives me the orgasm I desperately crave. I love not knowing when it will be, if he'll make me stop or if he'll let me cum.
3. I enjoy trying to do things while I'm being pleasured, and I had best give an example for this. I'll sit on a chair with a vibrator buzzing away between my legs and I will be set a challenge, count down from 100 for example, or name the elements on the periodic table. It sounds easy at first but having the toy buzzing away, and the pleasure rising is SO distracting. It quickly gets to the point where I can't even count, and I forget where I am. I'll go through the 50's three times in a row or something, and eventually I cannot take it any longer, my mind goes blank as a powerful orgasm surges through me. Here's a video example! The main part is at 5:30 but I strongly recommend watching the whole thing.

 

on your third method, have you ever watched the video series of women reading while someone works on them with a vibrator?  They try to read the text, which becomes inceasingly difficult.  It seems to have beem a mainstream project, with many women featured.  I could find the link and post it, if you would like.

[Sophie 24,412]

10 minutes ago, navesink01 said:

on your third method, have you ever watched the video series of women reading while someone works on them with a vibrator?  They try to read the text, which becomes inceasingly difficult.  It seems to have beem a mainstream project, with many women featured.  I could find the link and post it, if you would like.

Hysterical Literature? I posted a video in the reply you quoted. 🙂

[navesink01 157]

56 minutes ago, Sophie said:

Hysterical Literature? I posted a video in the reply you quoted. 🙂

Yes, sorry, I should have clicked the link before I asked that question.  I do think these videos are very erotic.  However, I also know that there must be some women where those circumstances would make it impossible for them to cum.   Was the assistant, under the table that good?  

[navesink01 157]

Thank you so much for all of these posts.  I just read through them all to make sure my questions were not repeats.  

1.  Does a full bladder make you horny?  

2.  Does having a full bladder enhance your sexual experience?  I know you said a bursting bladder does not.  The question just regards fullness.  

 

[Sophie 24,412]

On 3/7/2023 at 4:03 AM, navesink01 said:

1.  Does a full bladder make you horny?  

Yes and no. It depends on the situation. I have fairly recently learned I enjoy the feeling of a full bladder, full but not bursting. It is something I can enjoy on my own with nobody knowing what I am doing. So if it is something I am doing for fun it can make me feel horny sometimes. I feel naughty. But if I am in a situation where I have a full bladder simply because I cannot empty it, I don’t really enjoy it. Usually at that moment I don’t want to be desperate, I just want to pee and carry on with my day.

On 3/7/2023 at 4:03 AM, navesink01 said:

2.  Does having a full bladder enhance your sexual experience?  I know you said a bursting bladder does not.  The question just regards fullness.  

This also depends on the situation for me. If I am fooling around with my husband I rather enjoy it, again it makes me feel naughty or sexy. Straddling his lap to kiss while I have that subtle feeling of a full bladder… oh it’s amazing. I don’t enjoy a full bladder during sex, or even oral. I can’t relax and enjoy myself, I’m always thinking about needing to pee.

[Sophie 24,412]

On 3/7/2023 at 6:31 AM, Sorin said:

Hi Sophie. Do you like to pee in your boyfriend's mouth?

Neither myself or my husband enjoy pee drinking to any degree. So the last thing either of us want is to pee in his mouth.

[steamlover6 751]

A quick question that has interested me for quite a while, and you are so lovely when you answer anything...so here's my question.

When you have been in a situation of having to hold your pee for quite a while due to the circumstances around you, then at long last suddenly that opportunity presents itself for you to be able to pee but you are really absolutely bursting at this point and can't hold it a second longer... what thoughts go through your mind? - assuming you are in a skirt, or have already removed leggings - do you take your pantie down first, or think 'what the hell' and just let go in your pantie while you are still wearing it? I would love to know your thoughts in a situation like this, and perhaps what other ladies might think too in this same situation..?  x

[Sophie 24,412]

On 3/9/2023 at 5:02 PM, steamlover6 said:

A quick question that has interested me for quite a while, and you are so lovely when you answer anything...so here's my question.

When you have been in a situation of having to hold your pee for quite a while due to the circumstances around you, then at long last suddenly that opportunity presents itself for you to be able to pee but you are really absolutely bursting at this point and can't hold it a second longer... what thoughts go through your mind? - assuming you are in a skirt, or have already removed leggings - do you take your pantie down first, or think 'what the hell' and just let go in your pantie while you are still wearing it? I would love to know your thoughts in a situation like this, and perhaps what other ladies might think too in this same situation..?  x

I think I understand what you are asking, and it is very situational dependent so I am going to answer it a couple of times if that's okay?

Let's say I am at work, or some public toilets somewhere. I've just walked into the ladies, locked the stall door and as I am hitching up my skirt the floodgates open. If my skirt is already up out of the way and I can very quickly pull down my underwear I will do so and sit down, trying to minimise the damage to my clothes. If I had started peeing a little earlier, perhaps while I was walking (running!) into the ladies, I would probably just lift up my skirt and pee through my underwear. They are already beyond saving so I may as well just sit down and avoid a puddle on the floor.

However, this would change if I was about to head home from work and / or I was feeling very naughty. I would lift up my skirt and sit down on the toilet with my underwear in place, purposefully peeing through them. Afterwards I would take them off and hide them in my bag or something, or if I was feeling extremely naughty and it was the end of the day, I would keep them on while I walked or drove home!

If I was wearing trousers or leggings I would try to pull them down at all costs. I don't want to be walking around with visibly wet clothes!

Everything changes when I am at home. I have access to clean, dry clothes so I can relax and enjoy myself a little more. There has been many times where I have come home bursting for a wee and just sat down on the toilet, not even trying to save my clothes. I have done it many times on purpose, I have sat down, and even waited several seconds before I started peeing. Tight jeans are a common one for me. I will start peeing as I walk into the bathroom and I know there is no way I will be able to get them unbuttoned, pulled down and pull my underwear down in time, especially if I am wearing a belt too, so I don't even try. I just sit down on the toilet, smile at myself in the mirror opposite, and let the denim get the full deluge.

[navesink01 157]

I would like to further explore when you say that when you are feeling extremely naughty, and wearing a skirt, you pee in your underwear, keep them on, and go home.  What type of underwear material do you like when you do that?  You say that you either walk or drive home.  I get how you conceal the walk, but how do you conceal sitting in your car, with wet underwear?

Thank you again for being so informative.

[Sophie 24,412]

5 hours ago, Sorin said:

Hi. Do you use a vibrator? If so, what model?

I use several. 

I have a Tracey Cox Supersex Bullet Vibrator

A Lovenese Lush

A Pipedream Icicles No 4 (Glass!!) with detachable vibrator

and a Lovehoney Silencer

[Sophie 24,412]

On 3/11/2023 at 2:13 PM, navesink01 said:

I would like to further explore when you say that when you are feeling extremely naughty, and wearing a skirt, you pee in your underwear, keep them on, and go home.  What type of underwear material do you like when you do that?  You say that you either walk or drive home.  I get how you conceal the walk, but how do you conceal sitting in your car, with wet underwear?

Thank you again for being so informative.

Sorry to keep you waiting for a response!

When I do this I like to wear something really thin, like a mesh thong or lace. Something that will dry quickly. And if I am going to drive home I make sure I will be able to get inside and get changed without being seen. I'll be honest, it's not often I do it in public. If I am wetting myself through my skirt, 90% of the time it is at home on my own toilet and I can just go into my bedroom to get changed.

[steamlover6 751]

On 3/11/2023 at 12:41 PM, Sophie said:

I am going to answer it a couple of times if that's okay?

Sophie,

That was such a beautiful and very thoughtful way in which you took the trouble to answer the intriguing question I put to you, for each of the different situations you described. It was like a very personal answer just for me, although realising of course its for all of us here, but answered in such a meaningful and measured way which made it all the more real and truly exciting for me, and others too, to read.   I really do thank you, you are so lovely to share these pleasures with at all times., we are so lucky to have you with us.

I was also just wondering whether you got to enjoy that naughty pee down in the city that you were considering doing a short while ago. I know all the little alleys and corners jn your lovely city and I would love to be thinking to myself, although I wasn't with you - you enjoyed a lovely wild and much needed pee just there..! Our pee streams may have actually met!